Newbie Jellybean1009 Posted January 26, 2020 Newbie Report Share Posted January 26, 2020 My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time. I’m 30 and he’s 33. We started dating 10 years ago but have been off and on a lot. We’ve been more serious these past 4 or 5 years. I have always, and continue, to constantly go down on him. Every time we have sex and even at random times during the day. I enjoy doing it because I know he enjoys it. He has not gone down on me once. The topic was brought up at least a few years ago and he said that he has had bad experiences in the past and he’s also self conscious about it. He loves me and wants to build a life with me. I want the same. But I am not sexually satisfied. There is barely any foreplay for me before sex. And I don’t want him to perform oral sex on me if he doesn’t want to because that would be a turn off. What do I do? Accept the fact he’s never going to do it? It’s not fair. He comes off as a selfish lover but in all other aspects of our relationship he is not like that at all. I don’t know what to do. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members average guy Posted January 26, 2020 Members Report Share Posted January 26, 2020 So sorry to hear that. To me, there's nothing better than to feast on a woman as part of foreplay. I would rather eat pussy, than to receive a blowjob. 🤷♂️ 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rossi046 Posted January 26, 2020 Members Report Share Posted January 26, 2020 28 minutes ago, average guy said: So sorry to hear that. To me, there's nothing better than to feast on a woman as part of foreplay. I would rather eat pussy, than to receive a blowjob. 🤷♂️ True statement 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jizzlobber77 Posted January 26, 2020 Members Report Share Posted January 26, 2020 13 hours ago, LittleShy said: I would like to actually enjoy getting eaten, hasn't happened too often My ex did it, but not well That pussy definitely needs eating x 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted January 26, 2020 Members Report Share Posted January 26, 2020 Sorry to hear of your dilemma jellybean. Did he ever tell you why he is so averse to giving oral? Further in your post you said that you hardly have any foreplay. That doesn't make for a good sex life. Maybe you two need to have a serious heart to heart talk about what your desires and needs are because if they're not met I don't think a long-term faithful relationship will last. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Fun guy Posted February 18, 2020 Members Report Share Posted February 18, 2020 On 1/25/2020 at 7:43 PM, LittleShy said: I would like to actually enjoy getting eaten, hasn't happened too often My ex did it, but not well I love a good pussy, the taste and smell of a woman's sweet spot is a big turn on for me. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Nesia_angel Posted March 29, 2020 Members Report Share Posted March 29, 2020 I’m the same .. I’m the squirter and some guys love it and some don’t .. I need too find the guy who loves it .??? 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Fun guy Posted March 29, 2020 Members Report Share Posted March 29, 2020 3 hours ago, Nesia_angel said: I’m the same .. I’m the squirter and some guys love it and some don’t .. I need too find the guy who loves it .??? Squirting is what I really like! If a guy can cum and it sprays out to me it's even better when a woman sprays her beautiful sweet juices!! It's a big turn on 😋🤩 Would love to accommodate you!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bob Long Posted May 17, 2020 Members Report Share Posted May 17, 2020 On 3/29/2020 at 5:14 AM, Nesia_angel said: I’m the same .. I’m the squirter and some guys love it and some don’t .. I need too find the guy who loves it .??? Here I am...lol I absolutely love women that squirt, it is such a turn on I have a full beard which makes it even more fun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bob Long Posted May 17, 2020 Members Report Share Posted May 17, 2020 On 1/25/2020 at 8:43 PM, LittleShy said: I would like to actually enjoy getting eaten, hasn't happened too often My ex did it, but not well I don't understand men who don't enjoy it. It is a well know fact/argument that when women refuse to give thier husbands a blwoob its the #1 reason they seek out prostitutes. in case where they don't seek out the services of a professional they stray and cheat with someone else woman are fully justified on doing both as well in my opinion. Why should you go without? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bob Long Posted May 17, 2020 Members Report Share Posted May 17, 2020 On 1/25/2020 at 8:11 PM, Jellybean1009 said: My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time. I’m 30 and he’s 33. We started dating 10 years ago but have been off and on a lot. We’ve been more serious these past 4 or 5 years. I have always, and continue, to constantly go down on him. Every time we have sex and even at random times during the day. I enjoy doing it because I know he enjoys it. He has not gone down on me once. The topic was brought up at least a few years ago and he said that he has had bad experiences in the past and he’s also self conscious about it. He loves me and wants to build a life with me. I want the same. But I am not sexually satisfied. There is barely any foreplay for me before sex. And I don’t want him to perform oral sex on me if he doesn’t want to because that would be a turn off. What do I do? Accept the fact he’s never going to do it? It’s not fair. He comes off as a selfish lover but in all other aspects of our relationship he is not like that at all. I don’t know what to do. Well if he loves you he needs to put his prior bad experience behind him, just because it went wrong or was bad with someone else doesn't mean it will be bad with you. Would he be as understanding if you used that exact same reason for not going down on him? I dated a girl a long time ago years before I met my wife, sex with her was pretty good she was a lot of fun not marriage material but she wasn't interested in that either so that was one of the reasons why we got along so well. Like I said sex with her was pretty good except when it came time for oral sex. I thoroughly enjoyed going down on her and would bring her to screaming orgasams, when I asked her reciprocate she literally just sat there with her mouth wide open as I mouth fucked her not what I call a blowjob in any way shape or form. so after the second time we did this I asked her what was up, at first she wasn't willing to tell me the truth but eventually she told me that she was forced to do it by an older relative and wouldn't go into any other details other than that and out of respect for her I didn't push it. We did talk about it and she told me she wanted to go down on me because she knew how much I enjoyed it, her observations were very astute, she said she noticed how much I enjoyed watching a woman give head to a guy when we watched porn together something we both enjoyed. So I told her with all sincerity that she needed to talk to someone (meaning a professional) about what had happened yes I wanted her to suck my cock but I told her she was carrying around demons from her past and thats never a good thing. She agreed and saw a therapist for several weeks and that was one of the main topics she shared, her therapist told her that if felt she would really enjoy doing this with her boyfriend and wasn't because of what had happened to her in the past then that person was still controlling her life. This was all told to me when she called me one day and said can I come over I have something to show you, I think you're going to like it. I played the guessing game and guessed new lingerie. She knew I had a weak spot for it and she was damn you how did you guess on the first try. I laughed and said come on over I can't wait. She showed up at my door about a half hour later and let herself in, she began a strip tease revealing a sexy pink bran dna pantiy set and the next thign Iknow is she is pulling my sweat pants down and goes to her knees and takes me in her mouth and gave me a momentous blowjob swallowing my load entirely. She smiled and said I'm free of my demons. She explained all about her sessions and what they talked about and how impressed her therapist was with my observation. From that day forward every time we were together she would go down on me that was the start of our foreplay. If he infact had a bad experience he needs to talk to someone not necessarily you but a therapist or counselor when your deprived something in a relationship it only leads to resentment later on down the road. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DewMan@1961 Posted July 31, 2020 Members Report Share Posted July 31, 2020 On Sunday, March 29, 2020 at 5:14 AM, Nesia_angel said: I’m the same .. I’m the squirter and some guys love it and some don’t .. I need too find the guy who loves it .??? There is nothing better than a squirting Orgasm sexy lady squirting her hot sweet pussy cum all over my cock and ball's as we are fucking.it is out of this world Mmmmm 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jizzlobber77 Posted November 25, 2021 Members Report Share Posted November 25, 2021 On 3/29/2020 at 10:14 AM, Nesia_angel said: I’m the same .. I’m the squirter and some guys love it and some don’t .. I need too find the guy who loves it .??? I'd love to get involved x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted November 28, 2021 Members Report Share Posted November 28, 2021 My wife has now began squirting and I love it. I love when she sits on my face and fills my mouth with her scrumptious juices. I keep lapping at her pussy until she is totally clean 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ready2fuck Posted November 28, 2021 Members Report Share Posted November 28, 2021 That sounds amazing, I love squirting and lapping up a girl's juices while I eat her out. Yum!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted November 28, 2021 Members Report Share Posted November 28, 2021 I bet you do it well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted November 28, 2021 Members Report Share Posted November 28, 2021 Not eating pussy would have been a deal breaker for me at the beginning of the relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Highroller8 Posted February 1, 2022 Members Report Share Posted February 1, 2022 On 1/25/2020 at 8:11 PM, Jellybean1009 said: My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time. I’m 30 and he’s 33. We started dating 10 years ago but have been off and on a lot. We’ve been more serious these past 4 or 5 years. I have always, and continue, to constantly go down on him. Every time we have sex and even at random times during the day. I enjoy doing it because I know he enjoys it. He has not gone down on me once. The topic was brought up at least a few years ago and he said that he has had bad experiences in the past and he’s also self conscious about it. He loves me and wants to build a life with me. I want the same. But I am not sexually satisfied. There is barely any foreplay for me before sex. And I don’t want him to perform oral sex on me if he doesn’t want to because that would be a turn off. What do I do? Accept the fact he’s never going to do it? It’s not fair. He comes off as a selfish lover but in all other aspects of our relationship he is not like that at all. I don’t know what to do. Find a guy like me that loves to pleasure and please , licking your pussy would be a delight! My wife doesn’t RE cip either and I have to ask.. someday she might wonder where I went!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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