Members mystofpric Posted January 15, 2012 Author Members Report Share Posted January 15, 2012 Nice to see you Suzy. Sounds like you've "cum a long way baby". Is this gentleman your GI Joe man (ie - man in the US services)?Former Marine, lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted January 16, 2012 Report Share Posted January 16, 2012 I don't think I've ever been with a man that didn't like to manually stimulate me. Some have even asked me to do myself, and let them watch for 2 reasons, one that it obviously gets them hot, and the other is so that they can see how I stimulate myself, so they can use that. Who's NOT for that????? Some men may not do that, or be comfortable with it, for the before-mentioned reasons, and they all seem to make sense. Or, they may not know how to do it right. Each woman is different, and likes to be touched differently. However, if he's REFUSING to manually stimulate you cuz he's not into it, that's a crock. It's not like you're asking him to do something gross perverted, or unrealistic. You're not asking him to watch videos of sheep, you're asking him to finger you. BIG difference!!! If he refuses to even try it, and he knows you love it, then I'd rethink a lot of things. If he's that unwilling to please you in an important aspect of the relationship (in the bedroom) with something that simple, what else will make him pause to please? How old is this guy? How experienced is he? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted January 16, 2012 Author Members Report Share Posted January 16, 2012 How old is this guy? How experienced is he?he's 27, as for how experienced, I'm not sure to be honest. But one i think i should know! So far he's gotten better at a lot of things, but like I said, we haven't been physical since we've been back together, so I hope the learning curve will continue! And that was one of the big reasons why I dumped him before, he didn't listen to a lot of things I asked for. So far though he seems to be realizing his mistakes and correcting them. We shall see this weekend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted January 16, 2012 Author Members Report Share Posted January 16, 2012 did it again double post Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ReadyToMoveOn Posted January 20, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 20, 2012 he's 27, as for how experienced, I'm not sure to be honest. But one i think i should know! So far he's gotten better at a lot of things, but like I said, we haven't been physical since we've been back together, so I hope the learning curve will continue! And that was one of the big reasons why I dumped him before, he didn't listen to a lot of things I asked for. So far though he seems to be realizing his mistakes and correcting them. We shall see this weekend Ok, I am almost twice your Mans age...So, with age comes experience...Also, There has to be a willing to want to pleasure the woman. A man has to achieve some type of satisfaction from gratifying his Woman. If that doesnt happen, then he is only putting in work, and it is never sexually gratifying if someone is only working...It has to be sexually gratifying for both partners... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted January 22, 2012 Author Members Report Share Posted January 22, 2012 Ok, I am almost twice your Mans age...So, with age comes experience...Also, There has to be a willing to want to pleasure the woman. A man has to achieve some type of satisfaction from gratifying his Woman. If that doesnt happen, then he is only putting in work, and it is never sexually gratifying if someone is only working...It has to be sexually gratifying for both partners...Well after our date last night I think I have a few things figured out. First: the reason I don't stay at his place? He live with his parents, which I have no issues about except that he could have just said that in the beginning and I would have understood. Secondly: he's super religious and I get the feeling sex is a big taboo. Which I feel like explains A LOT, including the lack of foreplay (if I give him head, I'm at fault, but if he returns the favor it complicates his sin) and his lack of experience. And I understand why he hasn't voiced these concerns yet, I'm the complete opposite. I'm not religious (spiritual though), and wicked liberal. So i can understand from his point of view where it looks like I couldn't get it. I have done a lot of soul searching, okay, mostly drunkenly, and I've decided that I'm not gonna stress. Things will either get better or they won't, but in a year I'm moving to Texas and I have no delusions about him moving with me, that just won't happen, and since he's super close with his parents but has yet to introduce me I"m pretty sure there is no ring in my future either. So i'm just going to have fun and enjoy it and part on good terms. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted January 22, 2012 Review Team Report Share Posted January 22, 2012 Well after our date last night I think I have a few things figured out. First: the reason I don't stay at his place? He live with his parents, which I have no issues about except that he could have just said that in the beginning and I would have understood. Secondly: he's super religious and I get the feeling sex is a big taboo. Which I feel like explains A LOT, including the lack of foreplay (if I give him head, I'm at fault, but if he returns the favor it complicates his sin) and his lack of experience. And I understand why he hasn't voiced these concerns yet, I'm the complete opposite. I'm not religious (spiritual though), and wicked liberal. So i can understand from his point of view where it looks like I couldn't get it. I have done a lot of soul searching, okay, mostly drunkenly, and I've decided that I'm not gonna stress. Things will either get better or they won't, but in a year I'm moving to Texas and I have no delusions about him moving with me, that just won't happen, and since he's super close with his parents but has yet to introduce me I"m pretty sure there is no ring in my future either. So i'm just going to have fun and enjoy it and part on good terms.Have I told you lately that I love you!?!?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ReadyToMoveOn Posted January 22, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 22, 2012 Have I told you lately that I love you!?!?! Only a Woman could come up with such reassuring words.How insightful you are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members square Posted January 25, 2012 Members Report Share Posted January 25, 2012 . . . I'm not religious (spiritual though), and wicked liberal. . . . .Wicked???I thought only New Englanders were sayers of "wicked." You're one, too ? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted January 26, 2012 Author Members Report Share Posted January 26, 2012 Wicked???I thought only New Englanders were sayers of "wicked." You're one, too ? New York is close enough and Mis, I love you too!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team l8niter Posted June 6, 2015 Review Team Report Share Posted June 6, 2015 I always make sure my GF gets a proper feeling and licking before we go for the gusto 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted June 8, 2015 Report Share Posted June 8, 2015 l8niter, cute screen name!!! It's good that you take the time to please your woman. I think that it should be a give and more give for both parties. And who doesn't love making their lover squirm with pleasure, knowing that they're responding to YOU??? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RC4BLUE Posted June 9, 2015 Members Report Share Posted June 9, 2015 While I am orally focused, I also enjoy manual stimulation. As a matter of fact I enjoy anything that bring pleasure to my partner. If she wants something more than another then that is what she will receive. Maybe I just like to play, but the more we play before intercourse the more fun we have. So let's do some manual stimulation and have more fun with each other. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team l8niter Posted June 9, 2015 Review Team Report Share Posted June 9, 2015 Thanks on the screen name Tyger its not the one I was going to use but I will change it soon. I have learned over the years that in order to make a relationship work its a give and take as you said. im very open with my GF shes on here too and the screen name I was going to use and hers people could put two and two together so to speak. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 24, 2017 Report Share Posted October 24, 2017 I know this is an old thread,but I can't believe there are guys out there who is afraid to touch their partners peach.I always enjoy rubbing it kissing licking it and caressing it .as well as her whole body from head to toe.the wetter the better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted December 29, 2017 Report Share Posted December 29, 2017 On 10/24/2017 at 6:55 PM, Guest said: I know this is an old thread,but I can't believe there are guys out there who is afraid to touch their partners peach.I always enjoy rubbing it kissing licking it and caressing it .as well as her whole body from head to toe.the wetter the better. Most awesome!!! That's the way it really should be. Making love should be fun, intimate, and bonding between 2 people that love each other. If it's not about that, and just about getting off, then it's just fucking, and, well, anyone can do that!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members curiosity 82 Posted October 10, 2020 Members Report Share Posted October 10, 2020 On 6/8/2015 at 2:36 PM, Tyger said: l8niter, cute screen name!!! It's good that you take the time to please your woman. I think that it should be a give and more give for both parties. And who doesn't love making their lover squirm with pleasure, knowing that they're responding to YOU??? I absolutely agree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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