Newbie grundig Posted March 5, 2007 Newbie Report Share Posted March 5, 2007 Ok Ladies here,s the question,,,,,,,,,have you ever squirted on your partner,s face during oral sex??????? me ,and my partner love it,,,,,mind you ,,,,it took years for her to do it,,,,,,,reason being (according to her) was no man could ever do that to her,,,,,,,,me I love having my face drenched,,,,,,,any other,s into this????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Michelle Posted March 15, 2007 Newbie Report Share Posted March 15, 2007 Ok Ladies here,s the question,,,,,,,,,have you ever squirted on your partner,s face during oral sex??????? me ,and my partner love it,,,,,mind you ,,,,it took years for her to do it,,,,,,,reason being (according to her) was no man could ever do that to her,,,,,,,,me I love having my face drenched,,,,,,,any other,s into this?????My husband absolutely loves it when I do this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted March 15, 2007 Report Share Posted March 15, 2007 Toocan, if your partner says that you're the only one, go with it. Not many women KNOW that they CAN ejaculate, and even then, then they may not be sure that's what they did!I can only "Squirt" while using a fav. G-spot toy (my glass g-spot dildo). But, practice makes perfect....so on and on I try! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Blush Posted March 18, 2007 Members Report Share Posted March 18, 2007 Toocan, if your partner says that you're the only one, go with it. Not many women KNOW that they CAN ejaculate, and even then, then they may not be sure that's what they did!I can only "Squirt" while using a fav. G-spot toy (my glass g-spot dildo). But, practice makes perfect....so on and on I try! ---------------------------------------------------------------------Same for me Tyger. G-spot induced but mine's more like gushing not actual squirting. VERY intense! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members whittibo Posted March 20, 2007 Members Report Share Posted March 20, 2007 Dang Howard, how do you learn all this?? :sI think you should have classes we can send our husbands too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members whittibo Posted March 20, 2007 Members Report Share Posted March 20, 2007 If stupid insecurities wouldn't get in the way it certainly would be easier. :s I have found men are intimidated by "learning" from their wives (in my husbands case anyway) he feels insecure that he doesn't already know it. I assured him last night that we're both learning together. I have to give my husband credit though, he is doing much better, and it's only been >3 weeks. We've made great progress! Last night he didn't fall asleep on me, actually went a second round, but I couldn't convince him to have morning sex. I even woke up at 6am, and he was awake and I said, "are you SURE we can't??" he said no. I have to respect some of his decisions, otherwise he'll feel helpless I think. But he'll come around. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members whittibo Posted March 21, 2007 Members Report Share Posted March 21, 2007 *sigh* I'll give it a try, but sometimes I feel like I am already pushing him too far. Like today I asked if he thought about me all day and he sarcastically said, "oh yeah". then he proceeded to tell me he thought I would call him and tell him our house fell out of escrow again, or that he thought about the propane tank and the fire log store and other crap. I thought I gave him enough good things to think about lately, not all the bad stuff that "could" happen. Oh well.. can't win them all I guess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted March 21, 2007 Report Share Posted March 21, 2007 Not trying to be argumenative, but, I disagree with Howard, to a degree, and agree with you Whittiboo. There are times where you should back down, and respect his decisions, to a degree. But that doesn't mean that you can't pounce on him when he feels a bit more comfortable having sex. If he's more secure about having sex at night, start there, introduce him to newer stuff then, and so on. Make him want you more and more. Then, most likely, morning sex won't only be an option, it will actually happen! You know your hubby better than we do, and so you will know his true limits. He is a pessimistic person. That takes time and lots of patience to get him out of, IF he allows himself to be led out of it. There is only so much one can do to try and change a person, to a degree. The person needs to WANT to change. If (s)he doesn't, then there's no help. Slow and steady, darlin', and I wish you well! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members whittibo Posted March 21, 2007 Members Report Share Posted March 21, 2007 Thanks Tyger, I know he's "different" and going to take awhile, and I am willing to work with him as long as he's making progress and he really is. I mean last night was great, and he was more assertive then before, so that's good.I asked him, "did someone tell you when you were a kid that sex was dirty or not to be adventurous or something". He said no, but I am thinking being raised in a conservative home, if it wasn't SAID, it was IMPLIED. He didn't even touch me for 6 months to a year after we started dating and it wasn't because I wouldn't let him, I all but climbed on him nekid, actually, I did climb on him with a teddy on, we were alone at his parents house and had been dating for at least a year. His pants never even came unbuttoned ALL NIGHT! So I think he has a hard shell I will have to crack, and this is a bit intimidating to him as I think he's afraid I will revert back to the "old me" where I didn't want sex but once a month, and that he'll get used to the new me and then have to lose it?? I really don't know for sure, but I know he has some inhibitions but is willing to try new things, even if they do sort of embarrass him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Blush Posted March 21, 2007 Members Report Share Posted March 21, 2007 Blush: Most actual " Squirting " occurs only when pressure is placed above the clitoris with the palm, or heel of one hand, while pressure is put on the G-spot internally with either fingers, or a toy. There has to be a constriction of the pussy entrance with either the hand or a toy to get the fluid to push past under pressure, for it to " squirt " out your pussy. Its the difference between turning on the garden hose without a nozzle, getting lots of water, and putting your thumb over the hoes end to constrict the flow so you get a long stream of water. The reason women have not known they can " squirt ", is because using G-spot vibrators, or having a man stimulate the G-spot with his fingers while giving oral sex, and either the woman herself, or the man putting pressure on the G-spot from out side with the palm or heel of a hand is a fairly recent " discovery ". By that, I don't mean that it has not been done as long as man is alive. What I mean is that the porn industry found out that people pay lots of money to see this kind of thing, and once it made it to the big screen, then people began to talk about how to do it more openly. Now that we have so much to offer on the Internet regarding sex, you can find sites specifically limited to just pictures or short films of women squirting. Remember also, that until we started discussing this- an Mikayla wrote her fine article on G-spot orgasms- many women thought that what was happening was pee coming out their urethras. We had a couple of discussions here last year about that very topic. Oh, it also helps to make you squirt if you have done your Kegels, so that you can use your muscles in your vagina, to contrict the " barrel " of your vaginal around his cock, fingers, or a vibrator, to help increase the pressure as the orgasm and G-spot stimulation sends the fluid out! Another good reason for doing Kegels daily. And by tightening your pussy, you will enhance your orgasm, too. Ya-- Hoo-o-o-o-o! ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Thanks Howard... I don't really care if it squirts or gushes... just as long as I'm having them! I still do kegels... (everytime I see the word actually) lol.... can you read it and not do them?? The first time I gushed I was masturbating alone, standing up with my hand up over my behind with a toy. The angle must of been just right because it wasn't my normal clitoral orgasm. I did think I peed myself but it was clear and had no smell. Once you can get past that feeling of having to relieve yourself it's wonderful... I get so shaky I can't walk for awhile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members luvhim93 Posted March 23, 2007 Members Report Share Posted March 23, 2007 wow... i have read "stories" about this...but i could not wrap my mind around the actual possibility.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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