Mi.Georgia.peach

Welcome sounds like fun good luck

Oh hunny I feel you. I don't have a special needs kid just one with loads of health issues. So we went through that as well almost exact same scenario. Try talking to him about how you feel he may not realize it at all. I know i did exactly what you described I pulled away so he thought I was nwver interested and he pulled away. I finally said look why do you not even look at me anymore? Unfortunately by the time it got to that point my relationship was done (other issues involved) but we had a long talk and I cried and realized he wanted different thimgs and had for a long time. Not to scare you I am out of the relationship it was hard atill is at times but I am happy now. I do things for me and I find that once again I want sex all the time lol. Maybe because I am single and not into casual sex so it doesn't happen often and I treasure it when it does. Who knows but I hope you find peace no matter what the solution.

Ya well that partner was my ex husband so it won't be with him lol. I agree fully about being aware and going slow and talking about it. Thats the thing I would have been fine trying it had he informed me and gone about it differently. However it has made me slightly leery of it now but reading on here and talking to people is making me think about it again.

Thanks for the advice and ya that was the issue before. We were having sex doggie style and he suddenly pulled out and stuck it in. No lube no warning no nothing and it was painful and completely a turn off to me.

So I had a really bad experience with anal the one time I tried it. Anyway, been chatting with a few people lately and everyone keeps telling me how great it is. Is it really that great for a woman, I mean seriously? Is this something I should experiment with again with a better partner that won't hurt me? Just looking for peoples opinions and thoughts, do you enjoy it?

No advice but sounds like a fun time. Good luck

Let her know that you do it because you want to and you enjoy it. Knowinisthat a guy does it because he wants to and not because he thinks he has too is a big comfort booster. Also I enjoy knowing that he wants me to do it. Try slowly kissing down her abdomin and not just going right there. To me it is a build up thing. The guy I was last with would kiss and lick all up my thigh and on my lips but avoid actually touching my clit or going inside until I was literally writhing and bucking practically begging him to touch and taste me there. It was so exciting and frustrating all at the same time.

Ya I am sure I could get someone but with security clearence where I work it will have to remain a fantasy until I transfer to my new office and see how that works out lol.

I did it in my office while the staff was right outside the door. Unfortunately that is as close to office sex as I am going to get at the moment. But the thought of getting caught made it supper hot.

Spanking can be fun but yes make sure he respects you if you ask him to stop. With my ex it started randomly, he caught me coming out of the shower and slapped my ass. I jumped of course and laughed it off. Then it became more commin if my ass was naked and near him it was getting slapped. I actually asked if he was mad at me once because he didn't slap it when I walked by. With this new guy...he knows I like the man to be completly in charge. We have talked about it and other things but haven't experienced it yet. So far just hair pulling amazing fuck me harder sex that I can't stop dreaming about. Anyway of it is something you are interested in go for it but do as they said earlier and have an exit strategy or safe word. Have fun?

Thank you I never would have said something like that aloud before. I am enjoying voicing my wants especially since the group here is so open and doesn't mind such comments.

I am learning that taking care of you is not selfish. I still struggle with that sometimes because it was never about me it was always about him. I wanted to please him and lost site of myself in the process. I still sometimes feel guilty doing things for myself. However the more time goes by and the more things I do myself the easier it gets and the happier I am becoming. You got this just enjoy being yourself for a little while.

On the plus side you can tell us all about it because we don't know you and won't judge you. Plus you can say what you want from what I am learning and people are glad you did. Unlike our previous relationships

So several people have commented on my post about being wet and wanting someone to bend me over at work. Today is exceptionally boring and I am looking for some fun. Lets see who can make us wet with their stories or comments. If you get me all excited I may share the story of how I solved the issue.

Thank you Kingster for the vote of confidence. I am keeping my options open because we live in diff states at the moment but I do hope something happens with him. Besides the sex is amazing lol can't turn that away when it is offered up to you

He is a *I wish I would have made better choices years ago* We are not a couple but he is and will always be my best friend and we will see what happens in the future.

Ya well I just came out of a relationship that I wasn't allowed to express what I wanted or when I wanted. I was made to feel like it was appropriate for us to have sex when he wanted it as he was the man and I should just want it. I wasn't supposed to want it because only sluts want it. So now that I am away from him I don't intend to be shy and hide my wants. Still learning that it is ok to want something but lucky for me the guy I'm talking to now has been my friend for years and he is amazing and knows that I tend to pull back into my shell and he doesn't allow it. It is amazing to have someone that you feel comfortable enough to share anything with. I'm glad you have found that.

Your both correct there is def something to be said about the heat of the moment. I will give you that but if you can't have an open conversation about both your likes and dislikes in bed that is an issue as well. The man I am currently talking to is 1000 miles away so at the moment all we can do is talk so sometimes our convos get pretty intimate but I know what he likes and don't like and the same for me so in a few months when we finally see each other there will be no awkward well I didnt know you didn't want that as I have run into in the past.

This is true but as a woman it depends on what you mean by aggressive. I love to have him pin me down and take me how ever he pleases. However on the same note if I tell you Im not enjoying whatever it is that second switch it up and try something else don't hold me down and force me to take it. Sometimes pain is pleasure but we all have our own hang ups we don't enjoy that doesn't mean you stop that means we find something new we both enjoy. I am all for trying something new amd all for listening to suggestions from my man on what makes him feel good.

The at work and dripping wet thing seems to be constant lately. It doesn't help reading the feeds and chating with members lol. But I am def enjoying my time and learning things as well...

Ya I am still dealing with the legal but I am over him. Well the over wanting anything from him aspect anyway. I still find myself more than a year later shying away from my feelings or covering my body when I shouldn't or hell even apologizing for things that aren't my fault. The dating thing scares me I am not gonna lie but I am def enjoying my time on my own and learning to be me again.

Thank you both. I am def learning to enjoy myself and actually be comfortable with the idea of it. I am also finding that going from a relationship to solo means your mind and body act like a teen again lol. I swear I think of sex all the time and the simplest thing turns me on or gets me wet.

So im out of a 13 year bad relationship and looking for fun. However my relationship was one where I was put down constantly. So I lost all self confidence and self assurance and have found that I am having to refind myself. I used to be brave and confident in my body and my sexuality. Now im finding I shame myself for seaking of sex because it was only his time and his desires that were filled. So basically im in my 30s and just now starting to experience the fun of toys and new positions and dating. I just wanted to thank ya'll for making me feel comfortable in my own skin and making me comfortable to voice my own desires again.

I recently left a marriage that sounded a lot like that. He became more and more withdrawn and I would make excuses for him. I would think it was my fault and that I wasn't good enough. I also did the exciting trying to spice things up roll but it backfired. I came home from work in nothing but brand new negligee and he screamed at me because I was his and someone might have seen me in my walk from house to car. We started onlhaveing sex when and how he wanted my oppinion be dammed. If I spoke up and said I wanted it he was sure I was cheating. He eventually quit working because he didn't want to deal with people. My plan for life was NOT that so after excuse after excuse I left. I moved cross country and have an awesome job that I love and am learning to accept myself. Sorry that was a long winded way of saying Ive been there amd dont lose yourself in a man. I was recently told something that stuck..."don't ever need a man, want a man. " Basically be wkth someone because you want to and tjey want to not because you havw to or are afraid of change. Sometimes change is amazing and good for you. Good luck girl

OMG is anyone else at work and dripping wet? I am loving reading these feeds and chating but I seriously am not used to this single no sex life. God I just want someone to bend me over this desk