Newbie cheesehead Posted March 30, 2016 Newbie Report Share Posted March 30, 2016 Hello again. I had an account here about 7 years ago but it was mainly to read other people's posts and try to learn new ways how to make sex better for my girlfriend. Unfortunately she died shortly after I joined and I never came back. I was celibate for about 4 years after that but I have been in a relationship with another woman for close to 3 years now and this is a forever thing. We are very much in love and I will be moving in with her (she lives in another state) within the next couple months. She swears that regardless of my frequent episodes of ED that just being together and touching and kissing and waking up next to each other is all that matters to her but it matters to me. I want to make sex over the top good for her and even though I am pretty darn good with my hands and my talented tongue and she usually comes 3 or 4 times a night I know I'm not giving her what she really wants and it drives me crazy. I have read numerous articles about the top 10 causes of ED and it sucks to know I have 8 of them. I know my mind is my worst enemy but knowing it and doing something about it are 2 different things. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team l8niter Posted March 30, 2016 Review Team Report Share Posted March 30, 2016 Welcome back cheesehead , hope you find all your answers and any help on here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Members Danceinthesheets Posted March 31, 2016 Members Report Share Posted March 31, 2016 Welcome back! Your relationship you described in just a few short words tells me you have a good thing going with her....a relationship that MOST of us are still searching for. I am also guessing that your GF is at least over 50.....and if so, she is in menopause....BUT does not seem to have any problem with one of those pesky symptoms of menopause.... DIFFICULTY WITH ACHIEVING ORGASMS!!!!!!!!!!! Coming From someone who knows (I am 55 now)....for ANY man to make me cum....it's a major celebration!!!!!!!! SO baby, I don't know what wonderful things you are doing for her.........KEEP IT UP!!!!!!!! And don't give it a second thought about your ED issue.....if she truly loves you and she seems to she is still getting all of the intimacy and sex that makes her lower areas happy!!!!!! oh yeah!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie cheesehead Posted April 12, 2016 Author Newbie Report Share Posted April 12, 2016 Thanks danceinthesheets, yes she is over 50. I'm 64 and she is 62. She is WELL PAST menopause. You're also right that she has no problem achieving orgasms and actually squirts a couple times a week. The only afteraffect from menopause I guess you could call it is that she is dry an awful lot. She can be so turned on that she is almost jumping out of her skin but she is still dry. Neither of us understands it. I have to use my tongue and give her her first orgasm (I know it's tough but somebody has to do it) before I can enter her or it's like sandpaper inside her. Sometimes even after her first orgasm she is still dry as a bone and I have to use lube. I hate lube except when we do anal because I haven't found one yet that tastes decent. As far as the frequent ED it bothers me a lot more than it bothers her. Sometimes I can cum twice a night, which ain't bad for a 64 year old with health issues, but other nights I can't get it up at all. My health insurance quit paying ANYTHING towards Viagra and I haven't had any success in growing a money tree in the back yard so that idea is out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted April 14, 2016 Report Share Posted April 14, 2016 Hi Cheesehead. What she's experiencing is normal, and has NO bearing on your performance. It happens to many women, even those before menopause, especially if they're on medications for depression, had a baby, or have had some traumatic experience in their lives. Lubes do come in a variety of flavors. I'd recommend a natural based one for you (and her), since a high sugar content can cause yeast infections. But, the fun is exploring all of the options!!! I think it's ludicrous that insurances have stopped paying for ED helping medications. They say that the marriage state is one of the most important, and that the divorce rate and infidelity rate is too high, well, hey, help a guy out then!! Jeez!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie cheesehead Posted April 14, 2016 Author Newbie Report Share Posted April 14, 2016 Every year insurance companies give you less but charge you more. Hmmm why does that sound so much like the government? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team l8niter Posted June 9, 2016 Review Team Report Share Posted June 9, 2016 Welcome Cheesehead , I'll give you a little information its called Canadian pharmacy online, Viagra at a much lower cost, even Cialis and its legal to order it hope all works great for you and im happy you have found love again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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