Newbie Lupeta Posted December 30, 2022 Newbie Report Share Posted December 30, 2022 Good evening , Well there's no easy way to say this iv tried everything and still can get my husband to have worthy sex. He is a selfish 5 minutes or under lover . I am so upset I'm questioning myself. Could he be cheating or have ED we have been married for 13 yrs we can definitely talk about anything. We survived DV, infidelity, mother inlaws, jail,meth!!! Please help extinction is on the brink Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Erin1984 Posted December 30, 2022 Members Report Share Posted December 30, 2022 5 hours ago, Lupeta said: Good evening , Well there's no easy way to say this iv tried everything and still can get my husband to have worthy sex. He is a selfish 5 minutes or under lover . I am so upset I'm questioning myself. Could he be cheating or have ED we have been married for 13 yrs we can definitely talk about anything. We survived DV, infidelity, mother inlaws, jail,meth!!! Please help extinction is on the brink If you can talk about everything, then you should have a discussion with him about this. What is his response? Do you share with him your needs and expectations? What does he say to that? Only communication can “fix” this. Good luck. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Katie Did It Posted December 30, 2022 Members Report Share Posted December 30, 2022 I can totally sympathize. I’ve been married for 22 years and have been consistently begging my husband for more sex. And it isn’t just the physical act, it’s the intimacy with him that I wanted. I finally got tired of begging and my needs not being considered so, for this and other reasons, I finally asked for a separation and divorce. It feels good. It was a huge decision I didn’t take lightly. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Katie Did It Posted December 30, 2022 Members Report Share Posted December 30, 2022 Thanks @Starving No final decisions yet but it seems inevitable. Sometimes people grow apart and it’s time to move on. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lonely and divorced Posted December 30, 2022 Members Report Share Posted December 30, 2022 Oh Katie I’m so sorry!!! I know what you mean though. Intimacy and sex are so important in a marriage. Especially intimacy. Hopefully he will wake up and realize what he would lose if he lost you!!!😞 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Lupeta Posted December 31, 2022 Author Newbie Report Share Posted December 31, 2022 I had not seen everyone's response's lol omg thank you guys so much I totally felt all alone like who can I tell with out being a little bit embarrassed. I really feel the love here. @everyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted January 16, 2023 Report Share Posted January 16, 2023 I'm sorry you're going thru this. I'm going thru something similar. My FG had a hysterectomy 2 yrs ago now. She went from being horny every day, to not caring about sex whatsoever. Though, when we have it, it's great, but we have long periods of not doing a damn thing. I totally get it. My self-esteem has taken a nose-dive, and she keeps putting off going to the dr since she has no physical symptoms. I need to charge my sextoys a lot.......LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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