Newbie 5454lee Posted March 1, 2007 Newbie Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 My husband has a heavy online porn habit and watches mainly gay or bi porn. Do straight guys watch gay porn? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted March 1, 2007 Members Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 There really is no absolute answer to that question. Many men and women enjoy watching gay porn - it is more "taboo" than regular porn. I will offer this suggestion to you:my girlfriend who has been married for 13 years found some gay porn under her hubby's workbench. Magazines and movies - hard core stuff. She was absolutely BLOWN away by this and decided to confront him. Their sex life has always been good, so she wanted to know the purpose. After a lot of hedging around he admitted to having some gay sex experiences when he was in college - before he married her. He said that lately he had been feeling like he "missed" it and wanted to get off using the memories of him. He labels himself bi-sexual. There has been no contact with a new man, but she is worried that it will go there, and now they are in counseling.From my point of view, I think that there are not many men who would enjoy watching or looking at gay porn - unless they have the inkling of desire themselves. My hubby would REFUSE to watch gay porn - it does nothing for him. If you hubby is looking primarily at gay porn, I might ask him about it. He may just be curious, or he may have had some homosexual experiences. EIther way, I think you need to know.While I am confident that there are men out there who are straight but like to look at gay porn, I think that number is minimal, and I would expect more "normal" porn to be viewed over the gay porn. This is just my opinion. TO get the best answer, ask him!Mikayla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie 5454lee Posted March 1, 2007 Author Newbie Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 Thanks Mikalya, you confirmed what I thought. My gut told me "normal" guys don't like gay porn. My DH is in the military (has been for 20+ yrs) and even if he is bi or bi-curious or gay he'll never admit it to me. I actually asked him if he was bi a few year ago after finding some questionable site visits on our computer and he denied it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mike_d Posted March 1, 2007 Members Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 yeah, I have to say, I am definately in the No catergory on this one. I like alot of things sexually, but only and I mean only if my wife is the one doing them. Gay porn is right out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted March 1, 2007 Report Share Posted March 1, 2007 I agree with Mikayla here. I'm sure there are some men that like gay (man on man) porn, but I know my hubby is NOT one of them. You could hear the "AW HELL NAWWWWW" all around the world, if I'd ask him to watch gay porn!! IMO, if a man looks at other men having sex, then they're either curious, bi, or closet gay. And men that are curious, will deny it. But if there's more than one item of proof, then it's time for him to be honest with you, and himself.Good luck, and I hope you're able to find answers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members CGEM Posted March 5, 2007 Members Report Share Posted March 5, 2007 No. I don't find it sexy or arousing at all. But if it's a turn-on for someone, that's totally fine by me.Regards Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted June 10, 2008 Members Report Share Posted June 10, 2008 Doesn't happen often. The only gay guy that I know doesn't watch it either. He prefers bi or straight porn. He's often asked me to lend him some when he had the campground outside of town. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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