Family can really help a lot in these type of situations. I have been going to counseling for a few months now and it has helped me figure out some of my issues. I go by myself. Around this time I decided to take time away from my family to be around friends since I realized that I had no support system since my family lives 6 hours away except for my mom, who can't help. I now have a place to go if I needed to and I was able to get advice from a lawyer friend for free. Now I can have a plan in place in case there is another blow out.