Newbie KinkieCouple21 Posted June 18, 2020 Newbie Report Share Posted June 18, 2020 My wife and I just started trying bdsm and was wondering if theirs any good books or something for us to learn positions and what not .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Not large enough Posted June 18, 2020 Members Report Share Posted June 18, 2020 My wife and I are wondering the same thing but we have just kinda making it up as we go, would like to a better way 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted June 18, 2020 Report Share Posted June 18, 2020 Check out Barnes & Nobles, Half Priced Books, or Amazon's selections. Make sure to check the ratings. They main key for any sort of kink, is having a safe word. Something odd, so it won't be mistaken for sex talk in the bedroom. Like "twinkie" or "tree". The safe word tells the other person, usually the Dom, that you wish to stop whatever is happening at the moment. And, above all else, that MUST be respected for any of it to work. And, the other helpful tip is, remember, it's actually the Sub that has the most control. They're the ones tolerating the different kinks more. The Dom is facilitating, but the Sub can accept or deny the action anytime. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SexMaster Posted July 5, 2020 Members Report Share Posted July 5, 2020 On 6/18/2020 at 7:11 AM, KinkieCouple21 said: My wife and I just started trying bdsm and was wondering if theirs any good books or something for us to learn positions and what not .. There use to be a good social BDSM site. I don't remember the name. I do remember meeting some common like folk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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