Newbie browneyez29 Posted September 15, 2008 Newbie Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 i just ordered my first toy. my boyfriend doesn't know that i did. i was just wanting to try 2 spice up our sex life. how do i approach this with him. i don't want him 2 feel like he doesn't do the job for me. we have sex everyday and everytime i cum, well a lot of the time i get muliple orgasms. so how do i bring this into the picture without him thinking less of himself? it's more for the fun of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Neuroticax Posted September 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 I would just ask him what he thinks about them, or bring them up in a conversation then go from there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shariana Posted September 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 15, 2008 When I introduced my last boyfriend to them, we were talking about porn (he was watching it, and I wasn't too pleased at the time) and he said that it was interesting how some people had things to help themselves.... I asked him if it interested him and he said it did.... so then I confessed that I had some toys.... oh boy.... he had FUN with that! =DMy current "good friend" (as we are calling it for now) hadn't experienced much, so I told him one night that I had an "interesting prospect" for him.... he said he was game for anything because his past girlfriends hadn't been very "adventurous".... he was rather amused by my little collection....Just find breaks in *private* conversation to mention it to him to see what his opinion on it is.... Make sure he knows that it's not to replace him (that's what my last thought) but to enhance the experience.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted September 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 The thing is, some guys dig it and some are more intimidated by it. Using toys that is. I would, like the others say, ask him how he feels about it. OR maybe make something up like. "My friend Sally told me she got a new vibrator. Her boyfriend/husband loves using it on her! What do you think about that stuff??" You know, feel him out. My H definitely loves using them on me and knowing when I have used them solo. I do know that some guys are afraid that it will replace them for sexual satisfaction. I think it is probably just because they don't have much experience with them IMO. Good luck and keep us posted Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie OnlyHers Posted October 3, 2008 Newbie Report Share Posted October 3, 2008 I just bought a silver bullet for my wife, and she REALLY likes it....I really like what it does for her what a turn on for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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