Members ladylove Posted February 27, 2009 Members Report Share Posted February 27, 2009 Strap-Ons: Scary or Fun?Many women are open to the idea of a vibrator — titillated, even. But strap-ons?For those of you who aren't sure, a strap-on is a dildo that's designed to be worn in a harness for hands-free stimulation. Its use is not just limited to vaginal intercourse — strap-ons can be used for anal play too.The idea of a strap-on may seem intimidating to some, but the reality can be a lot of fun. The "harness" you wear to keep a dildo in place is like underwear, coming in a range of styles, colors, and themes. The dildo itself is just like a vibrator (and can, in fact, vibrate) — there are big ones, small ones, realistic-looking ones, and completely surreal ones. So a variety of new sensations are possible. For instance, use strap-ons to explore G-spot stimulation when you want to go a second round but he's not ready yet — and for some G-spot exploration on him too. Hint: The male G-spot is the prostate.So there you go, explore away. Strap-ons create an entirely new sexual experience, if for nothing else than the feeling of having one on! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted February 27, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted February 27, 2009 never have done the strap on thing so male and females alike, lets hear it. Tell us what you think and a story if you will. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted February 27, 2009 Review Team Report Share Posted February 27, 2009 I would love to hear some stories, too. SO and I have talked about getting one but we still have not been through all the goodies in my current toy box! LOL! Seriously though, the thought it very erotic to me, both having one used on me and using one on him. He isn't so sure about the latter concept though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members crossroads123 Posted February 27, 2009 Members Report Share Posted February 27, 2009 Ladies I was once "involved" with a lady friend who terribly enjoyed both giving and receiving the pleasure of the stap-on. We spent some wonderful days and nights together sharing her little surprise. I soon learned it is wonderful to give and to receive also. Thanks Ladies for bringing back such beautiful memories. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted February 28, 2009 Members Report Share Posted February 28, 2009 I think they might be fun, but I have no experience with them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted February 28, 2009 Members Report Share Posted February 28, 2009 Haven't actually got to put it to real use yet but I can say that wearing it and the thought and feel of actually using it is very erotic. Can't wait for the actual test run! As with so much of this stuff though, the degree of hotness depends of the receptiveness of your partner. The more sensual and open-minded they are the more the game heats up! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members stockingsandheels Posted February 28, 2009 Members Report Share Posted February 28, 2009 Haven't actually got to put it to real use yet but I can say that wearing it and the thought and feel of actually using it is very erotic. Can't wait for the actual test run! As with so much of this stuff though, the degree of hotness depends of the receptiveness of your partner. The more sensual and open-minded they are the more the game heats up! Sounds like fun I'm in... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted February 28, 2009 Members Report Share Posted February 28, 2009 Sounds like fun I'm in... Oh I guarantee you'd enjoy it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted February 28, 2009 Author Members Report Share Posted February 28, 2009 Oh I guarantee you'd enjoy it! Oh yea? How's that, let us know how? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted February 28, 2009 Report Share Posted February 28, 2009 If you are a woman, and have ever been curious, even the least bit, what it's like to experience having a cock, then I would definitely recommend getting one of these!!!I have 4 different types of strap-ons/harnesses. The latest one is the Sportsheet velvet harness set. and that one, by far, is the most versatile and comfortable so far!! Honestly, iha, I doubt very much that you'd be laughing at the object of your desire wearing a strap-on, if you decided to participate in anal sex this way. My hubby, who had started to practice anal sex with me, and solo, thought I was super-duper hot with it too!! He can't wait to see me in one now!!I started to feel silly about it, the first time I got a harness (Double Delight Vibrating Harness Dildo Set), but that was an extremely comfortable, dually stimulating, and erotic sex toy I had up to that date!! I saw myself with a hard cock jutting out from my pubic region, and OMG!! I got dripping, literally, dripping wet just from the view!!! I was alone when I tried it on, and I had to fuck myself right then and there!! Oh yeah, that hot!!! And when I had sex with hubby with it, I was so wet and hot, that even with the smaller non-vibrating cock inside me, I was almost frantic with desire!There are a couple of key points to keep in mind when looking for a harness/strap-on set: First is to be ready for such a toy. The other is to find the one that works best for YOU, which may take a few tries, or just one, depending on what you get. You have to find the one that you feel comfortable IN, that works with you and the toys you want to use with it (if it doesn't have any attached to it), and how it moves with you. Some harnesses can be mega-$$$, but if they move wrong, while the wearer is thrusting, they're not worth 50 cents! Anyway, I would FULLY recommend that anyone that loves anal play with their lovers get a strap-on/harness. It can be a most exciting experience!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinky Twinkie Posted March 1, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 1, 2009 If you are a woman, and have ever been curious, even the least bit, what it's like to experience having a cock, then I would definitely recommend getting one of these!!!I have 4 different types of strap-ons/harnesses. The latest one is the Sportsheet velvet harness set. and that one, by far, is the most versatile and comfortable so far!! Honestly, iha, I doubt very much that you'd be laughing at the object of your desire wearing a strap-on, if you decided to participate in anal sex this way. My hubby, who had started to practice anal sex with me, and solo, thought I was super-duper hot with it too!! He can't wait to see me in one now!!I started to feel silly about it, the first time I got a harness (Double Delight Vibrating Harness Dildo Set), but that was an extremely comfortable, dually stimulating, and erotic sex toy I had up to that date!! I saw myself with a hard cock jutting out from my pubic region, and OMG!! I got dripping, literally, dripping wet just from the view!!! I was alone when I tried it on, and I had to fuck myself right then and there!! Oh yeah, that hot!!! And when I had sex with hubby with it, I was so wet and hot, that even with the smaller non-vibrating cock inside me, I was almost frantic with desire!There are a couple of key points to keep in mind when looking for a harness/strap-on set: First is to be ready for such a toy. The other is to find the one that works best for YOU, which may take a few tries, or just one, depending on what you get. You have to find the one that you feel comfortable IN, that works with you and the toys you want to use with it (if it doesn't have any attached to it), and how it moves with you. Some harnesses can be mega-$$$, but if they move wrong, while the wearer is thrusting, they're not worth 50 cents! Anyway, I would FULLY recommend that anyone that loves anal play with their lovers get a strap-on/harness. It can be a most exciting experience!!!Imagining Tyger driping wet from a strap on just makes me crave an experince even more and she has one lucky man who I can concur with. It was my biggest fantasy to be taken by a woman with a strap on and I not sure but I thin the first time I read about an experince was when I was a teen readin an adult mag and later saw it in porn. In fact I have bought porn just for the scene. My sister in law gave us a gift card on Christmas 07 to a sex store and I talked the wife into the strap on. We have tried things like the strap on with pull up rubber panty only to have it break from streaching. She not huge but has wide hips. Well we got in on and she fucked me in the ass with it for what I know was two good hours. It been the hottest sex to date and the cum was increadable. So much I couldn't even lick it all up but she said she enjoyed the expiernce. It gives me and her a chance to experince each others experinces. usually, it dosnt happen very often, when she wears it I just have to suck that thing. She dosnt say it but the look on her face says she enjys seeing me suck it.Unfortunally the dildos are bigger then me but I do my best. I just wish the wife would say dirty things while I do it. I find it best to just start the penetration process then let me do the rest. As I loosen up and get relaxed I feel the ass of mine just swallow it deeper and when I relaxed I will start the back and forth action myself. I know it was two hours the first time because we had a two hour porn that started when we did and was over before I came,The second time was about a year ago when I had her just lay on top and penetrate me as we watched something on the playboy channel. I couldnt control myself and came much faster. I just like having it in and holding it there. I have no idea what a real dick would feel like and I don't have desires to be with a maan although I wonder whatthe act would be like. I not attracted to men nor do they turn me on but being a bottem to a man while women watch at their pleasure seems to be a hot fantasy. I read a few stories in porn books that just got me so turned on and I would say it is fantasy of female domination. I even had a bi video where the threesome act turned me on but twhen it was just man on man well the little twinki became as limp as a noodle. When the woman was involved in the process the thing shot straight up. So if it turns you on and you want to bring fantasy to life without trying it in real life then this is a good way. It sort of scarry but fun at same time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted March 1, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 1, 2009 Oh yea? How's that, let us know how?2 eager participants open to the eroticism of the experience, alot of foreplay, the heat builds up....I promise to start out gently and ratchet it up slowly and intensely....give it the way you like to get it.....and end with an orgasmic explosion the likes of which you haven't seen before (that's the goal anyway!) And Glenn's got the rest of the experience down.....this is definitely the time to turn the tables and get a bit agressive....you get them in the zone and just the sight of you coming at them with that on stroking it as you talk to them (and I don't mean all sweetness and light!) then command them to stroke and suck on it and do anything else that you desire, while telling them just exactly what you're going to do....well, like I said.....if you've got someone open to the game you've got a whole new dimension to explore there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members stockingsandheels Posted March 1, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 1, 2009 2 eager participants open to the eroticism of the experience, alot of foreplay, the heat builds up....I promise to start out gently and ratchet it up slowly and intensely....give it the way you like to get it.....and end with an orgasmic explosion the likes of which you haven't seen before (that's the goal anyway!) And Glenn's got the rest of the experience down.....this is definitely the time to turn the tables and get a bit agressive....you get them in the zone and just the sight of you coming at them with that on stroking it as you talk to them (and I don't mean all sweetness and light!) then command them to stroke and suck on it and do anything else that you desire, while telling them just exactly what you're going to do....well, like I said.....if you've got someone open to the game you've got a whole new dimension to explore there!I'm in where do I sign up? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinky Twinkie Posted March 1, 2009 Members Report Share Posted March 1, 2009 I'm in where do I sign up? Oh God if I I wasn't married I be trying to Court Cloegirl after the vision I jiust had of her with a strap on doing what she just said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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