Newbie Ms.A Posted September 16, 2015 Newbie Report Share Posted September 16, 2015 Ok this is a question for the ladies, men feel free to reply if you'd like. So I've had this BIG toy well for me it's bigger than I've had both in partners and toys. (9 inch 3 thick) for sometime now. Just looking at it is a complete turn on, but once it's "go time" I find it almost painful to insert. Any ladies have this problem? I do lube it up really good. My question is how do you prepare yourself to take something bigger? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RC4BLUE Posted September 16, 2015 Members Report Share Posted September 16, 2015 Big toys take a special kind of receptivity. I see you already use lube. That is a good thing. The next thing to consider is relaxation and arousal. The more relaxed you are and the more aroused you are the better. I know some women will have a better time with larger toys after they have experienced one orgasm. Others say that they need plenty of play time before using a big toy. I'd be interested to see if any women have other ideas to assist you. All the best to you... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Danceinthesheets Posted September 16, 2015 Members Report Share Posted September 16, 2015 I absolutely agree with RC...LUBE, LUBE, and MORE LUBE with PLENTY of arousal and relaxation prep...I like my dildos and men THICK so I gradually worked up to 2.25 using dildos of varying widths. I first started with a 1.5 inch, then when I got comfortable, used a 1.75 inch, then a 2 inch..I am working on a 2.25 inch now....my goal is 3 inches. I may NEVER reach that and that is OK. Because my 3 incher has CUM in handy for other uses during play...so play away sugar!!! :DOR if having to buy different sized dildos is a financial challenge then use your (or your partner's) inserted fingers with the dildo during play..one finger at a time to help you gently stretch.That has worked pretty well for me too! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bigcock Posted September 16, 2015 Members Report Share Posted September 16, 2015 I absolutely agree with RC...LUBE, LUBE, and MORE LUBE with PLENTY of arousal and relaxation prep...I like my dildos and men THICK so I gradually worked up to 2.25 using dildos of varying widths. I first started with a 1.5 inch, then when I got comfortable, used a 1.75 inch, then a 2 inch..I am working on a 2.25 inch now....my goal is 3 inches. I may NEVER reach that and that is OK. Because my 3 incher has CUM in handy for other uses during play...so play away sugar!!! :DOR if having to buy different sized dildos is a financial challenge then use your (or your partner's) inserted fingers with the dildo during play..one finger at a time to help you gently stretch.That has worked pretty well for me too! you have a 3 incher??? Why dont you show us why you got??? I would love to see and you too Ms. A , lets see you big dildo too!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Ms.A Posted September 20, 2015 Author Newbie Report Share Posted September 20, 2015 Thanks for the replies!! Looks like more foreplay for me! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bigcock Posted September 20, 2015 Members Report Share Posted September 20, 2015 Good luck:). Go slow, and use lots of lube and use a smaller one first:) you will get it in !!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted November 28, 2015 Report Share Posted November 28, 2015 More foreplay is very important. Just being a little turned on doesn't always do it. It also depends on the lube you're using. If the toy is compatible, you can use a silicone lube with it. However, if the toy is silicone, don't use silicone lube with it. Some lubes are more slick than others, even water-based ones. You may want to try a different lube altogether.Do you stimulate your clit before trying to insert the toy? This may help quite a bit actually.What's the name of the large toy you have? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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