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Squirting is something i still really want to make her do. Ive gotten her real real wet, but i dont think it was squirting wet. I am definitely going to keep trying though =).

Was looking for prospective harnesses to try once i do the reviews for my latest shipment, and noticed that half of the harnesses i had looked forward to trying were reviewed...one of which by tyger. Stolen right from under my nose =P. At least i got the Juli Ashton before anyone else, be jealous!

Well its really a matter of what you want at the time and what feels good overall. My best way of explaining it is like a g spot and clitoris for a girl. Where the anus is the "clitoris" and the g spot is the "sweet spot". The penetration itself feels good because its stimulating the area (i know, the clit is a bit more powerful than that ) but when it hits that spot at the right time it intensifies everything. The orgasm is great either way, but the one i had where the sweet spot was hit was memorable. The reason why i still use toys that i know wont hit it is very simple. It still feels good, and it still provides very nice orgasms. I am still looking for toys that easily hit it, but as i mentioned only the larger ones can really do it for me in that manner and im not always in the mood for something big. I tend to like plugs or vibrations and especially my gf with her strapon because the penetration and the full feeling are nice, the sweet spot is an added bonus of sorts. Hope that helps.

http://www.tootimid.com/perineum-massager.html - This is a nice massager. Its not great for really hitting the spot, but it does the job and the vibrations have a nice range to them. The problem ive found with smaller massagers is if theyre not big enough they cant hit the P-spot but at the same time the bigger ones are more difficult to use for beginners. http://www.tootimid.com/prostate-stimulator.html - This is another one. It doesnt vibrate but i found it quite comfortable and easy to use. It also does a decent job of hitting the spot, but again its not big enough. One thing to note is some g spot toys work nicely as well. I havent used any of my gf's toys for this purpose but our first strapon was "Taylor's double G" and though we didnt like the harness once the toy was in it was a really good feeling and its the only attachment that has given me a full on powerful p spot orgasm, our other harness (my fav) does the job but doesnt rub me the right way. Different men will like diff things so probably best to start cheap and go up. A final note is ive heard wonderful things about aneros products so that might be worth considering.

It depends on the girl. Anyone can see by looking through the forums that the ladies in here have their preferences. Some like the super strong vibrations that crack your teeth, others cant stand them. Maybe she just isnt into vibrations, in which case its not a bad thing. Dildos are still fun =).

Well im glad to know i know a lot for my age then =).

Does this happen only during sex, or during masturbation as well? From what ive learned from my research (different sex techniques etc.) is if this can happen even when youre completely relaxed on your own, it may be an issue to talk to your doctor about. If it happens only during sex its not your body, but instead your mind. Are you stressed out during sex? Is your partner causing you to be stressed out? Are you thinking you may not perform well? Our mind plays dirty tricks on us, and even sometimes when we are really excited and really into our partner, we overthink things and go limp. Many times ive been so excited to have sex with my girlfriend only to go soft. Its not her, but instead i worry i may not be able to please her, or something happens in the house, or she says something, and i get distracted. I suggest trying to orgasm alone, use pornography if youre comfortable with it, and see if that works for you. Or alternatively use pictures/thoughts of your partner. Dont think about the issue, just try to enjoy it. If you can, and you do orgasm and it doesnt go limp, try talking with your partner about the issue. If you can orgasm alone it is an issue you have to work out as a couple. I hope this helps.

You might want to be more specific. Do you mean your head? Or the head of your penis? Those would be entirely different issues. I am assuming you mean the head of your penis. In which case is it numb and tingly? Or you cant feel a thing? Is this after youve gotten off? Or just sudden without orgasm? More details means people can help you better.

As some of you know, last week i was all happy because i got my girlfriend off three times by fingering her "g-spot". Well...i learned yesterday after finding her real g-spot that for the last three years the spot i thought her g spot was a bit off. I was likely fingering her pubic bone, or something along those lines, which explains why when fingering videos references a slight protrusion i was completely confused. Anyone else had a similar experience where you thought you had it and found out you were in the wrong spot? I kinda laughed about it after, especially since i thought i had it, only to find out i was still a newbie when it came to her anatomy.

As far as starting and giving up, i know how that is lol. I had my novel started on my computer and i talked about the next scene more than i wrote it. I did finally complete my first novel last november though for this event called NaNoWriMo its great to get you writing and essentially it teaches you how to write to finish. Its worth checking into. Also, youre spot on on tabloids lol. For some reason we enjoy hearing about how others are suffering, or the trials theyre going through. Its a horrible thing when you think about it, but its true. Sometimes the best stories are the ones that happened, because we can relate. Besides, even if no one did read it, it would be an accomplishment for yourself that would be an inspiration and an encouragement.

Yes, quite a list indeed lol. Okay, so new question. Is there any way to make g-spot orgasms easier for her, or her g-spot more sensitive? Anything either i or she can do =). Just wondering.

Ill admit, i skipped about the middle section because i was hoping things would be better by now but i am sorry to see that they arent =(. I hope something works out for you Tyger, i love reading your posts on these forums and for some reason assumed you had an amazing sex life and marriage. Being 20 i cant possibly imagine what you are going through, but keep us updated and hopefully you can move on and find someone worth your time. I am glad your daughter took things well, hopefully a divorce wont be too hard on her. You should consider writing a book, i dont know why i was thinking that but i have read a few novels for classes and when the author has a perspective such as yours it creates a really interesting and realistic setup, especially to see the dynamic. I dont mean to act like the downfall of your marriage is my next great read, but maybe it would be a great place to vent and be creative. It could also turn an extra buck if it gets published, who knows? I totally agree with the positive energy thing. I was born and raised christian and though i keep the beliefs i dropped the denomination because i dont feel comfortable within a church, but i have always noticed that if i think positively things work out. My parents and gf call me unrealistic, they think by not planning for problems ahead that i am going to regret it, but in the end i am the one not stressed out day in day out, only stressed a few days before the final outcome, and everything always works out one way or another. I look forward to the eventual happy and bubbly post coming from you where you finally find peace and happiness again, and i hope you get that release because after 5 years of a marriage such as yours, i cant possibly imagine a greater release than being free of all the stress. Best of luck to you!

It was so unfair, i come on the TT forums to just check in while waiting for my gf to come get me for school, read that, and start wishing i had time to do something to her before school lol.

Have you ever considered writing erotic novels.....

Exactly! It made sense in my mind before my gf told me i was wrong......amidst giggles and laughter.

I have to agree with HW when i think about it. As a guy its almost scary as odd as that sounds. With us our parts are very simple, one large protrusion, and two small balls in a sack, simple and clean, as well as straightforward. With a woman's parts theres a lot more, and with that theres a lot more to pleasing it too. Maybe he just needs to get more comfortable with it. As far as your actual relationship, if sex is getting in the way, just put it aside for a while and let him know you miss him. As much as i used to think when i first started having sex that my sex life was vital to my relationship, i quickly thought otherwise when my idea of a better sex life could have lost her. I realized the relationship had to mature before the sex life could, and now the same things we used to fight about because she didnt want to, we talk about openly because we know we can.

Depending on the allergy med, specifically an antihistamine, this could cause some issues. Not quite sure to what extent, but the whole purpose of an antihistamine is to take water out of your body and send it through your bladder. This can cause dehydration if you dont intake enough fluids instead of just treating the stuffy nose or whatever symptom is bugging you.

So one of my favorite things to do sexually is research, as odd as that sounds. I love finding new techniques or things to try. People here tend to know a lot about g spot orgasms to the point that i really wanted to give my girlfriend one. After doing research and finding different videos, i decided to try it out. After tying her down, and not letting her know what i was going to do, i fingered her, no clit stim, and her face was perfect. Got her off three times that way. That was great and all, but i want to know how to do it better. I was wondering if anyone had tips, tricks, how often can a woman orgasm from g spot stim? Do women tend to find that after the first 1 or 2 the effect wears off? From what i could tell (especially from "you have to do this every time we have sex") she enjoyed herself, but i want to know that she has no choice but to get off if i put my mind to it. The technique i learned/used was to insert two fingers, find the g spot, then a come hither motion that directly rubs her g spot. Then as she wants it faster i move my hand and fingers. Are there better methods than this? Also, last thing, is it normal to feel like youre almost scraping something at times? She wasnt in pain so i knew i hadnt scratched her, but i felt like maybe i was scraping something soft and it was getting under my fingernails (though there was nothing under them afterwards). Thank you, and i look forward to hearing your opinions/ideas!

I know when my girlfriend is in the right mood she definately enjoys giving oral. Sometimes she will be hot and horny but make me wait to penetrate because she wants to go down on me (hey, im not complaining). She doesnt tend to swallow that often anymore, i know it is largely my fault, i need to work on my diet but as a college student with little money it is difficult to get healthy foods instead of opting for the cheap sugary drinks or preservative filled snacks. I also drink a lot of coffee which ruins it for her too. I did learn that things like orange juice, kiwis, bananas and pineapple can all help sweeten your cum if you eat them regularly enough. I too find myself extremely aroused when eating my girlfriend out, but only when i know she is enjoying it. If shes laying there and just moaning a bit i feel like shes putting on a show for me and not actually enjoying it, but there are those times where shes writing and moaning loud enough that we think that we are going to get in trouble and those times even without stimulation i get close to ejaculating and have to make her wait a few minutes before i can penetrate. I definitely think it is a good thing that you enjoy oral, definately not weird. I think its a wonderful thing for anyone to find out what they enjoy with their SO because it creates a much more exciting bedroom. A couple years ago we were vanilla missionary, no toys, little foreplay. I got off, she wouldnt, etc. Now we try new toys, new positions, different ways of foreplay, and success rate for orgasm is close to 90% on average, sometimes her even getting off before me.

Well first of all, all of your emotions are completely normal in every way, so dont feel bad about it. Essentially you reacted the way anyone would act, male or female, it not a good feeling for someone to reject you like that, especially when youre so excited for it. Dont feel bad about the way you feel, however there is something you can do with those emotions. I know everyone says this, but its true, talk to him, tell him everything, do what you can to talk calmly, even if you have to wait a few days to do so. The better you can explain yourself, the better you both will feel, because you will start resolving the issue. As far as the fear, i personally wasnt afraid i would say, but i did have the overwhelming sense of "get out of here" as i approached her. Keep in mind we were both pretty new, she hadnt shaved, it wasnt fully clean, and my first experience doing it on her wasnt the best. But we learned from that and we did what we needed to do to feel comfortable. Even still i have that internal flight response telling me to not put my face down there, and i think all men whether we notice it or not do. However, sometimes the desire to do so just overwhelms the fear, or vice versa. Even if he says no lube, maybe put some down there for him, touch yourself in front of him, and tease him with it. If youre into domination tell him he can only touch you with his tongue and make him start at the top. Do what you need to do as a couple to work the issue out. Finally, if i havent already said it, dont feel bad about yourself or your body. Yes these emotions are natural, but you need to remind yourself that its not you. I hope all goes well in the future.

Well i dont know if its going to be different cause im a male, but when i had one from my girlfriend using a strapon on me, it was kinda like a normal orgasm except iw as extremely aware of what was going on back there. On top of that she was hitting my prostate just right which felt amazing and my orgasm was far more powerful than other orgasm. The main thing ive noticed about anal orgasms for me is they are always stronger than almost anything else.

So i got these toys to review and i was ecstatic, i had been eyeing them for a while but was never really sure if they were worth purchasing. I had plugs in the past that just didn't make the cut, and so i was reluctant to spend more money in case those plugs didnt work out well either. After a couple weeks of waiting to use them with the girlfriend, and them sitting on the floor, still in their box, i finally decided to just take them home and go solo. I finally unboxed them and pulled the two smaller ones out of the packaging. Despite the picture on the page where the toys look shin and hard, these were very soft and pliable which was a plus. The shaft for the smallest one had a tip close to the size of the nail on my pinky. It did not look intimidating at all. I put a bit of lube on the tip, got in the shower and tried to insert it. I will be honest, it was difficult, the shaft was very bendable and the tip didnt have much resistance to it and being solo, it was hard to get it in blind with no help from the toy itself. Once in though it was nice, it didnt provide a very full feeling, but it was definately stimulating and i got hard very quickly. After trying the smallest one and deciding it wasnt big enough for me, i went to the next size up. This one was much much easier to get in. I would say the tip was about the diameter of my middle finger, maybe a bit larger. It was just as soft as the smaller one, but since it was thicker, it had less give to it. Once it was in it again felt nice, but i didnt feel very full. I also noticed that the base was slightly uncomfortable while i was standing up. Anxious and aroused i went into the box and got the biggest one. I must say, it looked like it was for more advanced users, but i also knew it wouldnt be too big for me because it was smaller in diameter than my girlfriends harness attachment. So i gave it a go. It needed a bit more lube on the tip than the others, and went in very quickly. The immediate issue was that the base was way too big, Because of this, i couldnt get it fully in either. It provided a very nice full feeling, but without being able to be stimulated without having to ignore the stabbing and prodding of the base i couldnt use it. So i removed it and went back to toy number two. I think this is a great kit for those who are getting into anal, need a graduated kit to help them relax, and who just want something to have fun with. It was wonderful for going up in sizes because the toys worked well to keep you relaxed while getting you used to bigger girths. In many ways its like having a set of anal beads in plug form. I do not recommend this product for more advanced users looking for a plug to keep them satisfied because although it is a great toy, it does not do the job well enough if you're used to it. I look forward to being tied down and reunited with these toys again. I give them 4 out of 5 stars. (One star deducted due to the base of the toy, its only downfall.)

It makes me feel like making a response post along the lines of "I am 20 years old, so for 20 years i have been interacting with girls. Here are the 4 types and which ones are the best in bed." I wonder if she would think it would be legitimate too.

Fully disagree with the article. Not on the basis of superficiality because stereotyping by height will not work, many men are varying in height and varying in length/girth as well. But beyond this i fit either into the 5'9" or 5'10" category, i have a small gut, but i am 7" in length and im not the kind to "fuck like a pornstar" and then walk off or the one to just leave my girlfriend unpleased. I think many men will find they disagree in the same ways.

I am a college student for writing so that pretty much what i do. I enjoy finding new things and types of things to write, and currently looking for volunteer work so i can get some extra practice. I also spend a lot of time working on my manuscript (finally got my teacher to say the first 30 pages are ALMOST done after a year). Other than writing, i tend to play video games, work with photoshop, or play video games (yes, i play video games that often lol). I play minecraft online and admin the server i play on (for anyone who knows what that means) and i spend a lot of time with my girlfriend. Overall my life is pretty boring but i like it that way =).