Guest Jeff Posted December 7, 2004 Report Share Posted December 7, 2004 Hi,My wife and I have a great relationship outside of the bedroom. However, in the bedroom, it's a whole different story. She is really shy when it comes to this type of stuff and does not want to let her guard down. Any tips on how I can get my wife to open up and try new things, like a massager or costume? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bskressley1 Posted December 20, 2004 Members Report Share Posted December 20, 2004 let her know you still love her and ask her if she still love you and tell her she can say anything to you no matter where Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members bskressley1 Posted December 20, 2004 Members Report Share Posted December 20, 2004 Hi,My wife and I have a great relationship outside of the bedroom. However, in the bedroom, it's a whole different story. She is really shy when it comes to this type of stuff and does not want to let her guard down. Any tips on how I can get my wife to open up and try new things, like a massager or costume?<{POST_SNAPBACK}>just get her one as a gift and slowly get it out and let her get used to it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Muffy Posted January 10, 2005 Members Report Share Posted January 10, 2005 First reassure your love for her. Ask her what she would like to do and seek her opinion on your sex in privacy in your bedroom. You may ask her if she would like to use or try a new &/or different position rather than the "missionary" all the time. Maybe use 2 or 3 others and forget the missionary for 3 or 4 weeks. Gradually use different positions each time. Don't be boring. Above all let her get into the act and ask her what she feels is best suited to her taste &/or feelings. Play it slow, rushing her could set you back and have to start all over again. Have you tried or given her oral sex? If so do it slow and never rush. It is a super way of having foreplay and getting her really ready for vaginal penetration. Do not ever hurry any oral sex. If it takes an hour so what? It will give both of you pleasure and may lead to longer sessions. The rabbit sex is no good for most or all women. Hop on bam, bam, thank you mam, hop off, kiss her and roll over and go to sleep. If you have foreplay and nice sex then use a little discretion and give her 15 or 30 minutes of after play. Hug her, kiss her, tell her your feelings of love to her. Use your own head or thoughts in something like this. Then you can hold each other and go to sleep, both in a contented and happy mood. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest john Posted January 19, 2005 Report Share Posted January 19, 2005 Hi,My wife and I have a great relationship outside of the bedroom. However, in the bedroom, it's a whole different story. She is really shy when it comes to this type of stuff and does not want to let her guard down. Any tips on how I can get my wife to open up and try new things, like a massager or costume?<{POST_SNAPBACK}>If you find out, let me know..I have been married 25 years..and now she doesn;t want to do anything Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Haywood Posted January 26, 2005 Report Share Posted January 26, 2005 Hi,My wife and I have a great relationship outside of the bedroom. However, in the bedroom, it's a whole different story. She is really shy when it comes to this type of stuff and does not want to let her guard down. Any tips on how I can get my wife to open up and try new things, like a massager or costume?<{POST_SNAPBACK}>ten people were polled and the #1 answer is:get her drunk!alcohol is the great relaxor...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie innocent_cutie19 Posted February 12, 2005 Newbie Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 U just need to get her to relax. She needs to hear that you love her. True she should already know this, BUT girls need to be told sometimes. Do something special for her, something romantic. Have an open heart to heart. Don't ever pressure her, let her know you respect her but you have your needs too, & loving her as much as you do makes you needs greater. -xoxo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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