[Here We Go!]

jusr try and invision how your partner see you.try and look thru their eyes.he might still see you as sexy as hell.10lbs......is that all!!!???we all put on a little weight as we get older.wish 10 lbs was all I have put on since hight school.....lol

[Please Help, Need Advice]

Don't be intimidated by him.Talk to him and learn what he knows.Put what you learned into practice.Not all of it at once,but try one new thing you have discussed every time the two of you are together.Before you know it you wil be as experienced as he is.
Thats when the real fun begins!!Remember your only limited by your imagination.
Good luck and have fun.