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  1. Works for me. If only other forums had these rules.
  2. Said person has to do it because THEY want it, THEY want to see it. If there's major doubt, it shouldn't happen. Then again threesomes and moresomes have been the best thing to happen to some couples.
  3. For some women, especially those who enjoy being with rich men, money is a turn on. If he has a big wallet and never ending cash flow, said woman would be like a pig in shit.
  4. My definition: Sex is just that; sex. You *make love to the person you are with, share your energy and feelings. But including other people, it's getting your rocks off - so to speak. I don't think that it doesn't mean you're not 100% committed, I feel it means you ARE 100% committed. It took me quiet awhile to even have a 3sum with my ex, but once we did I had no problem with it. I loved watching him do another girl and knew that he wasn't going to up and leave me for her because he loved ME, not her. If I wasn't comfortable, he made sure it wouldn't happen. He respected my feelings and wanted ME to have fun, not just him. - That relationship has since left. We were pretty rocky, but not once was any argument over any extracurricular sexual activities we shared. I think sometimes it's insecurity that leads to the jealousy. "What if he likes her/him better than me?" - "What if he/she is a better lover?" etc, etc. Been there, done that. It's a dark place and it sucks. Once I let go and realized that I was getting something that I wanted and I fantasized about, I felt a lot better about it. It made me happy to see him happy and it made him happy to see me happy and I was definitely happy. I was bi before I met him and am still after him. Can things like this rip couples of apart? It sure can. Numerous reasons, but mainly jealousy. You need to make sure you're doing it because YOU want to, not because he wants to and you're doing it JUST to make him happy. If you're not going to be happy by the outcome then do not attempt it. A good way to help yourself feel more comfortable is to start a relationship with someone you'd have in mind to include. Give yourself time to talk things over, converse, share ideas and definitely limits. If you go along with the 3sum and find that it was hotter in your head, but you can live with the fact you tried and hey, it just wasn't for you, then you could even have added a friendship to your life and no harm is done. *make love: This can include any form of sexual activity that is between ones lover and thyself.
  5. IMO, I would say 5-10lbs MAX. I'm really not into that whole "perfect weight" crap doctors pull out. I say 20-30 lbs above that weight is sexy. Then again, I'm biast, I love women with some weight on her. I think all you really need to do is tone.
  6. It depends on the store. Some stores around here would consider that "already made" food and would reject it on Food Stamps. I don't think that should be accepted because of the fact that it's already made. But then again, it's probably covered under bakery - so I don't know. I was never impressed with pre-made birthday cakes anyway. lol
  7. Yes, yes, totally bank on the the fact you're taking longer than expected. Sooo many guys can't control it. Play with it a little (no pun intended lol) see if you can make yourself cum quicker and if you can hold out longer. This is a GOOD thing for the majority of women. Checking out Mikayla's articles and doing other research could make you into a great lover if you can control it.
  8. We don't say a whole lot outside of the bedroom, we do a lot of "secret" touching and what not that pretty much tells us what we're thinking. Like he'll slap and rub my ass, or sneak a feel of my pussy or tits. I'll randomly grab his dick and start to rub it. Just silly things like that to say "I'm thinking about you, and I want you." In the bedroom.. it's on. lol We have kind of a light Dom/sub relationship going, so it's a lot of "good girl" instructions and stuff. But we have small convos like "Your dick feels so good in my wet pussy." or "Do you like that? How's that feel?" We get into more stuff, but.. yeah. lol
  9. See, that doesn't work with me. I'd rather see tits than a dick any day.. lol It's still funny though.
  10. Waaaaaaaaaaay back in the day before I even knew what masturbation was (I saw one of my moms porns and was like hmm, that looks fun!) I used the strap from a purse I had, folded it and used that. Then there was some baton looking toy I had, I used that also. Later on I've used a cucumber, the handle to a screw driver.. tried to lotion bottle but... that didn't fit. lol uhhh I think that's it. I was never one for insertion, I've always gotten my kicks from clitoral stimulation when it came to masturbating.
  11. I'll definitely remember to hit you up when I need someone to talk to! It's always nice to have someone who knows exactly what's going on.
  12. You really need to pay attention to your partners body language when doing this. You'll eventually know when things can go too far and possibly even loose the safety word. Speaking of that, I would say use a gesture, rather than a word. Depending on how much force you are using, you could mistake it for a groan. Snapping of the fingers is one that's worked for me in the past. If you want to "practice", you can always have a sit down with her and try and get a feel of how close to get before it would be too much. Personally, I enjoy hands more than scarfs or belts or what have you. This all depends on you and your lovers comfortable zone. Scarfs and such could irritate the skin or leave marks, (again, depending on the force) which is why I prefer hands.. and the fact I love feeling his hands on me. Using scarfs can be erotic and sensual, belts can be dominant and exciting. It's all in preference really. Try whatever until you're comfortable.
  13. I wouldn't say sex is the most important, but for me it has to be a good foundation to the relationship.
  14. I did a review on the Slimline G Twin awhile ago, I really liked it! http://shop.tootimid.com/slimline-g-twin.aspx
  15. Boxers all the way! I don't care what color, type - whatever. The SO looks sexy as hell in any type!
  16. Stars: 4/5 Fancy a flogging? Get whipped! I'm really thinking about starting my own whip collection. I just LOVE them and have not come across one that I did not. This one is really no different. The overall look of the whip is one word: Sexy. And it's so simple too, that's the great part. You've got about 9 inches of tail strings that are made of a soft suede. Depending on the mood and what you like, this can deliver a nice, soft, caressing tickle; leaving you with delightful goosebumps. Or you're going to get a really good, sharp crack on the ass, tits or wherever your lover is directing the whip. My favorite was the soft tickle on my tits and then a quick crack on them. And repeat! The handle is about 7 inches and the design on it is pretty cool and catches the eye. I'm not sure of what the material is wrapped around the handle, but if your hands are sweaty or have lube on them it could get slippery. But with it being wrapped around the handle itself, it makes gripping a bit easier. It could be kind of hard to clean, if you're that tidy, but until I experiment a bit more I'd say you could clean it with wipes and a q-tip. At the end of the shaft, there is a loop convenient for hanging up during storage or to slip your wrist into for extra grip and security. The material on the inside of the loop is nice and soft so it doesn't irritate your skin. This is a really good addition to any collection or for the first time BDSM experimenter. Note: This was this was bought outside of the reviewers circle.
  17. I honestly think the woman makes the panties. Not everyone looks the same in underwear. I'm not talking about really big women wearing thongs, I'm talking about different styles on different women. Some women have the butt for boy shorts and thongs, some, not so much. It all depends on the woman, her body and the type of underwear. My favs? Boy shorts and thongs! My SO LOVES me in my thongs, any style, color or cloth!
  18. Cool! I love nipple clamps! Are they kind heavy? Since you said 3 batteries, I'd assume button cells? I know for me the sensations I get off my nipples and nipple items differ between laying down, sitting up and bent over, is there any difference here? It would be great if they held on well while bent over, with the breasts kind of.. hanging? lol Do the ends have any type of grip of them?
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