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Ok I am so confused now. I thought G spot orgasms were normally supposed to take at least a half hour. Now I'm wondering if if I ever had one at all. Because what I experienced was not that quick. Nor that rough.

Is it supposed to happen in 2 or 3 minutes? Because if that's the norm then somethings wrong with me :(

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Ok I am so confused now. I thought G spot orgasms were normally supposed to take at least a half hour. Now I'm wondering if if I ever had one at all. Because what I experienced was not that quick. Nor that rough.

Is it supposed to happen in 2 or 3 minutes? Because if that's the norm then somethings wrong with me :(

Hiya, well I think it is like we talked about, you know the relaxing factor. They say for women something like 90% of orgasm is psychological. It takes longer if you aren't relaxed enough or are stressed, having anxiety etc... It used to take me anywhere from 15-45 min to orgasm if I even did at all! And then it was game over for me. Once you can let go I swear I don't even know how it happens but when you do they come easier and faster almost effortless. I feel anyway, at this time that's how it is for me I hope it doesn't change all of a sudden like the way it showed up.

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So you say....(this might be true for a NORMAL man) but I showed this clip to my husband and told him he'd be tested on it.... he half-assed tried for less than 2 minutes then wanted to hurry up and finish in same old way....ended up using a vibe and even before that could go anywhere he's ready for "his turn"....sorry dude!....not gonna happen!....let him know if I didn't cum he wasn't going to either! He was shocked!....can't believe I'm turning "so demanding" then pulls those passive-aggressive bullshit lines about "well I'm sorry I'm such a loser to you...etc." Pullleeze! I am SO thru here. This is a man who swears he loves me but could live without sex if I don't instigate it every time and then it's ALWAYS just about a quick fix (for him!). The fat lady has now sung and I'll be looking elsewhere for my kicks! Please don't respond with scolds or sympathy....I don't need either....I'm not even sad or angry really....this has been coming for years and I'm just not going to spend anymore years dis-satisfied just to do "whats right".

GOOD FOR YOU!

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I agree with Sunflower, Good for you!!!! No need to be upset since it is a the best thing for YOU!! Best of luck on squirting!!haha

Peace,

Mark

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So you say....(this might be true for a NORMAL man) but I showed this clip to my husband and told him he'd be tested on it.... he half-assed tried for less than 2 minutes then wanted to hurry up and finish in same old way....ended up using a vibe and even before that could go anywhere he's ready for "his turn"....sorry dude!....not gonna happen!....let him know if I didn't cum he wasn't going to either! He was shocked!....can't believe I'm turning "so demanding" then pulls those passive-aggressive bullshit lines about "well I'm sorry I'm such a loser to you...etc." Pullleeze! I am SO thru here. This is a man who swears he loves me but could live without sex if I don't instigate it every time and then it's ALWAYS just about a quick fix (for him!). The fat lady has now sung and I'll be looking elsewhere for my kicks! Please don't respond with scolds or sympathy....I don't need either....I'm not even sad or angry really....this has been coming for years and I'm just not going to spend anymore years dis-satisfied just to do "whats right".

Believe me when I say "I Understand".

Man

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I'm just not going to spend anymore years dis-satisfied just to do "whats right".

Life's too short to settle! And "what's right" for someone else or society may not be "what's right" for you. Live your life the way YOU want to, and not by anyone else's standards!

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So you say....(this might be true for a NORMAL man) but I showed this clip to my husband and told him he'd be tested on it.... he half-assed tried for less than 2 minutes then wanted to hurry up and finish in same old way....ended up using a vibe and even before that could go anywhere he's ready for "his turn"....sorry dude!....not gonna happen!....let him know if I didn't cum he wasn't going to either! He was shocked!....can't believe I'm turning "so demanding" then pulls those passive-aggressive bullshit lines about "well I'm sorry I'm such a loser to you...etc." Pullleeze! I am SO thru here. This is a man who swears he loves me but could live without sex if I don't instigate it every time and then it's ALWAYS just about a quick fix (for him!). The fat lady has now sung and I'll be looking elsewhere for my kicks! Please don't respond with scolds or sympathy....I don't need either....I'm not even sad or angry really....this has been coming for years and I'm just not going to spend anymore years dis-satisfied just to do "whats right".

Wow chloegirl, this is a big decision but I know you didn't make it lightly. All the best to you.

BTW a close friend of mine split with her husband after 25 years mainly because of sex-related stuff. Two and a half years later she is with the love of her life and couldn't be happier.

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I have learned you have to do what makes you happy. Trying to do what you think everyone else wants is not going to make you happy....you will be miserable. I used to do the right thing always and do what was expected. Then I realized taht I was so unhappy that it wasn't funny. I finally woke up and realized I am doing for me and what makes me happy. As long as I am not endangering my life then it doesn't matter. If others don't like it then obviously they dont' want me to be happy they want me to be miserable as well.

That was a big step you made to doing what you need. Good luck.

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So you say....(this might be true for a NORMAL man) but I showed this clip to my husband and told him he'd be tested on it.... he half-assed tried for less than 2 minutes then wanted to hurry up and finish in same old way....ended up using a vibe and even before that could go anywhere he's ready for "his turn"....sorry dude!....not gonna happen!....let him know if I didn't cum he wasn't going to either! He was shocked!....can't believe I'm turning "so demanding" then pulls those passive-aggressive bullshit lines about "well I'm sorry I'm such a loser to you...etc." Pullleeze! I am SO thru here. This is a man who swears he loves me but could live without sex if I don't instigate it every time and then it's ALWAYS just about a quick fix (for him!). The fat lady has now sung and I'll be looking elsewhere for my kicks! Please don't respond with scolds or sympathy....I don't need either....I'm not even sad or angry really....this has been coming for years and I'm just not going to spend anymore years dis-satisfied just to do "whats right".

I hear ya, girl..I'd rather be without that with a selfish prick.

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Thanks for the post!

Well Angelkisses and I and both of the hubbies had a really fun sexual ed night, on our visit we had, and the boys intensely studied Nina's techniques as well as the Gspot video. And studied well. And I can vouch for the fact that Nina has it spot on. :lol:

Mine studied very well because all I can say was I was senseless after he presented his oral report this afternoon. :o

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Well Angelkisses and I and both of the hubbies had a really fun sexual ed night, on our visit we had, and the boys intensely studied Nina's techniques as well as the Gspot video. And studied well. And I can vouch for the fact that Nina has it spot on. :lol:

Mine studied very well because all I can say was I was senseless after he presented his oral report this afternoon. :o

Yes I would say her technique will definitely do it. I am glad that you all had an interesting time. Glad the boys put their time to good use. Good to hear he did a wonderful presentation....keep up the great work hubby.

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Not to rain on anyone's parade, but on that last link (http://blog.innerpendejo. . . . ), my McAfee Site Advisor flags this site as potential trouble, saying:

"When we tested, this site attempted to make unauthorized changes to our test PC by exploiting a browser security vulnerability. This is a serious security threat which could lead to an infection of your PC. "

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On the other clips, thanks! Definitely gotta practice some more.

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I found this video by accident, but I have to say, it is a nice visual example of some great cunniligual techniques! Warning: This is an explict video, but it is educationally presented.

You-Porn Vid on Pussy Eating

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]Wow!! Mikayla!! Nice Site. Excellent oral and strap-on female to male!! Me so horny.....going to go to bed with my Doc Johnson and lots of lube!!! Thanx!!

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I don't know how I missed this posting. Great educational post Mikayla.

Men if you are married, single, dating whatever take note. You never know what you can learn.

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