Members Jason Posted May 17, 2017 Members Report Share Posted May 17, 2017 I read an article online about how to be the best at oral sex. First, dont say blowjob. It shouldnt be considered as a job. Pleasing others should be approached with an eager and positive mindset. This is the same with pleasing a woman orally. The receiver should be positioned comfortably and given time to relax. The receiver may also request soft music, scented candles, or even a gentle massage. The giver's first role is to do anything to help the receiver relax. When the time comes to begin forget every porno you have seen.....unless it is a how-to guide to oral sex. If you have your own technique that is flawless, use it, but be careful not to over stimulate. The receiver is still relaxing. You may also need to inform the receiver that you are about to begin so you do not startle them. While performing oral sex on a guy use both of your hands as well. Cup his balls, grip the base of his cock, and slowly slide your lips and tongue down and up his cock. Stroke his cock while asking him how he wants you to continue. He is the only person who knows what feels good to him. He should also feel comfortable enough with you to ask you to play with his ass. Remember, you are pleasing him. Performing oral sex on a woman is just as delicate. Most women dont want the giver to be too aggressive. Always begin gently, if she wants you to be aggressive she will let you know when and how. Ask her what she wants you to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mi.Georgia.peach Posted June 6, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 This is true but as a woman it depends on what you mean by aggressive. I love to have him pin me down and take me how ever he pleases. However on the same note if I tell you Im not enjoying whatever it is that second switch it up and try something else don't hold me down and force me to take it. Sometimes pain is pleasure but we all have our own hang ups we don't enjoy that doesn't mean you stop that means we find something new we both enjoy. I am all for trying something new amd all for listening to suggestions from my man on what makes him feel good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinkster Posted June 6, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 All are different! Trick is to figure that out, and what works! Mrs. Kinkster loves it when I'm aggressive, and if she gets really horned up....she becomes aggressive. The heat of the moment....can change everything! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RC4BLUE Posted June 6, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 While the heat of the moment can be intoxicating, I find good sexual communication to be even more erotic. I absolutely love giving oral pleasure to a woman. Aggressive, soft, genial, wild, no matter. It is about what she wants and desires. I love changing it up. Going from oral stimulation to intercourse to oral is wonderful. For me it is all about her pleasure. And the more I know about what she likes, the more discussion we have had about her pleasures, the more willing I am to do what she desires. So if she says I want gentle and romantic, great! If she says throw me down and tie me up, dominate me, wonderful! I'm pretty open to doing almost anything as long as there is full consent and knowledge of what is being done. Of course this means we are talking about it days ahead of time, not seconds ahead of time. My greatest satisfaction is her pleasure, climax, and joy. I'll offer suggestions, many suggestions of what to try or do. All I need to know is what is her yes. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mi.Georgia.peach Posted June 6, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 14 minutes ago, RC4BLUE said: While the heat of the moment can be intoxicating, I find good sexual communication to be even more erotic. I absolutely love giving oral pleasure to a woman. Aggressive, soft, genial, wild, no matter. It is about what she wants and desires. I love changing it up. Going from oral stimulation to intercourse to oral is wonderful. For me it is all about her pleasure. And the more I know about what she likes, the more discussion we have had about her pleasures, the more willing I am to do what she desires. So if she says I want gentle and romantic, great! If she says throw me down and tie me up, dominate me, wonderful! I'm pretty open to doing almost anything as long as there is full consent and knowledge of what is being done. Of course this means we are talking about it days ahead of time, not seconds ahead of time. My greatest satisfaction is her pleasure, climax, and joy. I'll offer suggestions, many suggestions of what to try or do. All I need to know is what is her yes. 35 minutes ago, Kinkster said: All are different! Trick is to figure that out, and what works! Mrs. Kinkster loves it when I'm aggressive, and if she gets really horned up....she becomes aggressive. The heat of the moment....can change everything! Your both correct there is def something to be said about the heat of the moment. I will give you that but if you can't have an open conversation about both your likes and dislikes in bed that is an issue as well. The man I am currently talking to is 1000 miles away so at the moment all we can do is talk so sometimes our convos get pretty intimate but I know what he likes and don't like and the same for me so in a few months when we finally see each other there will be no awkward well I didnt know you didn't want that as I have run into in the past. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinkster Posted June 6, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 14 minutes ago, Mi.Georgia.peach said: Your both correct there is def something to be said about the heat of the moment. I will give you that but if you can't have an open conversation about both your likes and dislikes in bed that is an issue as well. The man I am currently talking to is 1000 miles away so at the moment all we can do is talk so sometimes our convos get pretty intimate but I know what he likes and don't like and the same for me so in a few months when we finally see each other there will be no awkward well I didnt know you didn't want that as I have run into in the past. I agree with you 100%!!! When my wife and I figured out that it was okay, to bring up and talk about anything and everything....wants & desires and fantasies....whatever.... it changed a lot. It took some years to get there, and it happened by accident really, but when we did....WOW! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mi.Georgia.peach Posted June 6, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 45 minutes ago, Kinkster said: I agree with you 100%!!! When my wife and I figured out that it was okay, to bring up and talk about anything and everything....wants & desires and fantasies....whatever.... it changed a lot. It took some years to get there, and it happened by accident really, but when we did....WOW! Ya well I just came out of a relationship that I wasn't allowed to express what I wanted or when I wanted. I was made to feel like it was appropriate for us to have sex when he wanted it as he was the man and I should just want it. I wasn't supposed to want it because only sluts want it. So now that I am away from him I don't intend to be shy and hide my wants. Still learning that it is ok to want something but lucky for me the guy I'm talking to now has been my friend for years and he is amazing and knows that I tend to pull back into my shell and he doesn't allow it. It is amazing to have someone that you feel comfortable enough to share anything with. I'm glad you have found that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinkster Posted June 6, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 6, 2017 20 minutes ago, Mi.Georgia.peach said: Ya well I just came out of a relationship that I wasn't allowed to express what I wanted or when I wanted. I was made to feel like it was appropriate for us to have sex when he wanted it as he was the man and I should just want it. I wasn't supposed to want it because only sluts want it. So now that I am away from him I don't intend to be shy and hide my wants. Still learning that it is ok to want something but lucky for me the guy I'm talking to now has been my friend for years and he is amazing and knows that I tend to pull back into my shell and he doesn't allow it. It is amazing to have someone that you feel comfortable enough to share anything with. I'm glad you have found that. Well....both have to be willing, no doubt about that. If not....it just won't work, or at least, will not work well. Sounds like you are doing better with your new...or maybe he's an old...beau! May you find what we have too!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mi.Georgia.peach Posted June 7, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 7, 2017 He is a *I wish I would have made better choices years ago* We are not a couple but he is and will always be my best friend and we will see what happens in the future. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinkster Posted June 7, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 7, 2017 1 hour ago, Mi.Georgia.peach said: He is a *I wish I would have made better choices years ago* We are not a couple but he is and will always be my best friend and we will see what happens in the future. well....my wife is my best friend....so....who knows! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mi.Georgia.peach Posted June 7, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 7, 2017 Thank you Kingster for the vote of confidence. I am keeping my options open because we live in diff states at the moment but I do hope something happens with him. Besides the sex is amazing lol can't turn that away when it is offered up to you 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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