A. I usually masturbate right next to my wife in the living room.
B. I have several toys: Sometimes I tie my cock and balls. Sometimes I have a little shades of grey toy that I put on my balls and tighten then down. (It is hard to get on) and mostly I have a set of sounds that I enjoy the most. On is long enough to stimulate the prostate.
I take a bunch of prescriptions that make it impossible to get a hard on but that is not a problem it just requires different approaches to masturbating. But I learned what feels the best and cum just as nice as I like!
Oh yea, Nipples. I love stimulating my nipples, That I do in the shower and WOW it is great.
I never look at porn to masturbate either. I do look at soft porn sometimes but not to masturbate.