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When you care about someone and you both are freaks like what to do anything and everything with one another .. is slow sex better or rough sex ? 
 

any opinions please ? 
 

thank you in advance..

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It depends on the mood we are both in, honestly.  

Sometimes hard & fast, others, slow & sweet.

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yes we agree depends on the mood and especially the sex, I'm an absolute lover of rough hard doggiestyle in my ass anytime but there's something about long slow teasing that's absolutely incredible as well

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love rough oral sex. I’ve noticed that whenever I communicate that I’m about to blow, my best sexy girls partners have always kept their pace steady until after I’ve cum. Recently, I began noticing a pattern in porn where the actors will suddenly go super fast or change the beat completely when the person gets close (which likely influences our culture). When a person is moments away from climaxing, KEEP DOING WHAT YOU’RE DOING! Don’t suddenly stop and try something different, it always ruins the build up, a total buzzkill. Find the rhythm that feels good for both parties, commit to it and you’ll see, your partners will thank you later.

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2 hours ago, Mill said:

Well I guess I am the kill joy I love slow sex getting to every part of the body and enjoying the art of sex I am not a bam bam thank you mam I like to enjoy it and every so often if my partner wants we can play hard

Not at all a kill joy. I enjoy it very much and watching his face and the pleasure is a huge turn on. I do enjoy both equally, but I enjoy the deep intimacy of slow and sensual more often than the rough. 

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I too enjoy  slow, long sex with various forms of foreplay. When I want it quick I put my cock in my hand.

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You decide how I like it. Today my wife and I went out to the beach for a little time away from the house about 1:00 p.m.  On the way there she inserted her c-shaped g-spot vibrator. Got to the beach and went for a walk while I controlled the remote control. Went for about a mile walk and when we got back she gave me a blowjob just to the point before I came. Drove home and set up the bed and I put our massage face cradle in the mattress. Gave each other sensual massages and then plugged in a sex video. Then while watching the video we played with each other and gave each other oral until we both had orgasm. After a glass of wine she decided to get on top and she rode me for a little while until her fibromyalgia was too bad and she had to get off. Put a pillow under her ass and I got on top and fucked her until both of us orgasmed again. At 5:30 we got dressed and had dinner.

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On 2/14/2021 at 7:54 PM, GirlNerd said:

I'm more inclined when I had a SO, foreplay build up, definitely need to preheat before baking.  😉 But then are definitely times when you just get that surprise, in the middle of the day or a quickie in the shower before going to work. Its definitely all about mood.

@GirlNerd foreplay should be all day. Keeping all wet spots juicy, nipples hard, licking bellybutton, cum sharing, enjoy sensitive sensual skin with some oil rubbing in... Got one hand on my cock and sending this large.0717192244a.jpg.e49a81842198e67e2798003bba326c22.jpgmessage

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On 5/2/2020 at 12:50 PM, TomtheNhaler said:

When you care about someone and you both are freaks like what to do anything and everything with one another .. is slow sex better or rough sex ? 
 

any opinions please ? 
 

thank you in advance..

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6 minutes ago, Lady said:

Well I prefer slow to rough.  Rough is just whambam and thank you.  This is my idea of a perfect afternoon. I want to go to bed and massage each other.  Then I want to apply chocolate paint on him.  I want to lick him from his neck to his toes.  Of course I stop to nibble on his nipples and work my way to his inner thighs.  There I stop to suck his  balls and circle and tease the tip of his cock with my tongue before I continue down to his toes. Then I go whisper in his ear and kiss him on the lips and then we tongue kiss.  At that point we get in position for 69 and take our time pleasuring each other.  After we both cum I suck him til he’s nice and hard and then I get on and take a ride first cowgirl and then reverse cowgirl.  Then I lay on my back and raise my hips pulling my legs up to wrap around his neck so he can go nice and deep.  I prefer to start out slowly and then when we both become breathless he can pick up the pace. Then after we both cum to Lay in each other’s arms and kiss.   Long passionate kisses.  We finish with a shower.  And then we cook a meal together.  As you can see I prefer slow. I prefer savoring every part of the body.  Savoring each other.  Slowly slowly. 

Gotta eat and refuel for round two and three

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2 minutes ago, Lady said:

Well I prefer slow to rough.  Rough is just whambam and thank you.  This is my idea of a perfect afternoon. I want to go to bed and massage each other.  Then I want to apply chocolate paint on him.  I want to lick him from his neck to his toes.  Of course I stop to nibble on his nipples and work my way to his inner thighs.  There I stop to suck his  balls and circle and tease the tip of his cock with my tongue before I continue down to his toes. Then I go whisper in his ear and kiss him on the lips and then we tongue kiss.  At that point we get in position for 69 and take our time pleasuring each other.  After we both cum I suck him til he’s nice and hard and then I get on and take a ride first cowgirl and then reverse cowgirl.  Then I lay on my back and raise my hips pulling my legs up to wrap around his neck so he can go nice and deep.  I prefer to start out slowly and then when we both become breathless he can pick up the pace. Then after we both cum to Lay in each other’s arms and kiss.   Long passionate kisses.  We finish with a shower.  And then we cook a meal together.  As you can see I prefer slow. I prefer savoring every part of the body.  Savoring each other.  Slowly slowly. 

Dewey and I love it both ways.  Sometimes slow and EZ just to saver the moment of the feeling that we get from each other seeing how much we both like being intertwined together. Looking into each other eyes and feeling are love for one another. And sometimes fast and furious long and hard about to blow are top's . we have the time of are life when we are together.   ..... Mandy and Dewey C 

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1 minute ago, Lady said:

I’m sure the times you are entwined are excitingly wonderful.  I love looking in each other’s eyes while making love.  I guess since I’ve been alone so long I prefer slow.  But when my hubby and I got so intense there were times fast and furious because we couldn’t slow down.  Enjoy the times of your lives and savor every time

We could not agree more lady!

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27 minutes ago, Lady said:

Well I prefer slow to rough.  Rough is just whambam and thank you.  This is my idea of a perfect afternoon. I want to go to bed and massage each other.  Then I want to apply chocolate paint on him.  I want to lick him from his neck to his toes.  Of course I stop to nibble on his nipples and work my way to his inner thighs.  There I stop to suck his  balls and circle and tease the tip of his cock with my tongue before I continue down to his toes. Then I go whisper in his ear and kiss him on the lips and then we tongue kiss.  At that point we get in position for 69 and take our time pleasuring each other.  After we both cum I suck him til he’s nice and hard and then I get on and take a ride first cowgirl and then reverse cowgirl.  Then I lay on my back and raise my hips pulling my legs up to wrap around his neck so he can go nice and deep.  I prefer to start out slowly and then when we both become breathless he can pick up the pace. Then after we both cum to Lay in each other’s arms and kiss.   Long passionate kisses.  We finish with a shower.  And then we cook a meal together.  As you can see I prefer slow. I prefer savoring every part of the body.  Savoring each other.  Slowly slowly. 

That is my idea of a perfect romantic date. My wife and I do very similar to that quite frequently. Instead of chocolate most of the time it's whipped cream. The first time while we were dating that we ever did anything like that we had blueberry filled donuts for breakfast. The blueberries then became smeared on our bodies while we licked and sucked it off each other. From that point on I knew I had to be with her.

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Slow sex whenever you have time. The Lotus position is one of my favorites. You and your partner sit cross-legged and facing each other. It combines intimacy and physical and spiritual closeness. And you can stay in this position for hours. It's Tantric Sex 101.

 

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If you're flexible you might be able to stay in that position for hours. I could never get into that position.

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1 hour ago, twin spirits said:

Slow sex whenever you have time. The Lotus position is one of my favorites. You and your partner sit cross-legged and facing each other. It combines intimacy and physical and spiritual closeness. And you can stay in this position for hours. It's Tantric Sex 101.

 

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Been there in that position with Mandy and her two sisters engaged in doing this weekend with them xox xoxoxoxo

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