Newbie CKObrien3 Posted December 4, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted December 4, 2006 I recently had my first experience with Anal sex ( my husband giving it to me). It was great! Now I have this fantasy about fucking my husbands ass. He is open to it, so if anyone has advice on a good Stap-On I would love to hear about it. I like the idea of it being hands free so my hands are able to be other places. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted December 6, 2006 Members Report Share Posted December 6, 2006 I agree with Howard, you really should take it slow before trying to fully penetrate your man with a dildo or something. I suggest the same things - lots of lube, fingers, small plugs - and THEN when he is warmed up to the idea, you can try the strap-on thing.THere are some strap ons that are made for beginners - such as the Juli Ashton Penetrator set. This comes with the harness and 3 different size attachments - one is fairly small. I would go with something like that just to make things transition easier.If you want the link, or more information, let me know!Mikayla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie CKObrien3 Posted December 6, 2006 Author Newbie Report Share Posted December 6, 2006 I agree with Howard, you really should take it slow before trying to fully penetrate your man with a dildo or something. I suggest the same things - lots of lube, fingers, small plugs - and THEN when he is warmed up to the idea, you can try the strap-on thing.THere are some strap ons that are made for beginners - such as the Juli Ashton Penetrator set. This comes with the harness and 3 different size attachments - one is fairly small. I would go with something like that just to make things transition easier.If you want the link, or more information, let me know!MikaylaThanks for the advice. I have been using Howards suggestions on exploring my man. It is such a turn on. He really likes the attention. I would appreciate the link that you offered if you don't mind. I think maybe I will purchase this item and put it in his Christmas stocking. It has really made him feel good that I am more opened to things and that I have been asking for advice. Could you help me with a suggestion on movies? I don't want anything that is real sleezy, if that makes any sense. Something that has a story line behind it maybe. There is so much out there and I know very little about porn. My man loves blow jobs and we both fantisize about threesomes. usually it is about two girls and a guy or girl on girl. Also a good video on anal sex. Thanks in advance for any advice you can give.KatieeI have to first suggest that you take it slow with anal sex for your guy. If you have not done so, first begin by learning his anatom with your finger(s). Just as he explored your vagina, and anus with a finger, to learn its curves and structure, you are going to need to learn that too. Use a condom to keep your digit(s) clean, and lots of lube, but learn to do him with a finger or two before advancing to the stage of using a strap on dildoe. As to strap ons, it hard to recommend a certain one, unless we know what kind of dildoe, dong, or vibrator you choose to use. That's not a cop out. I took a look at the Shopping Section here, after reading your question, and there are about a dozen choices of strap ons, depending on what dildoe or dong you want to use. Prices run a wide range, too. There are some universal strapons that get good reviews, too. How about turning to the Shopping Guide here, click on Dildoes and Dongs, and then onto Strap-ons, and take a look at all that is offered. Ask your BF to look through them too, and let him pick out the dildoe or dong, or vibrator, he wants to experience with you. There are even dual purpose strap ons, where you get one dildoe for your own pussy, another for his ass, and a vibrator to turn you both on. There is the Feeldoe, that can be had with or without a vibrator, that does you both, if he can accomodate its size. Let us know what you choose. I am sure other readers would be interested. HowardI recently had my first experience with Anal sex ( my husband giving it to me). It was great! Now I have this fantasy about fucking my husbands ass. He is open to it, so if anyone has advice on a good Stap-On I would love to hear about it. I like the idea of it being hands free so my hands are able to be other places.I have to first suggest that you take it slow with anal sex for your guy. If you have not done so, first begin by learning his anatom with your finger(s). Just as he explored your vagina, and anus with a finger, to learn its curves and structure, you are going to need to learn that too. Use a condom to keep your digit(s) clean, and lots of lube, but learn to do him with a finger or two before advancing to the stage of using a strap on dildoe. As to strap ons, it hard to recommend a certain one, unless we know what kind of dildoe, dong, or vibrator you choose to use. That's not a cop out. I took a look at the Shopping Section here, after reading your question, and there are about a dozen choices of strap ons, depending on what dildoe or dong you want to use. Prices run a wide range, too. There are some universal strapons that get good reviews, too. How about turning to the Shopping Guide here, click on Dildoes and Dongs, and then onto Strap-ons, and take a look at all that is offered. Ask your BF to look through them too, and let him pick out the dildoe or dong, or vibrator, he wants to experience with you. There are even dual purpose strap ons, where you get one dildoe for your own pussy, another for his ass, and a vibrator to turn you both on. There is the Feeldoe, that can be had with or without a vibrator, that does you both, if he can accomodate its size. Let us know what you choose. I am sure other readers would be interested. HowardThanks for the advice Howard, I have been using it and it is working out great! My man loves the exploring and attention that I am giving him. He loves foreplay and he loves to please me, so spending all this time on him getting to know his body in everyway, has really done wonders for our relationship. Katiee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted December 7, 2006 Members Report Share Posted December 7, 2006 Here is the link for the strap on I think you guys would like:http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3197As for movies, I would suggest to you Pirates, Fade To Black, or anything by Paul Thomas or Candida Royalles. These films have great sex, but a story line. Pirates in particular is a good feature.As for anal movies, or how to, you have to go to the master, Nina Hartley. She has a movie here on it, Nina Hartley's Guide to Anal Sexhttp://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3777This would prove helpful to you I am sure!Good Luck and Happy playing!Mikayla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dlynn918 Posted November 18, 2007 Members Report Share Posted November 18, 2007 Here is the link for the strap on I think you guys would like:http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=3197As for movies, I would suggest to you Pirates, Fade To Black, or anything by Paul Thomas or Candida Royalles. These films have great sex, but a story line. Pirates in particular is a good feature.As for anal movies, or how to, you have to go to the master, Nina Hartley. She has a movie here on it, Nina Hartley's Guide to Anal Sexhttp://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...amp;ProdID=3777This would prove helpful to you I am sure!Good Luck and Happy playing!MikaylaMikayla,We have the vaculock strap on and telling you something you already know the realistic cocks that came with it are HUGE. I mean way too big for him. Honestly even too long for me as I cant even get all the way down on it myself. I bought a so called slimer one and I did him with it once and I knew it hurt going in but he begged for it and came in about 5 seconds but still! I saw this link and saw the jellies. Can I buy these sepately to use with the vaculock system? Thanks!DG Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 12GAUGE Posted March 21, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 21, 2009 I recently had my first experience with Anal sex ( my husband giving it to me). It was great! Now I have this fantasy about fucking my husbands ass. He is open to it, so if anyone has advice on a good Stap-On I would love to hear about it. I like the idea of it being hands free so my hands are able to be other places. Back when I was shopping for my first harness I didn't have the luxury of buying several to find which one might work best. I got mine at my local Lovers Package. Mine is a Sportsheets Strap-on Corsette Harness. It was $56+tax. It laces up in the back and has nylon straps that are fully adjustable from small hipped to large hipped. The rubber O ring (1 1/2") can be unsnapped to use a larger O ring for thicker dildos or dongs. The actual material of the corset is silky soft and feels like velour. It is black to match perfectly stockings and typical fetish clothing. I have been very happy with mine. On a side note and if you haven't already done so....the next time you two are 69ing wiggle your social finger in his ass. If his reaction matches mine he will love it!! If you want to give him a real treat try licking his rosebud. Again if hs reaction is the same as mine was HE WILL LOVE IT!!! AND HE WILL LOVE YOU ALL THE MORE for giving him such extreme pleasure. Your goal here is to give him a prostate orgasm. What I call an assgasm. Do that and you will no doubt give him the single most extreme pleasure he has ever known. Good luck you two. Peace 12GAUGE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 12GAUGE Posted March 21, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 21, 2009 Back when I was shopping for my first harness I didn't have the luxury of buying several to find which one might work best. I got mine at my local Lovers Package. Mine is a Sportsheets Strap-on Corsette Harness. It was $56+tax. It laces up in the back and has nylon straps that are fully adjustable from small hipped to large hipped. The rubber O ring (1 1/2") can be unsnapped to use a larger O ring for thicker dildos or dongs. The actual material of the corset is silky soft and feels like velour. It is black to match perfectly stockings and typical fetish clothing. I have been very happy with mine. On a side note and if you haven't already done so....the next time you two are 69ing wiggle your social finger in his ass. If his reaction matches mine he will love it!! If you want to give him a real treat try licking his rosebud. Again if hs reaction is the same as mine was HE WILL LOVE IT!!! AND HE WILL LOVE YOU ALL THE MORE for giving him such extreme pleasure. Your goal here is to give him a prostate orgasm. What I call an assgasm. Do that and you will no doubt give him the single most extreme pleasure he has ever known. Good luck you two. Peace 12GAUGE You should give him a "reacharound" when you are laying the pipe to him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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