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not at all, my wife and I also love to enjoy the fact that others find us attractive. My wife has quite a large chest, and very curvy in all the right places. I don't mind, and am pleased in a way to see other men checking out her hips, thighs, butt and ample breasts. She also gets a turn on from seeing other women checking out my package and butt, cuz she knows what is under the denim is what she will be playing with very soon. Speaking of, I better go give her what she likes to see other women checking out!

Mine is not completly strait. My penis also curves upward slightly and my wife loves it. I have never had any pain from any position and have no problems receiving head. That is a weird case and I can think of nothing to say other than I don't think it is a medical issue that needs or can be cured by treatment.

how old r u? have you had any sexual relationships before this one?

look for one that is slicone or cyberskin, I had a silicone one that was really quite nice. I have lost it however and miss it horribly. Also look for one using a bullet or wireless bullet.

"is there a web site you can go to-it sounds interesting to me" You can find just about any chat site out there and find chat's for adults or in some cases you can find them for your own specific kinks. There are chats for gay, strait, les, bi, bbw, over 30, under 50, BDSM, leather fetish, and lots more. Finding a GOOD chat line is a bit more tricky than just using the first one you find. Good Luck

We have done it in something not quite that small but very(and I do mean VERY close) to that size. Just to clarify, I would say that blowjobs/cunnlingus in public should count on this topic.

Nope, I never would. I am old fashioned in the idea of inside a marriage, that means one man one woman, no 3somes or anything like that. I would never want to see my wife with any other person. so that's my $.02

Here is something that might help you also. Use your hands. just wrap a couple of fingers around the base and work those like a hand job while sucking him off. It's fantastic. Most porno women use this trick also, and the more saliva the better, the more you get into it the better. You can start slow, but as he begins to enjoy it more, you need to speed your movements up a little. Just like intercourse, when he begins to get closer to climax, he speeds his strokes up some, well now the work is on you(unless he is holding your head and F*ing your face )!! Have fun and good luck

Jen, was this a local park or a Major League Stadium? My wife and I used to love going to this one place near by where you would see tons of ppl lined up in their cars, and you pretty much new everyone was going at it. It was kinda like exibitionism for beginners I guess. Any suggestions on places to try it next?

Red, the rush can be so powerful, I always last longer while in public because I have to focus on so many other things. It's fun and would only caution on not getting caught. Next, I want to try a nice clothing store dressing room, but I live too far from a Macy's or such so it might have to wait.

I love it! My wife will talk dirty to me for a little bit, then I get more into it and being to really get excited and push her buttons, she begins to babble and then go quiet until she comes, then I get to talk dirty to her. I love calling her my personal little slut and smacking her on the rear as I pound away on her doggy style. We don't do any thing that is considered violent like a rape fantasy or slapping the face. She really talks dirty when she gets our her vibrator and starts telling me......well, nevermind.

I have. A movie theatre during a boring movie.

Yes, I would love to do that to my wife, I know that she will let me when our new bondage cuffs come in. I also plan on trying the altoids tip too. I fantasize about most about blowjobs from my wife, giving her pearl necklaces(you know what i mean) and licking her pussy for as long as she can stand it, then going for about 15 more minutes.

LadyPC, we do a little spanking and we have experimented with some things. It can be real fun and if both parties are in agreement and willing to try something new. I have some bondage restraints that are going be mine in just a few weeks!

"great answer if you like bullshit. your boyfriend has a very low testosterone count, probably below 100. 248 is considered is generally considered sterile" This is horribly wrong, your man suffers from what is called retrarded ejaculation. The guy who said it was all about emotional problems was right. He might need counciling. Basically what retarded ejaculation is, is when a man just can't cum. It usually stems from an emotional problem like guilt, or fear, sometimes it can be from past sexuall trauma. The good news is that it can be treated and you can both have normal sexuall lives if you just can open up and get help.

I have done cybersex in the past but have sworn off for personal reasons. It was fun for a time and I learned quite a bit about myself sexually. I also re-affirmed some things I already knew. It can be fun but don't let it over run your life, and be very careful about what you say to those with whom you are involved.

Ryo, go on and buy something, I agree that a bullet would be best to begin with, they are small and great for exploration. My wife and I started with just one bullet and we have used about five since, they just don't stand up to use about two to three times a day for five years and we have replaced them often. Now we have two vibrators(a waterproof and a dual-action) and she loves them all. She also had some problems orgasming, she says that focusing on the sensations and things that you find erotic is what helped her. If you are looking to buy a dildo, try getting one with a suction cup so you can mount it to a wall or something. Most women I know like putting it in the bottom of the tub and bouncing up and down. Good Luck and don't feel pressured to have an orgasm, it is not the brass ring or whatever the phrase is....

I bought the Golden Bumble a while ago and was completely dissatisfied with it. My wife got nothing out of it and we ended up just taking out the bullet and throwing the rest in the garbage.

Your husband is lucky to have a wife who is willing to do something like this for him. Be creative, is there a paticular session of sex that you both talk about? You can try to create some of his fantasies, using costumes, lingerie, and sex toys. Are you sending hard copies of the photos or email?

I have to agree with the previous posters, just be open and honest. If he is receptive(like most men are to this idea, trust me), then have fun, You might need to consider that he is a submissive like yourself. The important fact to remember here is that he needs to know that this is what you want. Just be open about it and don't bring it up during dinner. You might ask him if he has ever wanted to tie you up. What about spankings? Do you do them already, that sometimes is a safer place to start, most men love smacking their SO's butt during, or before sex. One thing that is a must in all bondage situations, there must be a safe word. Take something odd that you would never say during sex and make it known that if either party says that word, all "play" must stop. Try a word like lightbulb or flashlight.

I was just wanting to know your thoughts on when a man's cock hits the cervix during sex. My wife is always saying deeper and so on, but then BAM! I bottom out and she screams in pain. I hear women who say they love a big penis but isn't this a problem?

Jeremy- there is an item like that. Get a love swing and be creative, with some time and patience, it can be done, get her in and get in her then you can spin her and it has a little bounce too! Feels Amazing!!

My wife says she loves giving me head, but I don't get it ver often. About 2 times a month is normal. When she does it she really gets into it and is excellent, but she only does it when it's spontaneous and unexpected. Is there a way I can ask for it more without sounding like a huge jerk?

This sounds really familiar to me. I have been married for 5 years and have only had sex with my wife. She was uncomfortable letting go during sex on many levels. There are lots of things that can be causing this. You need to examine what makes you aroused and what he does that arouses you. Don't be afraid to be open and talk with him. Don't feel like there is pressure to "achieve" orgasm, just let it be fun and focus on what you feel. He is going to enjoy sex, and most likely orgasm unless he feels something wrong. If you want more help, post again and say a little more about what is going on. Do you orgasm when you masturbate? Do you have sex toys? Fantasies? Is he too big? Small? Thin? or Thick? Is it painful?

I am with Kitten on this one, it usually is a prelude to other things, I like seeing and hearing a woman touch herself, and letting me get involved, then switching who is stimulating who.