Toys For Beginners?

[jesse123]

hello all! to cut to the chase, i'm a traditionalist...a prude i guess when it comes to trying new, kinky things in the bedroom. I get very nervous at the mention of a new position for goodness sakes! however, my man and i were talking and we got to a point where he said 'nope im taking you to the porn shop and you're going to pick us out some toys!'

needless to say, i panicked. I couldn't bring myself to pick that out!! much less use them! i know, its sorta pathetic and possibly immature, but i come from a VERY VERY conservative family and i lost my virginity to this man.

so can anyone give me some ideas for good toys for absolutely petrified beginners? i'm willing to give it a try

thanks

[Mikayla1]

I am sure you can find many subjects and threads here on similar questions, so look around for other people's advice and experiences. My first thought it a Bullet. A bulet delivers a lot of fun, good vibrations, is NON-inserting and easy to use. You can use it on each other to stimulate (balls, penis, nipples, tummy, clitoris) and they are usually pretty inexpensive.

That is definitely my choice for newbies or timid gals! Search for 'bullets' in the search box and I am sure you will find something you both will love. Then, after you get comfortable with that, you can move on to other items!

Have FUN!

[jesso]

Mikayla's advice is great. The Beginners post your questions here section has a quite a few similar threads about this. Bullets are definitely a nice start. I think Clit Stimulators are superb as well and easy to handle.

[Mike_d]

Both of these ladies know what they are talking about. My wife and I both come from strong religious families and our knowledge of sex toys was super limited when we found TT. Over the past few years, we have learned to relax and have fun, the two most important things you can keep in mind in dealing with sex. If you love this man and want to have as much fun in and out of the bedroom as possible, just relax and let him know you need to move at your pace. Look on here and check out a bullet or two. It is one of the most versitile toys ever made. Best wishes.