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Try with an object of similar shape but not a banana in case it breaks. Try taking a breath in before you go past the throat, give some deep pleasing then back out to breathe. Practicing will hopefully give you the chance to discover how to breathe.

"Any serious advice you may have would be greatly appreciated. Thanks." There is no age to start but not starting is a waste. You need to actually feel, touch, caress, stimulate yourself,take the time to try different techniques (speed, pressure, motion, areas) to know what works best. Don't limit yourself to one trick even if it worked good, try other things. Try your clitoris, breasts / nipples, g-spot, anus. Drop your reservations, you are alone with yourself and learning,or you will miss out on your own pleasures for a long time until someone does it for you, if you feel like trusting that guy ..... how long would it take?? Even if you are with someone DO try and discover yourself, it will enhance YOUR sex life and in return your relation's sex life - a huge benefit. Use toys if / when you feel ready. Shop away from home if you are shy about it. Go online and learn about the female anatomy - YOURS, it's worth it. As for having a third, don't foce yourself if you don't feel comfortable doing it. Empty your bladder before you start exploring. By the way, if you just emptied it, feel real good but feel like you need to pee so soon, don't bother with the washroom, it's because you are on the edge of something BIG!! as for your orgasm. So you know your bladder was recently emptied but feel like peeing, ride the sensation - what comes next will be memorable but it may be very WET. If so be proud and happy of who you are as you will have discovered something precious about yourself sexually. Never rush an outcome, just enjoying the moments.

I would tell but wait until you feel "safer" he is good for you. Also when things start taking a turn. At that point when things come closer to have sex make sure you are looked after properly. That means the guy you are with will not just ram it in for his pleasure anda bit ensure you are well lubricated (use lubricant if necessary) It doesn't matter how careful he will be, this will hurt, this will be the first time a penis stretches your vagina afterall. He can start stimulating you with his fingers. If he is intimidated by the task let him know you want to follow through when ready, and during the moment use your hand to touch him too. What else can I say? Well, if you know your body and its responses it will make things easier.

To turn the tables there are women who love a man biting their nipples, carefully. I met one years ago who would ask me to everytime I had my mouth on. It gave her more sensations.

I'd like to have it more, everywhere except balls LOL

Light biting on the shaft

Any possibility some agencies try to switch girls into porn? Food for thought. Research well first.

OH YES I HAD! I was in high school and at that age guys get erections all the time, for no reason at all. I had those annoying underwear that let my penis slide out on the side by the leg and I get up to go to the front, not noticing i grew a few inches, but most of the class noticed, and the teacher. She was red, all were laughing, me placing it to be less visible. It was actually pointing straight to the front, you'd have to be blind not to notice.

I have a few but one of the is very short and to the point. I have wanted to meet a woman who can orgasm from breast / nipples stimulation, no matter what goes on. Always been a breasts lover, and she would get LOTS of attention on hers whoever makes me that lucky guy, so she would be lucky too. I don't get tired of breasts. Another one is to be able to walk up to any woman and be able to enjoy their breasts and they let me. Silly but it's mine. Another one is to receive deepthroat. I have more but enough for now. he he he

And the Good Lord witnessed it all. LOL

I believe in being faithfulness, even if I believe finding many others attractive. SIL did the right thing. On one side of the coin I've been exposed to many stories of women looking for sex because their SO don't give them sex at all. Either they have it somewhere else or don't want it at all. They stay because of family or security. Not a pretty / happy picture.

I am sure you heard of doggie style. You being on top but facing his feet. He can grab your butt, pull down on your hips to push you deeper, have your breasts from behind if he is propped up. And you, you can reach his balls, shaft, increase his sensations. At the same time you can tell when he gets closer as his balls get tighter. you can slow down or stop if you want to extend the play. He sits on a chair and you "ride" him, facing him or the other way. You sit on the washer and put in in spin mode, out balance for motion. You put your hands on the counter, table, etc, and he gets in from behind. And like above, go online, look in books.

To be more clear on the last, I mean this is addressed to women, shed some light on this for themen here.

Just a rhetorical question for men in general: Why would a woman want / need / have to know this? Just being a woman who likes knowing and categorizing or because of some interest she has in him? How about asking straight out .... I know, not tactful, too open, etc.

She loves when she doesn't have to do the work but also being in control on top, placing her hips to make my penis reach in places at her pace, easy and slow. It's amazing that she can come easily that way. Okay, tried it, couldn't wait to. She was horny all right earlier now she had to go and I still think about repeating it again some time, not right away so it doesn't become routine. Details??? Okay, here it goes. She had not been on top in a little while, I was too happy to give her all I can so as she was washing dishes I came behind her, hands on her hips and caressing her, whispering how I miss her being on top, held her tight a few seconds and she said she has dishes to do before she goes, at her place. I said I know, that's okay, I would have done them all anyway and walked away. Not long after she came in the living room where I went to watch some TV and she had this look on her face, asking if I was serious. It didn't take long to strip when I id I'd love to do it right now. If you read before I can tell when she is horny, I can smell her and I love it, and no panties. She had not done this in a while but she gave more some oral using her hand too. Lovely. She was about to get on top but I made her wait, had her enjoy some maunal g spot and vagina play. She didn't let me take her all the way and she stopped me. I used all the pilllows I could find to prop myself up and as she went on me I was able to suck her breasts, easier to reach her hips to follow her movement, sometimes forcing her all the way down on me but mostly lettting her control the fun. She didn't want her clitoris touched but that's okay. I must have been different because she asked if I was okay. I just nooded and told her I just love it all and I feel so good inside her. While a woman lovres a compliment she knows I do love how she feels inside. She stopped, deep and asked me to describe. I could not, I almost came from the pressure LOL. After she lifted herself I described what it feels like and that I can feel how wet she is. She reached my shaft to feel me as she continued and that brought me to the point. I came first but I staywed hard enough to make her orgasm. I felt her wetter, or was it me?? Then she had to get ready. I finished the dishes enjoying her smell on me before showering. My balls are hurting from the release now LOL but I still want more of it.

THANK YOU!! very much!! I will do this next time and I can't wait to let her do the riding.

In my younger years I had women on top and love it, my hands were free to explore and I didn't do too much to feel good, I was young and it was for me. Now I have met someone who loves being on top and I love the fact she enjoys me inside a lot, makes me want to give more! It's about us now. I still don't have to do a lot and WE get the full pleasure :_) I put my best effort on top too since she gets pretty happy as well. Question is, mostly girls who know, what can I do or contribute to make it even better for her? About my fun? She already feel so great to be inside, if I can give better than I get mmy fun giving, plus I feel great at the same time. Sounds sappy but I look in her eyes when she's on top, It's not just physical.

Don't get me wrong, I love sex a lot, yet the non-sexual interaction means a lot too. Having conversation, doing something for her just because, or her for me, spending the time doing things.

WOW, great for you. I am not living in a cave but I admit I never heard about these things. I would love to be that dildo with a real ejaculation :-P

Oh what a waste of an orgasm LOL but as long as you both love it. Always best to keep going in there when it's "happening", OH WOWIE!

One suggestion here to achieve it in addition to my last message. I had this done with a condom years ago and I should repeat it again, I always get all hard thinking about that day. It started with a HJ, all I wanted, with a condom on. She started with an easy grip at the base of the shaft and kept stroking me slow. Easy grip to allow the flow of precum, stroking mid shaft, stopping a few times but keeping me in her hand. After a few times she moved her hand up the shaft about 1.5" and carried on the same delightful torture. Everytime she moved her hand up the end of the up stroke was higher too. Then after a few times like this and no shaft left to please she went S-L-O-W-L-Y on the head, always stop and go. I used all the self control I could not to let myself ejaculate, thobbed and twitched a few times in her grip. When too intense I got her to start back at the base of the shaft,giving squeezes at the base everytime her stroke bottomed, holding i ta second or so (Too long would have made me lose control) Every now and then some balls massaging and gentle squeezing as she kept her stroking, and at times doing a two handed stroking to stimulate the more at the same time. There was a LOT of precum in the condom, an excellent lubricant. I had her practice my favorite way to make me orgasm a few times during that session so I she knew just how to do it when the time came. Did I ever cum, a large amount of semen in the condom, and I was loud, my body jerking hard, toes curling. Then she kept stroking until I told her to stop when finished, my balls got so tender from the intense contraction and the head very sensitive even though I would have wanted her to continue. This whole HJ session was the longest ever and most rewarding.

Here is what work wonders, I know, I am a man. BUILD HIM UP. no difference how you do as long as he is turned on and loving it. You may combine different things, BUT YOU do the work, he just enjoys it. You may straddle him and give him slow intercourse, oral, hand, between the breasts. The main thing is he has to help you. So you stimulate him and you are in NO hurry to make him orgasm. Whenever he is close, you stop. You can keep holding him as this is a turn on by the way, but no stroking, no squeezing, no stimulation of any kind until his urge to orgasm subsides. Caress his balls gently or moderately as you do this. You will feel them get tighter also when closer to ejaculation, you will learn when to stop. Once he is "calmed down" LOL continue. Keep the stop and go for as long as he is able to take it. To help back off and delay his ejaculation you may tug and loosen up his balls for a few seconds. You will feel them loosen up. Also in your hand you will feel his shaft swell harder. When you take him real close you will also feel his penis throb and twitch. Don't be surprised to see a lot of precum during all that play. Listen to him if he says slow or fast. The longer you keep it going the more intense it will be. I KNOW, a real delight. This is getting long so I send you another reply.

When the woman is on top, lovely position to caress her and relax, enjoy, look in her eyes. What I would like to know is: What do you do for yourself, how. You do something different than when the man penetrates you while on top? Is there something you would want your man to do. Stimulate the clitoris, yeah. Caress the lower back, belly, legs, butt cheeks. Anything else? If being on top gives women a different feeling [a man doesn't give being on top] which feels great maybe there is something to learn and aim at giving it to her while on top of her. My gal orgasms easily that way but if it can be better, or give those sensations while she is on her back. Once again no problem with the orgasm on her back but I always look for something to make it better. The floor ..... please and thank you.

Probably boring or creepy? Driving to find female hitch hikers to stroke and suck me, return the favor, maybe titty sex if they like. Being straddled while driving, or her back to me as she hold the wheel, I caress her breasts and clit, she slides on me. mmmm

Beyond the sex life yeah.