Size Matters

[Juzjon]

I am going to throw a question out at any of the females who wish to answer. I get email every day

saying in one way or another that "size matters". We all understand what that means don't we? My wife on the otherhand never gets an email saying that she's too large down there or anything. In the realm of perspectives, isn't that what really matters? Compatibility? I've seen all the cut and paste pictures I ever want to see where a man's penis is as large as my forearm In mail order catalogs like International Male and I just don't buy it. The average erect male penis is just a tad over six inches. Some of these guys look as though they've stuffed their briefs with a crop of bananas. Unless the guy is experiencing ED or something, that 6+ inches should be sufficient, yet I still hear on TV or in movies about some well hung dude as if he were a god to be worshiped. If a man is kind, understanding, patient, giving and he is willing to do just about anything for his lady, shouldn't that be enough? What about love? My wife and I have "tenplay" because we replaced foreplay years ago so we are never in any rush. I never quit until the job is done. Yet, I still can't help but wonder what all this hype is about. Yes, we have no bananas, we have no bananas today !!!!

Juz

[Mikayla1]

Size really doesn't matter to me. The reason I say this now is, that I have had quite a few lovers. Some women, some men. The women could satisfy me just as well as the men - and they have no penis - ergo, no size. Then I had a few LARGE men, and some average, and my hubby is a little above average. The large guys thought that just sticking it in made them great lovers, while the average guys - and my hubby - learned how to satisfy me in all different ways! It makes HIM the best lover I have had.

THe saying, "it is not the size that matters but what you do with it" really is true in my perspective! Do I like large, filling toys sometimes - sure. However, it is my hubby in general that does it for me, and I wouldn't trade his cock for all the toys in the world!

I have bananas - all size bananas - but it is the man who knows how to use his banana that matters most to me!

Mikayla

[Juzjon]

Mikayla, Somehow I already knew that answer. I too am a bit larger than average, and my wife is bi yet I had to ask only because I know what a psychological trauma this can cause to a lot of guys out there who get bombarder from the sales campaigns advertising that "size matters" but as we all know, they are pushing inert pills that do norhing at all but drain the poor guy's pocketbook. Now, their new scheme is a pill that increases their ejaculate volume by 500% (cum like a porn star)..... bullshit! Behind this ad, it calls for drinking a ton of water every day, and it's the hydration that causes a slight increase. Anyway, I thought it was worth the post, and I was glad to see that none of the "hung" dudes out there responded with their bragging baloney. I've always thought that a larger heart meant more to a woman.

Juz

[tdriskel]

After seeing this topic a few times, I was telling my husband about it and said something like, "Well, I am just a lucky girl that you are so good and big also. It sounds like most of the time that doesn't go together." My husband started laughing and made some comment about how girls measure. Apparently, and this was eventually proven by a measuring tape because I STILL didn't believe him, he is really just a little bit above average. HUH?!! I have to say that he is an amazing lover and that I really always feel pretty full and happy, so I just assumed that he must be bigger than average. So, while I apparently am unable to "eyeball" measurement, I can definitely add my vote that size does not matter!!

P.S. I am so glad he has a sense of humor. Frankly, the measuring was half the fun-- and seeing if I could get it to be just 1cm longer with lots of encouragement!!

[me4now]

i agree to you all but i used to think that that size was a BIG issues and it matter when i was with my ex-boyfriends until i realize they didnt know what they were doing and neither did i at some point

my husband is above average and wider then my ex so i was very nervous with him but one thing my husband have that my ex didnt have was patients,skills and more experience then my ex and he taught me how to handle him and not be so up tight and tense (iam talking about my husband)

[ambrelyn]

If a man is kind, understanding, patient, giving and he is willing to do just about anything for his lady, shouldn't that be enough?

Absolutely!! That's all that really matters. For example, if a guy can bring you to orgasm with foreplay, then really, what does it matter what size he is? My fiancee is just around average, and he's MORE than enough for me because he knows what he's doing, and he knows exactly how to use what he has. Technique beats above average length any day in my book.

[VALERIE]

I'VE HAD A FEW SIZES FROM XLARGE TO XSMALL. I SAY SOMETIMES IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE FOR ME, ITS WHEN THEY ARE XSMALL. I THINK THAT ITS JUST A TEASE, & I HAVE ON OCASSION STOP A SEXUAL INCIDENT DURING THE SESSION BECAUSE OF IT.

[ShadowStang]

I've been with 'em all too. I dated a guy who was hung halfway to his knees and was as big around as my forearm. Ouch. Was NOOOOO fun. My husband is about average, about 5 1/2 inches, he'd kill me if he knew I put that here, lol, but I LOVE having sex with him. Because he's big enough to please me but small enough that I can grind against him while having sex. I mean, I dont really care about size, obviously, and it pisses me off when he puts himself down. And another thing, I pray I'm not the only one, but if you have little bitty balls, no deal. They're too much fun to play with. I think I creep him out sometimes, because I'll tickle his balls just to watch them move around ... I'm childish sometimes like that, LOL but we both get a kick out of my response. I like big balls, okay? They're like... looser than the little tiny ones. This dude with the huge penis had like, no balls. They were so small, and always no matter what, drawn up to his body. Like they never finished dropping, or something. And since then I've liked the bigger (not like bull balls...) ones, because they're more fun.

[Theresa]

I have to agree to disagree and disagree to agree.

Because since I satrted having sex at 16 YO I have enjoyed every minute of it.

A few times I have had men who had the equiment and didn't know how to use them including their tongue as well.

I met this guy named Jeffery from Bordentown NJ in the bar and we kicked for a coulpe of weeks before I had sex with him and the first time we had sex I built up so much anticipation that I was let down.

(When I say anticipation I mean I was horny that day) I wanted to have sex with him because his personality turned me on. The second time we had sex it was anal sex. Now he must have been about 4" and it didn't hurt because he wasn't hung to well and we used lubrication.

Now the third time we had sex I wasn't in that much anticipation because I was messing around with this guy named Bryan AKA B-Ruck and he was well indowed about 8" and so in between the time I seen Jeffery I was javing sex with the other guy from time to time. Now at this time I was living with my mother and she was very promiscuous (due to the addiction of drugs and alcohol) so she was right in the next room and my sister walked in on us it's not like she interupted anything because there was nothing to interupt.

Thanksgiving 1997 I had sex with B-Ruck and Jeffery came over while we were in the middle of having sex and he was mad because he thought we were in a relationship because he introduced me to his grandmother. He told me that he couldn't see me any more bacause I was still having sex with B-Ruck.

Another guy I was messing with named James I met while I was living in Lakewood NJ I met James about a month after I had my oldest daughter six years ago while walking to the bus station. What attracted me to him was he had a bright white smile I wa in a relationship with my daughters father at the time and he tried everything he could to get me to talk to him. I would see him all the time living in Lakewood.

While my daughters father was MIA well he was locked up four about two months for the things he did in his past anywho, I was felling lonely at the time so when I seen James he made my day that day and at the time I didn't have anywhere to stay so I used my gift of gab and the gift that god gave me. Awomans most prized possession the pussy. So I was hungry horny lonely and tired.

James bought me something to eat and took me home with him to take a shower and eat. The sex was what I would rate *** (three stars) because although he was well endowed he just didn't do it for me. When in the Rodeo Posistion where the woman has all the control you would expect the man to thrust his penis enough to make you cum I thought I was going to break him in two and that's not what I was looking for. aThe only position that did it for me was the Doggy Style position because from the back I didn't have to give full participation only a little bit to get satisfaction enough to make me cum.

Another guy I had sex with once before his name is Kevin. It's funny how when your man is not around everybody wants to tell you how they have been watching you with him and tells you that he can treat you better then he can. Men I tell you they are something of a kind not only did he lack in the penatration dept. he also lacked in the tongue dept. as well. he thought he was doing something when he tried to toss my salad when all he did was irritate me with the stubbles of hair on his face. He thought he really was outdong my man when all he did was make me miss him more.

So size does matter sometimes, and sometimes it doesn't, it depends if you know how to steer your boat on experienced waters and if you're an experienced boater don't set sail in the lakes and ponds of the sex world, stick to oceans and rivers.