Guest eminatic Posted September 16, 2008 Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 edited for privacy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted September 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 What you are tempted to do is 'triangulate'. This is never a good thing, in fact, it leads to all kinds of complications in life. Don't dismiss that the man in question may understand your propensity for triangulating, and is using that to tell the other women about the cheating, because he is a coward and sleaze.Triangulating is a very bad habit, and one that many people learn by getting their relationship education from soap operas. I so wish relationship skills were taught somewhere along the line in High school or college.I think it is also a sign of codependency (no?) I know I am like that, I have to try to fix everything for everyone. Let it go girl you said your piece... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted September 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 Keep in mind that you labeled him a douchebag, rightly so, and see that there is something more that he is trying to accomplish than letting you read this essay! In the long run you would only come out as the bad guy in their eyes. It's better to keep your distance and watch the lightning when it strikes him down. I'm sure one of these girls will find that same paper lying around somewhere! Doesn't sound like a friend at all! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members makasha1 Posted September 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 I agree with IHA and Pappy. Sounds to me like the Douchebag is trying to use you to do the dirtywork he doesn't have the cojones to do himself.IMHO if you get involved you will be the one to get hurt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jhard Posted September 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 Apart from the fact that the guy is a sleeze, it is a disgrace that crap like that essay counts for University level academic work.j Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted September 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 Unless your family with these girls, it's not of your business. EVen if he told you, stay out of it, you;ll have the problems that result, not him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted September 16, 2008 Report Share Posted September 16, 2008 yeah, i guess you guys are right...i've already told him what would be the proper thing to do so i guess i'll just have to let him decide whether he wants to do it or not... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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