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well i agree with Howard. If my lovers cock slips out, I'm getting in back in before he can think about it!!! Youv'e brought up something very significant regarding the kids and her reaction to them. I, as a mother understand that children come first. I also know taht they take a lot of time and energy. Someone who doesn't have children will not understand a lot of things that a parent goes through on a daily basis. And with her immaturity in other areas, this definately sounds like a problem for you guys. I think that you are concerned about your imcompatibility in the sack. But I'm beginning to see that the problem is much more fundamental than that..... I think the sex is just a symptom of what is really going on. sexy

yes buttman, interesting username..... Telecomb, I LOVE having my neck kissed. Nothing gets me in the mood faster!! That's a very sensitive spot. I'm not especially ticklish there though. Just very sensitive and find it extremely sensual when a man touches or kisses me there.... sexy

I say it is not O.K. sexy....

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bumping this for more feedback from the ladies....

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O.K. Ladies, We've got the men going regarding what they like (physically) in a woman. It's our turn..... A little disclaimer from me: I love men, I find them sexy just by nature! I can find something sexy about any man and I really dont have a "type" that I go for. What really turns me on is a man who is intelligent and makes me laugh. Having said that.....'' A man with dark hair and dark eyes will turn my head every time. I kind of like tall, but that doesn't matter too much. I don't like skinny. But someone who takes care of himself is very sexy! I like a nice smile. for a reference, I think George Clooney is yummy What about the rest of the girls....

Crazy, she is extremely georgous and sexy! What I wouldn't give to look like her.... I did want to point out though that she is not a size 14 by any means. She is an 8 or maybe a 10 at the most. But I really am thinking an 8.....

This is interesting, I"m glad to hear that the men don't expect women to be skinny because that is just not natural. I've always tried to keep in shape and too look good according to MY standards, no one elses. I think that lean hungry look is very not sexy and it actually cuases me pain to look at one of those skinny models with the bones jutting out of her hips (yikes) I have to keep my weight down becuase I have a small frame and just can't carry much weight without looking chubby. I am 5'5'' and weigh around 125. I keep my weight below 128. Most of my weight is in my hips. I have a small waist and small breasts. If I gain weight. It of course goes to the hips and thighs. Since I don't have the large breasts to go with it, I look funny So I try to not get too out of proportion, LOL. I was never with a guy that complained about my body in any way. Most of them seem liked the softness of the curvy hips and thighs. It makes you wonder why the models and movie stars are so dangerously thin if that is not really what we find attractive??? Women are built in so many different shapes and sizes. I think that we all can be sexy if we take care of ourselves and feel good about ourself!! Thanks guys for the vote of confidence!

No Tor, I think you know more about that topic than most women...... sexy....

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Hi Rick, having a baby does crazy things to a woman's hormones. I had trouble with lubrication for several months after I delivered. Is she breastfeeding? This will also affect hormones. I agree that an episiotomy is hell!!! I guess the question I have is what exactly is causing discomfort? If she's having trouble with lubrication, that is easy... There are lots of great lubes you can buy. Let us know and good luck. It gets better! sexy...

Good question! I"ve pondered this myself..... I have been quilty of going for the bad boys occasionally. Even though my gut instinct was that they were bad news, I couldn t help myself. In the end, when it comes to a meaningful relationship and marriage I wanted someone dependable, honest, smart, hard working, caring and sensitive..... I think the bad boy attraction for me was just the need to have some excitement. Also, they are kind of elusive. They make you chase them. They never really commit and you don't reach true intimacy. Don't we all want what we can't have?? Sick when you think about it. Glad I grew up and got over it. IN the end, the good guys will win. the bad boys may get more one night stands or meaningless short term relationships. They are probably getting more STD,s as well. So have heart guys!!! Just my two cents, sexy

HAHA!! Thanks Telecom for putting things into perspective! I was feeling sorry for the women, now I'm feeling sorry for you!! THat's worse I do believe.... sexy

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I occasionally get one of those messages. It bothered me at first, but now i just ingore them. So many of the guys here have been really sweet and helpful in a respectful way. I enjoy the exchange of advice and support from them. The guys that are just lookng to get off are at the wrong place and if we ignore them, they'll eventually move on.... sexy....

Thanks for the respnse... This is very interesting!! Keep them coming. sexy

agree with Scout. STD's are no joke these days. Also, if the sex is good with this object of your desire, you will be returning for an encore....That will lead to a full fledged affair. and, you know women almost always attach some emotional stuff to sex. By the time your hubby returns, you'll be so emotianally screwed up and he'll be coming home to nothing! Don't go there. sexy

tor, Fascinating! Please tell me more...... sexy..

I was reading about the boots....Guys what do you find sexy and what turns you on that women wear? I don't mean the skin tight, super short, cleavege bearing stuff. More subtle sexy..... Do you like lace, black, hair pulled up. Just tell me what turns your heads... thanks, sexy.

Telecom, I don't know what to say. I've read all of your posts and I never got the impression that she did not enjoy sex. I got the impression that she just is very shy about it..... I understand that you would enjoy it more if she would take a more active role and I don't blame you. It sounds like you guys have done some fun things though..... You mentioned that you engaged in mutual masturbation one time, I was surprised that someone so shy and reserved about sex would even do that. You say that she is using a vibrator and learned to orgasm. sounds like progress to me. What if you put together a mutliple choice questionnare for her. She could circle a, b or c. One question could be: Which do you prefer..... a. kissing your neck b. licking your thighs c. sucking your breasts. then you could go on from there. Make it 100 questions. She won't have to say anything in words or writing. She can just circle the letters. I'm actually liking this idea. Think I'll do it with my lover. "we'll do essay though" ha ha... anyway, I don't know what to say. I hate to see you give up on a relationship that you have been so excited about. good luck sexy

I didn't want to be the one to say this but I was thinking what bigdaddy said..... Have you sat him down with no distractions to have a serious talk about it??? Are you guys connecting in other ways?? When I don't connect with my lover emotionally and mentally I'm not drawn to him sexually..... do you have fun together? sexy

16!!!! nevermind! Are you using protection??????

Have you tried with her on top. That's a great position and some men can last longer that way..... sexy....