When we were about to get married, the pre-marital counseling (free at my wife's college) strongly discouraged anything anal. They said nothing belongs up there, so my wife is totally opposed to it. She will touch me there, or run a finger past my anus--which drives me crazy when she does it, but she's not sticking a finger inside me even though occasionally I almost beg her to. As a result of surgery to remove my colon (ulcerative colitis) and create a new J-pouch in its place and reconnect everything, I am a little sensitive there and will always be tighter than a normal person and more susceptible to hemorroids--so I have not yet purchased an Aneros prostate massager. However, I do enjoy masturbation, and occasionally I use a slender flexible vibe up my ass, and I love it. It always gives me incredible orgasms--where I shoot more and farther than usual. We have also had sex while I had the vibrator in my ass, but she doesn't really care for that. So yes, I'm a straight man who enjoys anal play--and although I'd love to do anal sex on a woman, I'd also not expect a woman to do anything I wouldn't also accept from her. Since I think there is nothing more beautiful on earth than the hips and butt of a beautiful woman, I often fantasize about doing them up the ass. John