Members schlingel Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 ok, i give up wandering why, but the wife has decided to go ahead once again and try to pleasure herself. for new readers, this is suspected to be only the second time in her life, for repeat readers - the saga continues.i know now that she needs some visual stimulation, because she asked me for it. she has asked me to find somethng similar to a scene in "boston babydolls #16", where the first scene goes a good 8-10 minutes of the guy bringing the girl to climax. not all oral, but enough. at that point the film turns into the same 99% standard of money-shot madness. but for this scene, i would call it real, amatuer footage of the woman having an orgasm at the hand/tongue of her lover (w/o the overdone audio track moaning and close-up gushing).And although the quick answer is a lesbian flick, that's not for her. again, i know because i asked her.So, does anyone have any suggestions? Btw, this "occurrence" will be her bday this upcoming week, so i need a smokin fast turn-around on this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 ok, i give up wandering why, but the wife has decided to go ahead once again and try to pleasure herself. for new readers, this is suspected to be only the second time in her life, for repeat readers - the saga continues.i know now that she needs some visual stimulation, because she asked me for it. she has asked me to find somethng similar to a scene in "boston babydolls #16", where the first scene goes a good 8-10 minutes of the guy bringing the girl to climax. not all oral, but enough. at that point the film turns into the same 99% standard of money-shot madness. but for this scene, i would call it real, amatuer footage of the woman having an orgasm at the hand/tongue of her lover (w/o the overdone audio track moaning and close-up gushing).And although the quick answer is a lesbian flick, that's not for her. again, i know because i asked her.So, does anyone have any suggestions? Btw, this "occurrence" will be her bday this upcoming week, so i need a smokin fast turn-around on this.So if she seems to like the amatuer style they make movies just like that, als o story line porn is often refered to as "chick porn" so you can try that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 sounds like she likes amateur and oral? She seems to be getting off on the oral. Do you do that for her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members schlingel Posted May 26, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 sounds like she likes amateur and oral? She seems to be getting off on the oral. Do you do that for her?are you kidding? that's all we do outside the 5 min quickie, get it over with style of hers. unless shes in the middle of a half-ass bj i beg for- where i end up doing 90% of the work. honestly, i'd rather jack off in the bathroom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 are you kidding? that's all we do outside the 5 min quickie, get it over with style of hers. unless shes in the middle of a half-ass bj i beg for- where i end up doing 90% of the work. honestly, i'd rather jack off in the bathroom.Eddy, sounds like you have some resentment at her efforts. I don't know the whole story, but has she been on here? Are there issues between you two, other than the sexual ones? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 I don't fully understand this either. She's trying to masturbate for the second time, and has asked you to provide her with visual stimulation to help her. She wants to see a woman getting off orally or manually. You don't sound happy about any of this, all I can hear from it is resentment also. She needs to come here and ask questions herself, maybe we can help her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted May 26, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 26, 2008 I went back and looked at your post from 3/24 and if I'm correct she is still out of the country right? Sorry if I'm off the mark here, but it's sounding more like you may have some repressed worries and anger that this "new" her might be caused by infidelity. I know that being apart is very hard on any relationship and when you're going "without" you can easily get paranoid if things seem to be changing with the partner. All I can say is that if this is the case you really need to communicate your feelings, fears, and worries to her. Really listen to her so you can pick up thru her words and tone what is really going on here. Hopefully it's just her sexual awakening and you should be pleased....you will reap the benefits of that with love, patience, and encouragement. It's never too late to turn a tepid relationship hot IF both partners really put some effort into it. Maybe she's turning that corner now....Hope it all turns out well for you both! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members schlingel Posted May 27, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 Eddy, sounds like you have some resentment at her efforts. I don't know the whole story, but has she been on here? Are there issues between you two, other than the sexual ones?no, i'm just taken aback that someone might suggest i dont give enough oral/manual stimulation. and it's not just the number of times, but the effort that goes into it (we're talking 20-40+ minutes some times). by comparison, my bj's end after about 90 seconds, and i'm reaching down to finish it off. i know i should be more diplomatic in my expressions - sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted May 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 no, i'm just taken aback that someone might suggest i dont give enough oral/manual stimulation. and it's not just the number of times, but the effort that goes into it (we're talking 20-40+ minutes some times). by comparison, my bj's end after about 90 seconds, and i'm reaching down to finish it off. i know i should be more diplomatic in my expressions - sorry.I don't think it was a suggestion as not enough so much as a question of how much. just infor gathering to lead you in the right direction. I think you need to talk to your wife, when she gets back, about her efforts for you. Show her some of the articles on here about oral sex, she may not be secure in her skills. And always make sure your reinforcing her efforts either way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted May 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 I don't have a list of titles or directors, because we mostly rent on cable. What I can tell you is to look for the porn that is directed by women, for women.They aren't lesbian porn only. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted May 27, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 no, i'm just taken aback that someone might suggest i dont give enough oral/manual stimulation. and it's not just the number of times, but the effort that goes into it (we're talking 20-40+ minutes some times). by comparison, my bj's end after about 90 seconds, and i'm reaching down to finish it off. i know i should be more diplomatic in my expressions - sorry.The reason I asked if you are giving her oral is this quote by you. "she has asked me to find somethng similar to a scene in "boston babydolls #16", where the first scene goes a good 8-10 minutes of the guy bringing the girl to climax. not all oral, but enough.but for this scene, i would call it real, amatuer footage of the woman having an orgasm at the hand/tongue of her lover (w/o the overdone audio track moaning and close-up gushing).People tend to want to watch things that they don't get alot of or that really turn them on, otherwise why watch it? No one was saying you didn't give enough, but your post led me to believe that she isn't.And yes we do hear resentment in your posts. Your above words of "and it's not just the number of times, but the effort that goes into it (we're talking 20-40+ minutes some times). by comparison, my bj's end after about 90 seconds, and i'm reaching down to finish it off." sound to me like you're resentful.People here are only trying to help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members schlingel Posted May 28, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 The reason I asked if you are giving her oral is this quote by you. "she has asked me to find somethng similar to a scene in "boston babydolls #16", where the first scene goes a good 8-10 minutes of the guy bringing the girl to climax. not all oral, but enough.but for this scene, i would call it real, amatuer footage of the woman having an orgasm at the hand/tongue of her lover (w/o the overdone audio track moaning and close-up gushing).People tend to want to watch things that they don't get alot of or that really turn them on, otherwise why watch it? No one was saying you didn't give enough, but your post led me to believe that she isn't.And yes we do hear resentment in your posts. Your above words of "and it's not just the number of times, but the effort that goes into it (we're talking 20-40+ minutes some times). by comparison, my bj's end after about 90 seconds, and i'm reaching down to finish it off." sound to me like you're resentful.People here are only trying to help.my bad. you're right. i'm just so close to giving up, i'll lash out at anything. i'd like to think i can keep this up forever, but i just don't know anymore. the sad thing is, when i suggested that she come here and seek advice (like me, right?), i was told to keep that "perversion" to myself. i'm lost. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted May 28, 2008 Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 Unfortunately, it's a common misconception that this place is for "freaks" or sex-crazed lunatics. After all, who's ever really heard of an adult site that is really all about adults having basic discussions about sex, without trying to hook up? It's great that you're trying to figure out a way to solve this problem. Many people would just go off and pout, or refuse to do anything about it, remaining miserable and unsatisfied. So, you definitely get kuddos for that.Now, if she's talking to YOU about her sexual fantasies, what is wrong with you asking her to prolong the oral? If she doesn't want to to that, then, my dear, you either need to just let it go on with the way that is is, or you need to shorten up YOUR oral giving. After all, if she wants some lovin', she should be willing and able to give it right back to you. Fair's fair in love and lust! But, first you need to let her know that you have some requests, before you just STOP. Tell her a few times. If it doesn't work, try the shortening it up. That may be the last lick that broke the pussy's back.Best wishes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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