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My wife is having a hard time having an orgasm. She is wet and excited but she seems to need more. I have made her cum thousands of times but lately it seems to be harder for her to finish. I thought maybe there is a toy that is not to intimidating for me to try on her. Any ideas

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My wife is having a hard time having an orgasm. She is wet and excited but she seems to need more. I have made her cum thousands of times but lately it seems to be harder for her to finish. I thought maybe there is a toy that is not to intimidating for me to try on her. Any ideas

Try one of the regular old hard plastic vibs you can get at Spencers Gifts at the Mall. Try a porn movie while you're going at it and try talking about the things the people are doing. You may be surprised at the response you get. Just be prepared to break the ice by making a coment about what you're watching or telling her you would like to try...or have her do...or you would like to do x to her etc...

I have found most women will open up about sex if they feel safe and won't be looked at in a funny way. Men are like that too. Start out easy and you may find she wants or needs some really cool things to get off better. You may be pleasantly surprised. Just be ready for anything, good, bad or indifferent.

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If you are looking for a toy that is not intimidating try some sort of clit stimulator. Dildos and inserting vibrators are always good when I'm already primed and ready to go, but if I'm having a hard time reaching my "peak" than I always grab a clit stimulator (CS). A CS goes right to the cource, no messing around and that's what it sounds like your wife needs. I also have found that a CS is less intimidating than a dildo or regular vibrator because of it's shape and soft feel. I have ALWAYS been a huge fan of Alexa's Micro Orchid (plus she can wear it under clothes!)

Good luck

Jen

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Jen, I need some advice. Over the weekend my wife suggested anal. I want to find some info on this and I will do the research, we will learn about it before we try. I want to know what are the best beginner anal toys? If anyone can help me out with some ideas, I would be very greatful for all the help. So Jen or anyone else, what is the best anal beginner toy?

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The best introductory anal toys? First, I'd say we focus on size. The smaller the better to begin with. Not only can a large toy be intimidating, but it can be very painful. A very good starter would be the Juli Ashton starter kit. There are a variety of butt plug sizes to chose from.

]Juli Ashton Beginner's Kit

On the high end of things I would suggest the iVibe plug

IVibe plug

But of course the thing I most strongly suggest is the use of PLENTY of lubricant! For more about lubricants check out this article:

Beginner's Guide to Lubricants

Good luck!

Jen

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Try one of the regular old hard plastic vibs you can get at Spencers Gifts at the Mall.

Those are great, easy to use 'beginning' vibes, just be careful with them. On a couple that I've used, there was a very rough plastic tip (like extra plastic from the mold or whatever) so you may want to go over your toy first and smooth out any rough edges.

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