The real life thing is the point that fun, hot, sexy, fantasy becomes more than a flirtation,,,,,that to me is the point of cheating (unless the couple have that type of open relationship). I am definitely naturally flirty too, I think it's because how much I love women and respect them for all the BS they put up with in their day to day lives compared to men. I consider myself lucky to be a man, life just seems like it is so much easier that way...to me anyhow...what do you think?