Members katens2002 Posted September 17, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 17, 2009 Help!! My boyfriend is a wonderful, sweet, caring, completely inexperienced guy who is more than willing to learn anything I have to teach him. He is also a little... disproportionate. We have to buy XL condums, but his length doesn't match his girth. I've never been with a guy who was really huge so it isn't a total deal breaker with me, but I'd like to figure out how to compensate - like what positions or techniques will help. Sex isn't the most important thing in our relationship, and it's not like it's terrible, but it could definitely improve. Part of that is just practice (which we are both more than willing to do!), but practice doesn't help much if you are practicing the wrong techniques. Can anyone recomend anything? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted September 17, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 17, 2009 So what your saying is your man is short and wide so to speak? If that's the case how short could he be? I read somewhere the average women is only about 4-inches deep inside and elongates when aroused. I don't remember where I read it. Check this out: Postion Finder Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members katens2002 Posted September 18, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 So what your saying is your man is short and wide so to speak? If that's the case how short could he be? I read somewhere the average women is only about 4-inches deep inside and elongates when aroused. I don't remember where I read it. Check this out: Postion FinderYeah, pretty much. He's six inches, top, when fully erect. More like 5 and a half. It's not like he's incredibly tiny, but he's not exactly big either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted September 18, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 Yeah, pretty much. He's six inches, top, when fully erect. More like 5 and a half. It's not like he's incredibly tiny, but he's not exactly big either.technically he's average. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted September 18, 2009 Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 Yeah, pretty much. He's six inches, top, when fully erect. More like 5 and a half. It's not like he's incredibly tiny, but he's not exactly big either.sounds like the ideal size XD9 times out of 10 women choose short and wide over narrow and long Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members crossroads123 Posted September 18, 2009 Members Report Share Posted September 18, 2009 I surely don't know what your use to but 5 1/2" to 6 " would be in the average for american males. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mickey2076 Posted October 11, 2009 Members Report Share Posted October 11, 2009 Hi Katens, I recently was just involved in a relationship in which this issue became our ultimate undoing...My partner was a beautiful,honest woman,and she really did have feelings for me, but wasnt able to to get past this problem...the difference is my size has been a problem for me in the past(my penis is a little less than 4 inches erect)...so I think you and your partner will be fine,I think you will find some great people on this site,who will be happy to help you..I know they did for me....good luck 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted October 13, 2009 Report Share Posted October 13, 2009 sounds like the ideal size XD9 times out of 10 women choose short and wide over narrow and long Yep!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members elise Posted October 13, 2009 Members Report Share Posted October 13, 2009 Wide is wonderful... I am blessed with a man who is both very long and very thick, but if I had to choose one over the other, I'll take thickness. If you crave the sensation of deeper penetration, you can try putting a set of ben-wa balls in your vagina first, placing them as deeply as possible. This worked for me years ago when I was with a man who was built like your guy. We eventually broke up, but not over his penis size. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 14, 2009 Members Report Share Posted October 14, 2009 size shouldn't matter as long as he's hard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members garry Posted October 15, 2009 Members Report Share Posted October 15, 2009 size shouldn't matter as long as he's hard.I think you gave all the guys a great boost of confidence with that post Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 15, 2009 Members Report Share Posted October 15, 2009 I think you gave all the guys a great boost of confidence with that post I hope it had anther side effect too........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 26, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 On 10/13/2009 at 10:45 PM, ladylove said: size shouldn't matter as long as he's hard. VERY true. If he's hard, some really vigorous action, especially for an extended period, is about as good as it gets! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Noughty mind Posted September 26, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 2 hours ago, Dancer said: VERY true. If he's hard, some really vigorous action, especially for an extended period, is about as good as it gets! Check out my new profile pic. That thing is hard all the time. 😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 26, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 5 minutes ago, Noughty mind said: That thing is hard all the time. 😁 Oh my yes! And apparently very fertile as well! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Noughty mind Posted September 26, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 12 minutes ago, Dancer said: Oh my yes! And apparently very fertile as well! Yes ma'am. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Noughty mind Posted September 26, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 26, 2023 12 minutes ago, Noughty mind said: Yes ma'am. You should share some pictures with me someday.. 😜 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiptaste Posted November 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted November 23, 2023 I know men who use a pump to increase length and girth before putting a cock ring on. Helps with the erection too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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