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Over the past couple of years ED has really gotten bad.  It's to the point were viagra only helps slightly, and then only on an empty stomach.  My wife and I have been married for 33 years and we ran across this site and have entered the world of sex toys and other fun things!  Our sex life is better than ever at the moment.  Since I can't get it up very easily, we have learned to enjoy a lot of oral.  She loves it when I spend all of my time licking her clit and sucking her pussy.  We have watched several videos and we will go hours now bringing her to squirting orgasms several times a night.  She loves it!  My question is... has anyone else experienced ED and what have you done about it?  I would love to be able to "get in the game" especially after she cums and is craving a cock inside of her.  I have tried a couple of supplements, and am currently waiting on test results for testosterone levels.  Any suggestions would be appreciated.  We are having the best sex we have ever had... fortunately for her it's about 5 times a week for her, and 1 time a week for me!  

I love reading everyone's posts and trust all of you here for sound advice.  Finding this forum and this website has been very enlightening and fun!

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1 hour ago, Having Fun at 50 said:

Over the past couple of years ED has really gotten bad.  It's to the point were viagra only helps slightly, and then only on an empty stomach.  My wife and I have been married for 33 years and we ran across this site and have entered the world of sex toys and other fun things!  Our sex life is better than ever at the moment.  Since I can't get it up very easily, we have learned to enjoy a lot of oral.  She loves it when I spend all of my time licking her clit and sucking her pussy.  We have watched several videos and we will go hours now bringing her to squirting orgasms several times a night.  She loves it!  My question is... has anyone else experienced ED and what have you done about it?  I would love to be able to "get in the game" especially after she cums and is craving a cock inside of her.  I have tried a couple of supplements, and am currently waiting on test results for testosterone levels.  Any suggestions would be appreciated.  We are having the best sex we have ever had... fortunately for her it's about 5 times a week for her, and 1 time a week for me!  

I love reading everyone's posts and trust all of you here for sound advice.  Finding this forum and this website has been very enlightening and fun!

Testosterone shots should help if you’re lacking. Oral is good! Can you cum from oral even if you’re not completely hard?

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1 hour ago, NeverSuspect said:

Saw palmetto and Korean Panax Ginseng as well as L-Arginine seem to be all good healthy boosters

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Testosterone shots suck. They are painful and have to be monitored very closely with blood work. I had to get the injection for 2+ years and then they weaned me off and my body started producing normal again

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2 hours ago, NeverSuspect said:

I have not, but will sure try. Thanks!  And yes, keeping the spark alive is crucial, and fun!

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Hey.

Is there evidence that palmetto should be used to treat erectile dysfunction? Testosterone shots are painful. You can try any new supplements if viagra only helps slightly. cobra 120mg is used for erection problems and erectile dysfunction. 

Good luck!

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I'm 71 and I have been having the problem over 2 years now.  The little blue pills do nothing at all and neither do all the supplements and diets.  I know the thing still works because occasionally I  wake up in the middle of the night with a full out boner.  (not very often)  This whole experience has really been depressing.  It makes me feel old and incomplete somehow.  I'm pretty much left with jerking off in the shower and that is getting more and more difficult.  I do enjoy it very much and know exactly what to do to get the most out of it - but - it is getting more and more difficult to get to the last 8 seconds.

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22 minutes ago, IronBar said:

I'm 71 and I have been having the problem over 2 years now.  The little blue pills do nothing at all and neither do all the supplements and diets.  I know the thing still works because occasionally I  wake up in the middle of the night with a full out boner.  (not very often)  This whole experience has really been depressing.  It makes me feel old and incomplete somehow.  I'm pretty much left with jerking off in the shower and that is getting more and more difficult.  I do enjoy it very much and know exactly what to do to get the most out of it - but - it is getting more and more difficult to get to the last 8 seconds.

What is your urologist suggesting?  There is an implantable pump if nothing else is working.  I’m not sure of the process but the end result sounds fun. Hard anytime you want?! Win-win

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I would definitely talk to your urologist and see what options you have available

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