Whoa Girl Cum

[Matthew Dark]

Alright so first I wanted to pat myself on the back for eating my first pussy on Monday june 12th i am not much of an experienced sex partner (or speller ) so i am not super familiar with the less publicized aspects of sex so I have a few questions about it. Here's how it started:

monday was my birthday and i had plans to hang out with my guy friends later in the day but a good friend of mine who happens to be a girl called me up to hang with her for a few hours before hand. So she treated me to Cold Stone and we went back to her place to pick up a book she bought me. We're pretty good friends so we can talk about almost anything. soon the whole boys vs. girls topic came up and she asked me "Why are boys so obsessed with blow jobs?" I shrugged and said "it feels great" She knows I can do it to myself so she asked me about the details. Finally I asked her "why are most girls so shady on the topic of oral sex?" and she said "All my girlfriends who have tried it complain about the taste of penis and all that and we talk about how it's gross and whatnot but most of us have never been eaten out before and we secretly wonder what it's like." I shrugged. And she said "Have you ever eaten out a girl before?" and I said truthfully "No." and she said "Wanna try it?"

Now to be honest, i was NOT expecting that question. But I was so curious I had to say yes. so I did and she got naked and said she wanted me to as well. So I did and she sat on the couch and spread her legs and here I hesitated. I've watched enough porn and heard enough rumors to know the basics of where it feels good and how to tease and I assumed the rest would come naturally. I figured since this was my first time tasting a pussy and her first time getting tasted it would be a learning experience for both of us. by god it was that! I started with the usual textbook fingering around the lips and clitoris and teasing until she was damp and then I moved my face in. I've heard that pussy does not smell good or taste good either for that matter and so i was a bit apprehensive. But I found her to be only slightly redolent at all. The scent I DID pick up actually got me a hard-on. So I kept going and found the taste to be equally erotic. Having tasted my own penis and cum, I can say that pussy tastes quite a bit better. I licked around the labia and used my fingers on the clit and then vice-versa and I even tried what I thought to be the boy on girl version of a deepthroat by sticking my tongue all the way inside of her while making out with her vaginal lips. I went at it, I little hesitantly albeit, and after about 10 minutes she was shuddering and quivering all over and told me she was going to cum.

Here's where my ignorance put a brick wall in front of me. I had never been this close to a volatile pussy before and I was nervous. What do i do now? I decided to try the deep tongue thing and fingered her clit while my lips made out with her pussy. That worked well I presume because she loudly moaned "ohmygod ohmygod ohmygod!!!!" Like that and suddenly there was a strange, warm, slightly greasy fluid pouring out of her onto my face and into my mouth. A LOT of it! More than when I cum. I was so surprised I almost choked. it had very little taste to me so i was surprised. I cleaned up and she thanked me and said she'd pay me back some day. And I left. The End.

my question is this: What was that stuff? How common is that? Did I do alright for my first time?

[nosleepnmesa]

WOW!!!! Great Job! Howard is very correct that was her cum, and I have to say just from a womens point of view that you did a wonderful job there. What a wonderful discribtion to.

Howard gave you some wonderful ideas and stuff and pretty much took all the words right out of my mouth.

Keep us posted but call her up and do it again great job.

[hrnychick]

I have to agree job well done!!! Also a happy belated birthday to you........what a great b-day gift just to bad you didnt get a bj in return that night but im sure she will return the favor soon.

One thing that I would like to add for your nest go round with this girl or another is after you have fingered her and you have her nice and wet why not slide you hands up while your tongue is doing the work and play with her tits.

I ofcourse do not know if that girl you were with would enjoy that for sure but I dont see why not..........For me it is a must........once my guys is in the spot and he reaches up and starts to play it sends me to my big O faster.

Other then my tid bit of a suggestion you did everything good and you know you did cause she came all over you..........so call her again and do it again cause the more you do it the less nervous you will be and the more you will just know what to do and not question yourself about any of it.

True she should instruct you to exactly what feels good and what doesnt but that being her first time being "eaten out" im sure she has learned from it as well......so next time if she offers some advice to get things rolling along do not be surprised or think you dont know what you are doing because you do.....its just once she is in tune with her body and with being "eaten out" she will know just where her sweet spot is and what "buttons to push" to get her to a nice big O

Matthew high five to you and keep us posted!!!!

[Matthew Dark]

Thanks so much for the advice guys! I called her after reading your posts to talk with her about it and we actually had no awkwardness or discomfort discussing it and she told me she rarely masturbates, once a week at most she says because she is so busy and before I had given her head she hadn't had an orgasm in over a month because she was caught up with other things. The weird thing is, I have no romantic or sexual interest in her in a long term. She told me that she doesn't have any romantic interest in me either, but has wanted me to do that to her since I met her so i was kinda taken aback Then we talked about the prospect of something else happening between us, some new encounter as she put it. she said she'd give me a BJ later today so I am kinda excited about that. She's never given one before, but I know enough about BJs so I'll take Howard's advice and tell her about what pleasures me. it might even be fun. And yeah i definitely agree with you Howard, men who are too proud to take instructions from a woman are foolish. I'm gonna ask her what I can do to make her feel better if there's a next time. Even if nothing comes of this, we can fool around and experiment I guess. I'll let you guys know how tonight goes!

[hrnychick]

Matthew,

Sounds like a friend with benefits here and thats not a bad thing in any way.......you are both young and single so what if you dont have a romantic interest.....as long as you know you BOTH have no strings attached to your encounters then GO FOR IT

Now for the part of your reply when you said you hope your bj will be fun......come-on you have a girl sucking your cock and you are her first.......some advice or helpful hints maybe needed but then who knows she could just be a natural.........but never the less fun for both.......and I agree with Howard the next encounter should be while you have her there and she is giving you head,,,,,,,,just let one thing lead to another and before you know it both of you came and are relaxed and maybe even a bit sleepy.......lol

Keep us posted and have fun

[nosleepnmesa]

Matthew, woohoo you go. Sounds to me like a friend with benefits to. Next time heck next time is the time she is giving you a BJ. Sounds like you both have a great friendship with a little benefit to and great communication skills. Hopefully you both can continue to have these little pleasurable moments and learn from each on oral.

You never know!

keep us posted

[hopingtotry]

great job!

I second the "its your job to instruct" part! An example.....

The man i dated prior to getting married, loved to have the area behind his balls lightly stroked when getting a BJ.

My husband loved/required having his balls played with the whole time.

Current boyfriend HATES having his balls touched, and would rather nothing go near the back door. LOL.

We are all differnt, and so THAT is why you have to instruct her, and listen when she instructs you!

ALSO----i never enjoyed receiveing oral until current Boyfriend. He "discovered" one night what makes me cum with oral. he says after a few minuted of kissing, licking, touching, etc, etc, that my clit gets really hard so he waits until right then to go near it, then he jsut devoures! I always cum within 10 seconds of him doing that. Then he will pull away, lick and kiss my thighs, then go right back to it. One night i came TEN times in a row, back to back, all super fast. It was amazing, and beleive it or not, was so mind blowing, i got a headache from it! LOL...but damn was it good!

Good luck!

[Matthew Dark]

Wow what a day! Alright so she told me she was coming over at 5:00 PM and I checked the nearest time-keeper: a watch I never use that was on the night stand. It said 3:57 so I had tons of time. So I go to take a bath and I get naked and I start to wash up when she knocks on the door! I realized my damn watch was an hour off! So I got dressed hastily and let her in and she noticed I was about to bathe and told me she wanted to watch me. I was surprised but I let her as I grabbed for the soap. She took off her clothes and straddled me in the bath tub (I was taking a bath) and told me to get on my knees. I guess she was in a dominant mood or something because she told me to get on my knees and pleasure her with my mouth. I shrugged and I went ahead. I did most of what I’d done on Monday, but I tried a couple things new. I slid my hands around her buttocks and smoothly rubbed the backs of her legs and her butt as I orally pleasured her. She came again but there wasn’t as much secretion. I don’t know what caused the change in her but she had been so much more hesitant the first time and now she moaned and grabbed my hair and pulled my face in! I dunno if she was just putting on a show or what. I couldn't tell how many times she came, maybe three, maybe six I have no idea but she shuddered and bucked up and down and gave little squealy noises with each contraction. Anyway, she finished cumming and slowed her breathing and then pushed me back into the water with a splash and told me she wanted to wash me. I lay back and let her scrub me up and it felt so . . .wonderful!

I was almost drifting off with relaxation until she started to wash my inner thighs and, as she rubbed my legs (which felt extremely sensual) she leaned down and licked at my genitals without aim. She then told me to stand up so I did and she began to seal her part of the bargain. I was amazed. She teased just enough to the point where I almost begged her to take me in her mouth and then she ran her tongue over my balls until I quivered and then she made eye contact with me and licked slowly up the main vein on the bottom of my semi-hard cock. She was almost professional.

She tongued the head of my penis and giggled when it hardened. She then proceeded to suck me off by taking half of the shaft in her mouth, pursing her lips and just applying suction with her mouth. I was shaking by this point and she slowly slid off, applying more and more suction as she slid off until my penis was all the way out. I breathed for a moment, then she, out of nowhere, placed her fingers on the base of my penis and opened her mouth wide and slid me all the way into her mouth! She deep-throated me! I was so taken aback the pleasure hit me a few seconds later and I couldn’t help but moan. She just stayed like that, bobbing her head slightly and letting her tongue go insane on the bottom of my shaft and then she thrust back and forth with her head and lips several times until she felt me bucking in her mouth and she finished me by shoving her head forward, deep-throating me while licking the bottom of my shaft and, with her pinned lips, kissed my pelvic area and used both her hands, one to tickle my basement door and the other the area between my balls and ass. I came for what felt like an hour and then she licked me clean and, to my amazement, stood up and pushed me on my back and threw herself on me and French kissed me and we swapped my cum. She took half and I the other half and we both swallowed. After about 10 minutes of us just hyperventilating without words she told me she wanted me to be inside of her but I wasn’t ready for that (I’m still technically a virgin ) so I told her no and she sighed but said ok and smiled and got on her clothes and kissed me good-bye and left me there in the bathtub. I called her to ask how she performed so well and she told me she spent the last few days watching porn and asking around. Plus she’s a swimmer so I guess she can control her gag reflex or something.

What an evening! I will never forget it. We used to just be good friends and now we’re . . . well . . . something else. I’m still not sure about how I feel about all this. Most people on this forum are married or were at one point and are very sexually experienced. Not me though. Well if you guys want I’ll keep you posted on how this goes on.

[hopingtotry]

WOW Porn is a beautiful teaching tool! congrats! And don't get all hung up on the sex part. Playing is just as much if not more fun that the actual sex. PROMISE! When you are both ready, and prepared with BC, it will happen on its own. For now, find out what makes each other tick (you have a GREAT headstart!) and that way, once you do go for the gold, it will be phenominal!

[JonBTX]

Sex discovery is a fabulous thing..keep at it...!

jonB

[Imagyrl]

I absolutely 150% agree with Howard. If a woman has never had an orgasm it's her own damn fault! So many times I have listened to friends tell me that they have never had an orgasm and men in general suck in bed. HELLO??? Did you tell them that what they were doing wasn't doing it for you? Sheesh.

Now, having quite a bit of experience with female oral I can give you a couple of other fairly fault proof techniques. Foreplay is an ABSOLUTE must. Find out where her erogenous zones are. What really turns her on? Don't just think tits and ass. For a lot of us the muscle that runs from the back of the ear down to our shoulder really does it or the the upper parts of our thighs (back and front). Observe her physical responses not just her audible ones because once you are down there it's hard to read her face! If a touch doesn't seem to be doing it for her...change the direction, change the tempo, change the amount of pressure. Keep changing until you find JUST the right touch...in JUST the place that turns her on.

At this point, let her know what you plan to do to her. Not with words but with actions. Using your weakest hand (for most of us this is your left) cup her vagina with so that your palm is at the top of her hood while still occupying her senses in other areas! Use your weakest because sometimes we don't always know the strength of our own fingers and probing around with our good hand could lead to ouchies. Besides you want your good hand to continue its other foreplay pursuits and your weak hand to get strong so that you can later impress your wife with your newfound ambidextrous fingers! Try applying pressure with your palm....ABSOLUTELY NO fingers at this point. Remember, you want to tease the hell out of her! 9 times out of 10 she will start grinding with your palm and she now knows what's coming and is going to get even more excited. NOW, we can start to get down to business. Clit first gentlemen. Nothing sucks more than not being excited enough before you plunge finger first into our vaginas. OUCH. With your palm still cupping her dip your middle finger into the vagina. Search for the area between her vaginal hole and her clit. Do your homework first...figure out her geography. Trace her opening lightly with your finger and then move up to lightly trace the clit. The distance between her hole and her clit is important for future "tricks"! This also allows you to see exactly how wet she really is and to work her natural lube around for easy access later! In optimal circumstances if you've read her right and turned her on this area is going to be brimming!!!

Ready to take the plunge gentlemen? Remember all of our bodies are different. Every woman is going to have a distinctive smell and texture and every vagina is different. Reading body language is CRUCIAL to hot oral sex. And as always Howard is right on in saying that it's O.K to wash up before hand. As a matter of fact it's super important. Our vaginas are a fragile ecosystem of bacteria. If your hands are even REMOTELY dirty they could cause an irritating infection and an odor that you gentlemen often refer to as "fishy". This is most commonly bacterial vaginosis which is more common in women than a yeast infection. So, if you want to avoid future periods of no sex and an irritated woman...CLEAN UP! I recommend a new product that I know TooTimid is carrying by Topcat. They are antibacterial handwipes that I ALWAYS keep in my dresser drawer because, frankly, nothing is quite as unromantic as getting all hot and heavy and then tromping off to the bathroom to wash your hands. Be prepared...keep them always on hand and keep them handy!

As I've said, a couple of times, all of us are different and our clits are no exception. One general distinction holds true in that all are basically shaped like an upside down V. While generally the bottom end of our clit (the end closer to our hole) is sensitive it mostly serves as an extra amount of friction for the penis during intercourse. The crux of our V is where most of the action is at and where if clitorally masterbating the majority of us focus our attention. Just like a goose formation no one wants to be at the back of that V and you will be no exception! With your finger you will want to find out what amount of pressure and what direction she likes being touched in. This is important because you still have access to her facial expressions. Remember, if you want to be good at this...you WON'T be coming up for air! *wink* If you feel very comfortable ask her how she masterbates. Even have her show you. FYI....it's damn HOT to see her touching herself in front of you!

Once you think you have it down it's time to put your "practice" to the test! Start heading south. Don't be a boob. Do it slowly and deliberately. Even if she's hot and panting...make her wait. Of course oral is all about her but...you're the one in control. Do what she likes but, do it at YOUR pace. That's what will make her beg for more! Once you are down there still tease her while you both are getting comfortable. Comfort is KEY here. You have to be able to last. Women, typically speaking, are a LOT harder to get off than men. For her, I want a pillow under her ass. It gets her in a better position for penetration, creates an ergonomical angle for my head and most importantly allows for more breathing room!

Once settled you will want to practice what you were doing with your fingers...only do it with your tongue. You had better not be afraid of getting down and dirty cause this is when the real fun begins! Use your least functional hand to hold back the top of the vagina. Now, do this in a hot, sexy way. We aren't being dissected here! Remember the clit isn't just on the outside folks! I read recently that applying pressure to the top of a woman's mound will stimulate the rest of the clit. I've tried it and low and behold it works. For me, I take my entire hand and place it on the top of her mound and then pull back. Almost EXACTY as Howard suggested!!! The only difference is I tilt my hand down on her mound and apply a slight amount of pressure. Almost as if you are saluting someone on her stomach. This also raises my favorite part of a woman's clit I fondly refer to as the "kernel" which when touched generally elicits an audible response. Now, I didn't bring it up earlier because the "kernel" is at the dead center of that V and is EXTREMELY sensitive. I find that, for me and most women I know, I don't like it touched with a finger. It's just too sensitive and I can't relax and focus on orgasm. However, you suck on it with the softness of a tongue and I am guaranteed to come for hours! Find this "kernel" and find it fast! I once told my friend Nick about this and his GIRLFRIEND called me up the next day and thanked me!

At the risk of sounding repetitive EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. Lick up and down, sideways, back and forth, lightly, aggressively, suck on it (my personal recommendation). Whatever it takes to get her going! Find it and do it. You may have to adjust your stance for breathing purposes and ALWAYS make sure the area in which you are working stays wet. Use your tongue to work her juices from the bottom of her vagina to the top. Not only does it redistribute the juices for ease of any friction that may occur but it gives you a break from jaw stress and a weary tongue! Whatever works for her! Now, one thing I absolutely HATE. When a girl is getting ready to come don't get all fancy. Don't decide at this last moment that you are going to pull out the Ancient Asiatic Kama Sutra move and make her night. N O folks. Keep doing what you are doing! You are obviously already doing what it takes to get her off. Doing something fancy right when she is about to come will deter your mouth from the "right there baby" spot and possibly lose her orgasm. The time for fancy pants moves are at the beginning when you are still feeling her out and reading her physical responses. Chances are she''ll hate it. There's a reason it's an ancient move!

Now for those of you with wives or girlfriends that LOVE penetration I have a couple of things to say. Do it right! If she likes one finger use the middle finger. If she likes two use the middle finger and the ring finger. DON'T USE YOUR INDEX FINGER FOR PENETRATION. Use if for leverage. Take a finger and hold down your pinky and ring fingers and pretend that you are curling your fingers in a effort to find her G-spot. Now do the same thing only hold down your index finger and your pinky. The difference is amazing. It's a more natural stance for your middle and ring fingers than your middle and index fingers. Your Pinky finger should rest on her right ass check and your index on her right ass cheek during penetration. Keeping in mind that you are right handed! Again, reading her, find out what penetration is going to be right. Plunging in and out is not the best course for massaging her G-spot and it makes it difficult to co-ordinate tongue and hand movements simultaneouly. My preference is slipping inside and curling your fingers back towards the direction of your palm. Remember the key here is massage. Moving your fingers side to side can sometimes elicit a more of an orgasm than in and out. Thankfully, I was blessed with double jointed fingers so I can move my fingers in a wave pattern while inside. Last tip, if you can two fingers in, thumb on the clit. This only works if her geography and your hand length let it. You'll really see the difference in the fingers you use for penetration with this move. Make sure to move your thumb in the direction and speed that she likes it!

Remember, some girls aren't going to like foreplay, some girls won't want you to penetrate them with your fingers and some won't even let you do down on them period. The key is getting your wife or girlfriend relaxed and communicating that you really want to experience this with them. In the bedroom two things are most important to me. Observation and cleanliness. I think you have my point about making sure you read your partner in all things but cleanliness is next to godliness and prevents a trip to the gynocologist! Gentleman, make sure your nails are trimmed and filed. You know how it feels when someone uses their teeth on you during oral. Well, nothing hurts more than long nails in a soft, moist vagina. Your callouses will feel amazing though and a woman will appreciate those! Ladies, revel in your female power. All of us smell different. It's a fact of life. You know what is normal and what isn't with your body. If you are feeling normal than, by all means, let him do his thing! Don't be afraid to let him know what makes you feel good. Good communication in bed leads to better communication outside the bedroom. If you can tell him how to lick your clit then you can certainly tell him that the garbage needs to be taken out!

[VALERIE]

DAM GREAT STORY. ARE YOU SURE THAT WAS YOUR FIRST TIME? I HAD COUPLE OF GUYS NEW TOO EATING OUT, & LET ME TELL YOU IF THEY DID AS GOOD AS IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU DID, LETS JUST SAY I MAY HAVE BEEN MARRIED A LITTLE LATER IN TIME.