Newbie Enchantress13 Posted May 10, 2019 Newbie Report Share Posted May 10, 2019 So I hope this is completely confidential. I am a 35 year old woman who has never been able to completely satisfy orgasm without a man. I feel as though I've always been taught that it was wrong so when I finally get to the point where I could climax I stop myself. I have always felt like I would like to try a dominated version of masturbation so that I would not be able to stop myself so I could climax. My biggest concern at the moment as with a few relationships in the past is that men can climax easily, especially with porn. My previous relationships I have determined every man likes porn, but if it gets in the way of my sexual needs because he has already taken care of himself throughout the day it becomes an issue. I have no issue with a man masturbating to porn in his spare time as long as he is taking care of his woman. When it seems like he is watching more p*** and I am not getting the attention I deserve, I get jealous, I feel like that is fair. What can I do to make my man focus more on me than his sideline activities. PS. I am a very attractive highly sexual individual. I would prefer response from Married individuals who have had a similar situation inside the relationship and have overcome it I need advice not criticism thank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kanga grey Posted May 10, 2019 Members Report Share Posted May 10, 2019 there's is nothing wrong with masturbating get your partner to play with your clit and then find your g spot the wife and i have been doing lately and she gets very wet and cums pretty hard as for get more attention have date nights, we have brought some sex dresses and toys it has worked very well gets me pretty hard and hot sex so good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Enchantress13 Posted May 10, 2019 Author Newbie Report Share Posted May 10, 2019 Thinks for the response. My man is super sensitive when it comes to asking for something new in the bedroom and his foreplay is not what it used to be before he had me on lock. Any suggestions seem to be an attack on his manhood. How do i ease him into new ideas without offending him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Enchantress13 Posted May 10, 2019 Author Newbie Report Share Posted May 10, 2019 50 shades of grey lol.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kanga grey Posted May 12, 2019 Members Report Share Posted May 12, 2019 why don't you masturbate him and you masturbate in front of him, that would do it for me, make out that it was his idea, have you got any sexy clothes/ undies toys ??? see men are very visual people hence him watching porn why don't you watch it with him and masturbate him while you watch we always masturbate before sex i love going down on my wife she loves it then we have great sex see how that goes good luckSelf pleasure Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kanga grey Posted June 6, 2019 Members Report Share Posted June 6, 2019 what no news Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted June 8, 2019 Report Share Posted June 8, 2019 On 5/10/2019 at 2:01 AM, Enchantress13 said: So I hope this is completely confidential. I am a 35 year old woman who has never been able to completely satisfy orgasm without a man. I feel as though I've always been taught that it was wrong so when I finally get to the point where I could climax I stop myself. I have always felt like I would like to try a dominated version of masturbation so that I would not be able to stop myself so I could climax. My biggest concern at the moment as with a few relationships in the past is that men can climax easily, especially with porn. My previous relationships I have determined every man likes porn, but if it gets in the way of my sexual needs because he has already taken care of himself throughout the day it becomes an issue. I have no issue with a man masturbating to porn in his spare time as long as he is taking care of his woman. When it seems like he is watching more p*** and I am not getting the attention I deserve, I get jealous, I feel like that is fair. What can I do to make my man focus more on me than his sideline activities. PS. I am a very attractive highly sexual individual. I would prefer response from Married individuals who have had a similar situation inside the relationship and have overcome it I need advice not criticism thank you. Welcome welcome!!! Yes, this is completely confidential. I would recommend also using a screen name that nobody uses or knows about, just to be on the safest side possible. But, we don't go by real names, and, your screen name is pretty non-identifying. I would also re-ask this in the area of "Ask a Sexpert". Use the forums as much as possible, and make sure to post in a topic that you think will be the subject of your post's area as best you can. Some people look in only one or 2 areas of the forums, because that's their "Thing", so, make sure to post away!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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