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Actually Rabbit it's very sweet.......... I've always been open and unapologetic about my sexuality, it works for me. And I do believe that women have desires and fantasies that sometimes get squelched by parents, religion, society... makes me sad. About the porn statement, yes they get paid to pretend to like what's happening to them. Do they really? Probably some do and some don't. I heard an interview with Katie I can't think of her last name, she was in Zac and Miri make a porno doing anal but she said in real life she doesn't care for it. I can't say I like everything single thing but I'm usually up for trying most anything once. Glad to hear your wife found a way to regain her sexy self!! Have fun!!

Yes... with trust of course. Trust is big to be able to get wholly in the moment. Would/have you solicited off a Craigslist, AFF, POF, type place? Why or why not?

Yes but I'm never annoyed, sometimes you just have to take matters into your own hands so you can move on with the task at hand. Do you discuss your fantasies with your SO? Do you censor them somewhat or are you totally honest?

OK I should have said comfortable/familiar...... because to me really knowing someone and trusting them opens the door for soooo much exploration. I can't choose, there's a time and place for both and both are necessary for a healthy relationship IMNSHO. Have you had sex in all the rooms of your house?

I'm not sure why she thinks you being unhappy and unsatisfied is ok? Maybe counseling is the next step, life is tooo long to be unhappy. Good luck.

LOL PLENTY of lube......... Could be fun. Which is hotter to you..... a one night stand with the wild and crazy, never gonna see you again sex, or the trusting, know all your buttons, old shoe sex?

I think threesomes + should be like vacation sex type experience. Have fun while you're there but what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas.

Yes, I just never knew how I'd explain those giant hooks in the ceiling to my mom or gramma at Christmas........ I can be restrained but only if I trust that person implicitly. If I bought you a toy having to do with anal even though you've told me anal isn't your deal would you try it or continue to say no to any experiences at all. PS an Aneros not an Anal Intruder 2000.

Great lists guys!! I'm not giving up hope! And RG, I can only see one thing on your list for your wife that would be not doable. Has she had her testosterone/hormones checked?

Thanks! And no not really, I've always felt I like sex like a man, with a man's drive. (yeah for me!) Sad to say most women my age seem to be want to be on the decline with sex, I don't understand......

Anything about me that turns him on is good in my book. Ok there are a couple things but in general it's all good. I've sent my panties in his suitcase when he travels as a surprise, he was. And I've taken them off in the restroom while we're out and gave them to him when I got back, he can't think of much else after that can he?!

Just wondered if you all have a sexual bucket list? I can't say mine has been written in stone but there are a couple more things I'd like to try before I die..... MFF, go to a sex club, use a strap on on my man. What are some of yours, you brave enough to tell us???

Yes, it's actually on my bucket list but I can't talk a man into letting me. We tease about it all the time... and sometimes when he bends over in front of me I grab him by the hips and hump him..... It is pretty funny... Does the thought of a sex slave turn you on?

Yes I'm sure I'd have a great time I'm a huge voyeur, I'm not sure how much of a participant I'd be at first........ Do you find it hot to film your sex sessions?

I'm not sure about ice, haven't had much experience with incorporating into sex. Would you have a threesome? FFM? MMF? Bring it on I don't care which one!

Yes! Does mutual masturbation make you hot?

Janiva is sexy! Go listen to Carolyn Wonderland live at Texas Burning, I live alone with someone on Youtube. She blows me away. And of course, SRV is my ultimate fave, Chris Cain is a close second though and a super nice guy. I think if more men understood that most women love erotica they'd be writing fools! Actually, if men realized that women think about and want sex just like they do instead of thinking we're princess' we all be happier. IMNSHO.... Is sex hotter away from home and the routine? ie... hotel sex, camping sex, sex anywhere but your bedroom?

I'm a blues lover so I get it.... Love Eddie Turner and John Lee Hooker, slow groove. Yes, some for romance and some for naughty sex. Is involving fruit in the bedroom hot? I have this thing I do with a peach..........

I'm not sure he'd want to suck them after you put desensitizing cream on them, wonder if they make something that tastes good? Even flavored lube has a weird taste to me..... so I might just be picky lol

I think it was sort of a trick question... of course with every new partner you have to figure out what and how they like things. I love that part but if someone was totally inexperienced I'd have a problem with that. God yes!! The last encounter is usually the one swimming in my brain..... Does certain music make you feel sexual?

Yes but I'm not sure anyone else would like it....... Does it make you hotter when someone knows what they're doing or to have to teach them?

I have so many questions but will start with..... take it easy on yourself! You have soooo much time to figure this out, I realize you're frustrated but maybe you ' are making it harder than it needs to be. Sort of like when a man has an off day or two and he starts thinking maybe he's losing it and once you get in your head it becomes a self fulfilling event. First, are you on any medications? Anti depressants are notorious for inhibiting orgasms. Can you come through masturbation? That's where I'd concentrate if I were you, figuring out what pleases us so we can show our partners is important since everyone is different. When I first met my SO it seemed like he'd never figure how I liked oral sex, I guess he was doing what he'd done for 25 years with his ex but it sure wasn't what I needed. He finally did after some gentle redirection and praise. YEA!! Do you use lube? It can make ALL the difference! If you are having trouble with clitoral orgasms does it feel any better during penetration? What does your Dr. say?? It's not hopeless just frustrating I know. Could you be having them and aren't really sure? And Ergot2 my man has an average length/plus sized girth and this is the truth, I NEVER had g-spot orgasms till I met him. It seems for my body anyway that too long of a penis just doesn't hit me in the right place.... I mean I have to beg him to stop before I become dehydrated. ps I had to make a special blanket so I didn't ruin the bedding or furniture and I could relax. Give me short and fat anyday!!

Good answer!! I have a friend who sky dives (no I'm not, I try to stay ON the plane when I'm there) but he always says he's not gonna die on his couch.

I think it depends, while I'm not into huge degradation sex acts, playing a little is sometimes nice. Porn geared toward that is acting and unless the woman making the porn is a slave of some type it's her choice to be there.

LOL I said ME watch you.......... Yes, being restrained is a huge turn on with someone you trust implicitly. Speaking of toys... would it make you hot to use a DP toy on your partner?