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[hott_country61]

Is there such a thing as a woman squirting?

[Mikayla1]

When I worked at a video store one of the most popular adult movies was called, "The Squirt Squad." I was so intriqued by this, that I rented it to find out what it was all about. These women could ejaculate across the room! It was amazing, and a little disturbing.

Most frequently a woman will "squirt" when her g-spot is stimulated just right. If this occurs, the ejaculate is forced out in a different manner than a clitorial orgasm, and the cum "squirts." It is thicker and more like semen than the normal lubrication a woman produces in orgasm.

This is the sometimes confusing difference between "cumming" and "ejaculating" that people ask about on this site. There is a subtle difference.

The squirters are the ones that "squirt" their ejaculate in a forceful manner, instead of an ooze.

Just thought I would share my research!

Mikayla

[parrillo69]

Is there such a thing as a woman squirting?

Oh yes there definetly is such a thing. I am a squirter. It is awsome. Although it doesn't happen every time we have sex. He knows how to make me squirt. Sometimes he'll be all into it and he'll get me to squirt multiple times. Other times we just have normal sex, with normal orgasms.

I love to suirt but not all the time. But it is the best!!!

[Trooper]

OK Im jealous. Its Something iv always wanted to see. But having got Married I guess I have waved goodbye to the chance.

[curvacious_lust]

I have a question about this technique...is it possible to squirt without pushing on the abdomen?? The other night hubby was stroking my G-spot and as I came, something happened...I dunno what(can't say if I really squirted cause I"m blind without my glasses or contacts in and I didn't see) but I will say the bed was VERY wet right after it happened.

[curvacious_lust]

YES YES YES I DID IT!!! Now to figure out what he did so I can do it again!!!

[quietguy]

YES YES YES I DID IT!!! Now to figure out what he did so I can do it again!!!

Hmmmm CL--that gives me an idea for my next fantasy!!!

QG

[Mikayla1]

I don't know QG, can you handle 2 WOMEN who can squirt????? I'll bet you can!

Mikayla

[curvacious_lust]

I don't know QG, can you handle 2 WOMEN who can squirt????? I'll bet you can!

Mikayla

*giggle* I still can't believe I did it.....WOOOOW. Silly, I know. But hell, at 37 years of age, its nice to know it wasn't a lost cause!!

[sexynshyrissa]

Good for you CL!!!

[Trooper]

Trust me I would love to teach/try this with my wife. But we really do suffer from a VERY large gap in our sex Drives. At times this can be a real problem for me as I so much want experiment but anything too different is a Noooo

[Mikayla1]

Trust me I would love to teach/try this with my wife. But we really do suffer from a VERY large gap in our sex Drives. At times this can be a real problem for me as I so much want experiment but anything too different is a Noooo

You can fix the gap in your sex drives - show her how FUN sex is. If she were to have a g-spot orgasm I can guarantee you that she would want to have sex more often! Sex when you have new and different experiences is much more fun and exciting when you do the same ole' same ole' all the time!

Try this techinique on her the next time you two are having oral - when she feels the build-up and the sensations tell her it is normal - it is her g-spot you are stimulating. She should know what that is and be surprised at the sensations.

Howard is right, sex is NOT over when you get married - it should be the beginning! I hate it when my friends who are married complain that their sex took a dumper after the vows! Whose fault is that? Now I know, careers, kids, different stresses - all this take a toll emotionally on the life after marriage - but sex can and should be a stress reliever - an escape from things. Way too many women have to be "in the mood" and for them, this means "all conditions met, I am horny, kids are asleep, dishes are done, house is clean, etc"

I say...screw the dishes, I WILL get horny if I am not already, your hubby can help with the cleaning AFTER sex, cause if he gets more of it, he will be more willing to help around the house - as long as the kids are IN their rooms, go for it!

Sex is something all people should do more for all the right reasons, and stop doing it for the wrong ones!

Ok - I hope this helps a little - and I hope you can teach your wife the g-spot orgasm techinique and boost her sex drive a bit!

Mikayla

[parrillo69]

OK Im jealous. Its Something iv always wanted to see. But having got Married I guess I have waved goodbye to the chance.

You two can so learn to do this together--don't tell her you are trying to get her to squirt just start having really passionate for play with your fingers in her find the thicker spongey spot and rub it till she squirts you'll both love it!!!!!!! She might start increasing her sex drive!!!!!!! I know I love it!!!!!!

Good Luck Post your results!!

[Trooper]

Thank you so much for some GREAT Advice. Sex and intimacy really is a major problem within our relationship. I can really connect to what howard is saying about his first marriage as the situation that Im in with my sex life really can drag me down.

The Problem is I really do feel that I have tried everything to try and improve things. Its the usual story when we first got together the sex life was amazing but with time its has just declined. We have talked so many times about it but nothing improves.

The times that we do make love she enjoys and always orgasms but she never wants to try or do anything different. Sadly the amount of time has also drastically cut from 2/3 times a week to maybe once every 4 or 5 WEEKS!.

The other side of our relationship is great when the lack of sex life isn't getting in the way and we still have plenty of fun cuddles and rubs etc.

I only need to try to ask how would she feel about trying something different or try to discuss the "How was it for you" the next day and I get asked to stop going on about it. This can even be if I haven't mentioned anything sexual for 6 months?

[softlips]

Yes, girl-- I am a mega-squirter. The first time it happened, someone had their fingers up in me (I love to be finger-fucked). I felt like I was going to come and boom! it happened! This teriffic gush came from somewhere down there, I had felt something up inside my pussy bearing down right before it happened, so I thought maybe I had lost control of my bladder. But the liquid didn't smell like urine, and didn't feel like urine, it almost had a silky feel. This first happened in the early 80's so I didn't have any idea what this phenomemon was. Then I began to hear more about it, and when I found out very few women can do it, I was so proud! The first time this happened with my boyfriend, he went wild! I had told him I could squirt liquid 5 or six feet, but he didn't believe me. He loves to make me do it. When stimulated correctly (and sister, does he know how to do it now!), I can squirt six or seven times in a row, and not just a dribble. It's almost like a stream from a hose. He absolutely loves to make me do this and catch it in his hands. He also likes to stimulate me and put his head between my legs so he gets squirted in the face. Sometimes I will straddle his back and he will reach around, stick his fingers in me and stroke my G-spot and let it pool in the small of his back, and then let me give him a backrub with the fluid (it does feel almost silky). He says it feels so sexy for that warm liquid hit his back. I think the sexiest thing that ever happened was when he actually was fucking me with his dick,and I started to come and squirt with him inside me. He realized what was happening and pulled out and the come shot out of me with such force, it hit him in the chest and splashed all over both of us. Sooooooo hot. Once we got carried away in the car and he fingerfucked me until I soaked my jeans, the car seat, etc. Now I always carry two things-- a towel and extra clothes! I had to go into the store with my jeans wet and lie and say I had spilled a drink between my legs! Anyway, he thinks I am the bomb because of my ability. He'd never been with a "squirt" like he calls me, and is always mesmerized when it happens. It wouldn't happen, though, if he didn't know how to make it happen. And, yes, we "squirts" reallyl exist-- I just don't think there are that many of us.

[parrillo69]

Wow!! You are a truelly lusky woman!!! I hope my man starts to really enjoy it even az little like you two. He too knows how to do it and does sometimes. And on occasion I have sqirted while he is fucking me oh how I love it, but I truelly love being finger fucked make love to me with his had and mouth and I am in heaven. I hope to hear more from you. You are awesome!!!!

Yes, girl-- I am a mega-squirter. The first time it happened, someone had their fingers up in me (I love to be finger-fucked). I felt like I was going to come and boom! it happened! This teriffic gush came from somewhere down there, I had felt something up inside my pussy bearing down right before it happened, so I thought maybe I had lost control of my bladder. But the liquid didn't smell like urine, and didn't feel like urine, it almost had a silky feel. This first happened in the early 80's so I didn't have any idea what this phenomemon was. Then I began to hear more about it, and when I found out very few women can do it, I was so proud! The first time this happened with my boyfriend, he went wild! I had told him I could squirt liquid 5 or six feet, but he didn't believe me. He loves to make me do it. When stimulated correctly (and sister, does he know how to do it now!), I can squirt six or seven times in a row, and not just a dribble. It's almost like a stream from a hose. He absolutely loves to make me do this and catch it in his hands. He also likes to stimulate me and put his head between my legs so he gets squirted in the face. Sometimes I will straddle his back and he will reach around, stick his fingers in me and stroke my G-spot and let it pool in the small of his back, and then let me give him a backrub with the fluid (it does feel almost silky). He says it feels so sexy for that warm liquid hit his back. I think the sexiest thing that ever happened was when he actually was fucking me with his dick,and I started to come and squirt with him inside me. He realized what was happening and pulled out and the come shot out of me with such force, it hit him in the chest and splashed all over both of us. Sooooooo hot. Once we got carried away in the car and he fingerfucked me until I soaked my jeans, the car seat, etc. Now I always carry two things-- a towel and extra clothes! I had to go into the store with my jeans wet and lie and say I had spilled a drink between my legs! Anyway, he thinks I am the bomb because of my ability. He'd never been with a "squirt" like he calls me, and is always mesmerized when it happens. It wouldn't happen, though, if he didn't know how to make it happen. And, yes, we "squirts" reallyl exist-- I just don't think there are that many of us.

[softlips]

Wow!! You are a truelly lusky woman!!! I hope my man starts to really enjoy it even az little like you two. He too knows how to do it and does sometimes. And on occasion I have sqirted while he is fucking me oh how I love it, but I truelly love being finger fucked make love to me with his had and mouth and I am in heaven. I hope to hear more from you. You are awesome!!!!

Thanks for the nice words- you're right, I am lucky. He is just as sweet as he is good looking and sexy. Anyway, do any of the rest of you agree that this liquid kind of a silky feel to it? Also, the smell is pretty distinctive (kind of pungently sweet) but certainly isn't repulsive at all. In a way it's kind of pleasant. Of course. sh** might not smell too bad after some of the orgasms I've had squirting. That's a whole other subject though! NO WE DO NOT do anything kinky with you-know-what. YUCK! We do love ass-fucking, though.

[Mikayla1]

I would totally agree that the liquid I expel during squirting is "silky" in feel. It definitely is not of the same texture of my other cum - more of a mixture between cum and pee (without the smell) just more liquid-like. I have never thought to use it as a moisturizer before! I could see how that might be possible, since it does have a sort of "moist" characteristic to it!

I think we squirters are so lucky....that feeling is one to be rivalled, that is for damn sure!

Mikayla :o

[parrillo69]

I totally agree that it is silky and thinner than my creamy cum.

[kcoxsuckah]

The joy of squirting!!! Hehe My SO teases me about needing his goggles! We were house-sitting for my dad a few months ago and in our departure as we were straightening up my room, there appeared to be vanilla ice-cream drips on the mirror (across the room) and at first had no idea where they came from. THEN it dawned on me! THE FEW, THE PROUD, THE SQUIRTERS!!!

[parrillo69]

The joy of squirting!!! Hehe My SO teases me about needing his goggles! We were house-sitting for my dad a few months ago and in our departure as we were straightening up my room, there appeared to be vanilla ice-cream drips on the mirror (across the room) and at first had no idea where they came from. THEN it dawned on me! THE FEW, THE PROUD, THE SQUIRTERS!!!

You Go Girl!!!! I love it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[househunter]

That is awesome Softlips. I have tried over and over to get my wife to spuirt and cum up short...LOL Any how I would finger fuck her tell she can't stand it no more. At that point She knows that she is about to cum and would always reach down and grab my hands to make me stop . Like dam why stop now, let it rip baby. I now it probably feels different to her and she doesn't know what is about to happen or just doesn't want to cum yet. I am lost at this one.

My first wife I got to squirt and man that was awesome feeling. I had my dick inside her when she went and felt so warm like I was in a Jacuzzi. Was on the carpet floor while my parents was gone. Had just finish when thay pull up. Didn't have time to clean up that much. Funny part about it was my dog keep going over to the spot where she squirted and smelling it Couldn't get the dog away from it.

[softlips]

That is awesome Softlips. I have tried over and over to get my wife to spuirt and cum up short...LOL Any how I would finger fuck her tell she can't stand it no more. At that point She knows that she is about to cum and would always reach down and grab my hands to make me stop . Like dam why stop now, let it rip baby. I now it probably feels different to her and she doesn't know what is about to happen or just doesn't want to cum yet. I am lost at this one.

My first wife I got to squirt and man that was awesome feeling. I had my dick inside her when she went and felt so warm like I was in a Jacuzzi. Was on the carpet floor while my parents was gone. Had just finish when thay pull up. Didn't have time to clean up that much. Funny part about it was my dog keep going over to the spot where she squirted and smelling it Couldn't get the dog away from it.

[softlips]

That is awesome Softlips. I have tried over and over to get my wife to spuirt and cum up short...LOL Any how I would finger fuck her tell she can't stand it no more. At that point She knows that she is about to cum and would always reach down and grab my hands to make me stop . Like dam why stop now, let it rip baby. I now it probably feels different to her and she doesn't know what is about to happen or just doesn't want to cum yet. I am lost at this one.

My first wife I got to squirt and man that was awesome feeling. I had my dick inside her when she went and felt so warm like I was in a Jacuzzi. Was on the carpet floor while my parents was gone. Had just finish when thay pull up. Didn't have time to clean up that much. Funny part about it was my dog keep going over to the spot where she squirted and smelling it Couldn't get the dog away from it.

Hey househunter- thanks for the props-- maybe your wife is scared she is going to urinate. It really feels like that is what is about to happen, the pressure-like feeling is a lot the same. Just try to take it slow and let her get to orgasm point gradually. My boyfriend always puts his fingers deep up in me, but uses a slow, light-to-moderate stroke on my g-spot. Also, if you are concentrating too hard on trying to squirt, sometimes it won't happen. Anyway, just be casual about the whole thing and don't try to rush it. Get her mind on something else by talking dirty in her ear, kissing the upper part of her body, watching a porn, etc., while you are stroking her. Above all, keep gently encouraging her. You sound like a considerate husband, and I bet if you can get her to relax about it, it will happen. By the way, my bf and I had 2 hrs. of the hottest sex we have had in a while, and even though he rubbed my g-spot continually, I didn't really do one of my gushers all night long. So it doesn't always happen even for us "pros!" Just keep trying. Have a good night.

[softlips]

For both of you, slow down. You are trying to make your partner " Work " and do something and that is obviously removing the fun part from the event. Love making is having fun- not proving a point, or milking a cow! Often times, the only flow from a G-Sport orgasm is an increased amount of wetness in the vagina following a climax, and not a gushing, or squirting amount being expelled from her pussy. Not every ejaculation a man has is a gusher, either. The prostate Gland where the majority of seminal fluid is stored may or may not be full , and may or may not discharge all the fluid at one time. The same can be said about the G-spot. The paraurethral gland in women may or may not be full, for any number of reasons.

Some women do seem to have the capacity to expel huge amounts of fluid, and they are the ones making the squirting porn movies you can see. Other women can do that, too, but have no interest in making such movies. Most women can have this kind of gusher only once in awhile, and they have no control over when it happens. Now that G-spot orgasms are being studied, and explained, and we have excellent toys to help women have G-spot orgasms, perhaps some women will practice and learn what techniques work better than others, or how to train that gland to fill with fluid so they can gush or squirt on demand.

The one thing you both can do that I did not see you mention in your descriptions, is to massage, or push down on the outside of your groin with one hand while the other, or your partner's fingers, cock, or a dildo or vibrator is massaging the g-spot internally.

Since this topic began, Mikayla has written an informative article on, Guide to Having a G-spot Orgasm. Its posted here. Its well written, naturally, and really strips away a lot of the myth and fog surrounding this area of women's anatomy, and how women and men can enjoy enhancing orgasms by massaging this area intentionally.

http://tootimid.com/sex_education/misc/06/...spot_orgasm.htm

Please read it. I think it will help anyone interested in experiencing a G-Spot orgasm. But first and foremost, make this a fun thing to do, and not some kind of contest, or work.

Howard