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Allit, I can only speak for myself, you did not offend me. I am not a lawyer or law student but I am sure you can understand why one lawyer would question another. Do not take offense to questions asked. The only way to find out answers is to ask questions right? So questions were asked answers given and know we know. I see NO reason for you to stop posting here. So I hope you continue to do so. Just a helpful hint to make your topic questions more valid. Instead of asking your true question in the topic title why not have a short title....im sure you could think of something that pertains to your question.....then ask/write your question in the proper space. Also I would like to add that there is no lack of topics here......the longer you are here you will see. So there is no need for anyone NOT SAYING ONLY YOU but anyone to just fill up the space......yes older topics could be revisited but some new people to the forum have just posted junk and its a waste of space and time in my opinion. Oh and yes please clarify the term Popo for all of us inquiring minds. I know it must refer to your penis so is this a term you and your wife use often like Asawa? Thanks and keep posting! Hrnychick LOL OK BEFORE I GET TOLD ABOUT WASTE OF SPACE WITH A DOUBLE POST......MY FIRST ONE DIDNT SHOW SO I WROTE ANOTHER AND NOW I SEE IM DOULBE POSTED.......SORRY FOLKS. HRNYCHICK

Allit. Just wanted to add my two cents here. I can only speak for myself, you did not offended me. I am not a lawyer or law student but I am sure you can understand why a lawyer & a law student would question another lawyer. Also not all of your posts are like the one questioned above (example "Making Love To My Asawa") Don't take offense to questions asked. How will people find out answers if they don't ask.....right? So questions were asked, answers given and know we know. That should NOT stop you from posting here in my opinion. Just a helpful hint, when you start a topic instead of asking your question in the topic title and then doing that " ditto above" thing.....why not make a short topic title? Im sure you could think of something that pertains to your question and then write your question in the proper space. By doing so it will make your question more valid. Oh and yes please clarify the Popo term......I too wonder why you use that term. I know you must be referring to your penis. Is this a term you are use to using with your spouse such as Asawa? Hrnychick

Didnt really want to post this question here but dont want her to be jealous of a PM so here goes.....Is she the one that broke up with you that night and persued you for the next yr? It was a very interesting story. I think you should have written something for Mikaylas contest.....I mean if you have not that is.......What is it about the Filipino gals? My counsin is living with a Filipino gal and seems like I am the only one she likes and gets along with. She does love to flirt and does turn heads when she enters a room......Im not downing her or anything like that but to me she is skinny with small tits short and has long hair thats about it.....so what does it for you guys??? Just curious what the attraction is. Hrnychick

Hey Rob it was a nice surprise to see a post from you.....Now I have to ask you do you think if she really tries something new it will only be short term??? I think before we can go further on this she needs to shed some much more needed info.....Dont you agree? Hrnychick P.S. always wanted to tell you LOVE your avatar

Telecom dont feel as if she is the only one like this I was too. I NEVER ever would have touched myself or used vibe in front of hubby.....after ME being in what I call a sexual rut I thought what could I do to spice things up and get some spark back. Then I thought why not play.....while he watches. I too am shy but i think since we have been together for so long it was easy to take that chance. So I started off with just using my fingers for "the show" and seeing and knowing just how much he enjoyed it made the upgrade to vibe very easy. I think you are dealing with it the correct way as in NOT rushing her.....we all do things in our own time.....take it from one who knows.....the more you have her trust the more you help her relax and ofcourse the more she knows it will turn both you on to no end im sure she will be putting on a "show" for you soon. If she is like me then once she starts she just wont stop. Im not sure if there is a real answer to your question because it has to do with her and her level of shyness but i hope this helps you out some......good luck......keep us posted Hrnychick

WELCOME LJO418 It may seem to you like you have tried everything you could think of. But chances are you havent.....so in order to help you out with your problem please give some more information....as in what have you tried? Is there something that has changed in your husbands life,,,,,such as work, medication etc? Im sure you will get some good advice to try if we can just know a bit more. Thanks and keep posting!!!!!!!! Hrnychick

I can see why some men would want to measure and know just how big they are.....do I agree.....well NO but hey we women measure ourselves against others dont we? So men doing it for bragging rights whatever is really far off the mark. I myself do not care about size.....never a point of concern to me its all in how they use it I say.....there is more to sex then just the size of a mans cock. The size of a mans heart means a hell of a lot more then the size of his cock, JUST MY 2 CENTS WORTH. Hrnychick

THANK YOU ALL so much its just nice to know that I am not alone. As I said I know its somethng only hubby and I can answer but it has helped just to write about it and get replies. I have a lot to still think over......and i will keep you all posted.....its nice to hear from other moms. Katprr, I just wanted you to know that I did not take what you said about the loss and having another child in anyway wrong. I know exactly what you ment. We had two and lost the third and we were told to wait a year if we wanted to have another......well Dr GAVE me yes I said GAVE me samples of birth control to last me the year which as anyone knows the pill is not cheap and for me It wasnt covered by my insurance so anyway after the pills were gone I had to back for a yearly check up and he said IF we wanted to we were good to go.....and I knew I wanted to we both knew.....I was so affraid but if something was to go wrong this time then I knew it just wasnt ment for me to have anymore children......so next time around Drs visits were going well.....I was put on a bit of a watch I wouldnt say HIGH risk but I had more tests etc done early on.....GOD the stuff I had to go through I never in my wildest dreams would think I would have the courage to go through it all......but anyway the only "problem" if you want to call it that was that I wasnt gaining every week I would gain then drop then gain the drop but Dr checked and said baby was gaining so all was good......so in the end gave birth to a healthy 8 pound 4ounce boy.....and ended up dropping like 40pounds in no time.....still dont know what was up with that.....I would eat everything and still drop weight......what a diet lol.....so our last child "took the place" if I should even say that of the one we lost.......I think its really the question of if I or hubby gets "fixed" then its really a done deal.....and I think that is what I am affraid of.....Oh well like I said I have A LOT to consider and think over but thanks to YOU and to all of the other MoMs who replied.......im so glad I found this site. Hrnychick

This is something that I just wanted to get off my chest.....and what better place then here and maybe some may even offer some helpful advice or words of wisdom. Hubby and I have been going back and forth on the subject of having another child or calling it quits and one of us closes up shop for good. I sat up many nights thinking of this.....do I really want another child at my age? I am 36 and we have 3 wonderful children, 2,6,and 9 and before our third was born we had a loss. I had to terminate the pregnancy in my fifth month. Many medical reasons lead to this and its not something that I am totally over I dont think I will ever be......any mom out there knows what I am talking about......well anyway I am dealing with it and my healthy third child makes me a believer that everything happens for a reason. So the loss, the kids I already havem my age and not to mention my tolerence level......have me really really thinking. I love kids dont get me wrong and I love mine to no end but do I really want to go through that 9 months of morning sickness and weight gain and whatever else except for the loss I always had pretty good pregnancies but lots of morning sickness that never ended.......I know this is something that cant be answered by anyone but us (hubby and I ) Now if I say I we are done no more kids then the topic of which one of us should "get fixed" comes up.......He leaves all the choices up to me most of the time except this one.....He said he is NOT going to go under the knife.....so that makes me think its take two to have a baby so why does it have to be ME to be the one. Im thinking both of us should do it.....but then again.....If he wont then what can I do right? I know some of the TooTimid gang have a child or children so are you done? If so how did you really really know its what you wanted? Also who was the one to "get fixed"? Maybe after venting about this and getting some replies and giving it more thought I will find my answer. Im so on the fence about this I would like another child for many reasons and then again the days my 3 are ripping my clean house apart and fighting and ofcourse there is college to think about.....I say to myself "what are we nuts" lol Hrnychick

Also, to quote a friend and to add a bit, "any woman who can give a good blowjob AND swallows cum, can definitely steal away the man from a woman that can't and WON'T!!" Mikayla Sorry Mikayla and Howard but considering the agruement here on swallowing Can't vs. Won"t I felt the quote needed to be changed to: Any woman who can give a good blowjob AND swallows cum, can definitely steal away the man from a woman that CAN but WON'T. Just to add that as in the past with this topic I am 50/50 on this matter. I do and have swallowed but if I just dont feel like it hubby understands. Its like anything else you dont have to ALWAYS DO IT to enjoy it etc.....I like to change things up so when I do want to swallow and I have hubby going with a great bj what a better surprise ending for him to cum in my mouth......he doesnt ALWAYS expect it and thats what I like. Hrnychick

Congrats from me as well. Hubby and I will be celebrating our 12th on Sept 10. God how I wish we could go away for a whole weekend ALONE....but with three very active boys hrs seem like days to my mom and his....so guess until they calm down ( LOL ) no overnights for us. Well have a good time which I am sure you will.....and yes share the details when you return bye and have fun Hrnychick

Ok first I just have to address the Paris Hilton comments on here,,,,,,besides being skinny and ofcourse rich what is it about her??? Guess I just dont see it cause im NOT a guy. Another thing I would like to add is that women that I consider HOT like Pam Anderson (fake but hot) never seem to have a lasting realtionship now I know some may say " oh thats HOLLYWOOD" whatever but even in our real lives im sure we all know or have come accross someone we thought "has it all" and for some reason cant have a nice loving lasting realtionship. I know girls that some of my males friends thought were H=O=T to no end but after a date or two said otherwise......Even my best friend who always seem to have no problem getting the guys.....I thought would end up married and happy early in life but it was me who married first....and she was single and very unhappy asking me all the time whats wrong with her that she just cant find someone to be happy with......she would break up with them or them with her........it seemed like everyone around her was in a relationship or getting married and she was the only one who wasnt......like I said she got the guys attention....and she did date a lot but something just never clicked and I was surprised as I said I thought she would have been married long before I. Well she did end up finding her Mr. Right and is now married but she had many years of tears and self doubt. I have been around girls that when they walked into a room EVERYGUY looked and checked her out......it was soooo obvious......ummm maybe it was because of the low cut tops short shorts skirts barely covering the ass......to me that might me hot to some but its skanky to me......I would say sexy over HOT anyday..........and I consider myself sexy.....hubby likes all that I have to offer and thats what really matters. Hrnychick

I think Bondagejunkie had good idea I too would like to see Howard and Mikayla "teach" a newbie a thing or to.....that would be very interesting. In response to Howards post about how Mikayla and him are no different then anyone else as in having bad experiences now and again etc.....I am only speaking for myself here and its not that I think you were born with such an open attitude about sex for me what I like is the amount of experience with toys with positions etc.....I am I guess you could say a late bloomer in the sex dept. never had any toys and so on......had great sex mind you but I am now finding more and more ways to have that great sex and seeking comments or advice from someone who has "been there done that" is what really helps I know I dont know many people (or even my close friends) that have done seen been with whatever as much as you guys here........Thanks for having such a full sex life and sex history that you can share and like to share with the rest of us that are up and cumming (pun intended) Hrnychick

I have to say Hubby because I could recharge his battery faster then in my toy......LOL I dont have a huge toy collection only one so far, sad I know lol but anyway I would still pick hubby over toy anyday.......nothing beats the real thing. Hrnychick

Telecom, Sorry I left out the part in my post that he did (and always does) do oral on me. So yes I did get mine lol....I was only upset because I know how much it bothered him to finish so fast.....NOT that he lasts forever to begin with but that time was the fastest yet. Im NOT complaining mind you....in fact im use to him cumming quick that if he didnt I would think something was wrong with him or ME. Thanks Hrnyhick

I too posted a topic on the "name" changes. I like the Virgin one.....great name for a first timer to a sex forum. Cute idea Rob. Hrnychick

Oh God if he knew I was writing about this he would be soooo upset. Its something that has him feeling bad so I just had tell/ask here. Here goes: Yesterday Hubby and I were having our "fun".....through out the day we texted eachother about what we would do and how we would do it etc.....so we had picked out way as anal.....not that we plan ahead but we knew we didnt have tons of time since kids would be coming home sooner then we thought. Anyway I have written in past posts that Lube was NOT a big part of our anal play.....that has since changed. So he lubed up after some HOT foreplay.....all set for action and without sounding harsh or graphic .......it was 3 yes 3 pokes and he was done......I was a bit let down I must admit but didnt let him know that. Well afterwards he seemed so down I asked what was wrong and he said he wished he couldve lasted longer....I assured him it was nothing to be soooo upset over......but that really didnt help......He said it was that he was so turned on and now that we are using Lube it makes it sooo much "easier" that he couldnt help but shoot his load so soon. So do you think this is "normal"? Has there ever been a time when you guys came soooo fast and wish you couldve made it last longer???? Thanks in advance for any advice. Hrnychick

Im thinking the most interesting "couple" would be Howard and Mikayla because of the history they have here, Other then them its hard to answer otherwise because I dont know what anyone looks like here and for me to watch they would have to be somewhat good looking. Hrnychick

If I were single I would have to pick BigDaddy or Toby and as for being with a woman well since I have never been Im thinking it would have to be with one that has,,,,,,and being HOT wouldnt hurt either lol Hrnychick

Blackgold, Communication is key to make a realtionship work......and not only when you are having sex. I agree with Mikayla there are A LOT of issues here......some reason brought you to this forum so dont be shy open up and ask any question you would like.

I thought anal would hurt A LOT I thought anal would hurt A LOT so that was a major factor in me not wanting to try it. When I did however I found that it was NOT painful and we did use lube that first time.....I wasnt so relaxed as I guess I shouldve been so at first I thought it was going to be a no go but once we got started it was GREAT. Since then when we have done it that way we used very little if any lube.....just because I liked that feeling more....but now have to admit after reading and asking here I have learned that LUBE IS NEEDED. Hrnychick

You just know when something isnt for you.....if that feeling you had for law is gone then I agree its time to move on. I am sure you will find what is right for you.....and yes maybe it is writing....you do a good job here as you know many have said so that is something to really consider.......GOOD LUCK

In reading past posts which refer to your article on Orgasms I searched and searched the board for it I thought It was something I was doing wrong in not finding it......Until oneday I did happen to check the front page which I NEVER seem to do and YIPPIE I found it and ofcourse read it from start to end.....JOB WELL DONE I must say and thanks for adding the link Im sure it will help others and they wont think they are going nuts looking for it like I did....lol......to tell you the truth if I didnt find it I was going to PM you and aske just where the hell it is lol. Hrnychick

OK I maybe the only one who wants to know this but guess thats just me......Why is your hubby OK with this relationship? You did say that he knows the whole story right? I think he may not want to cause trouble with you so he is just not letting it bother him but girl if it was me and my man was doing this I would be very upset. I am just being honest.....Im not saying that you have cheated but it does sound like if given the chance something may happen and you really have to stop and think it is or will it all be worth it.....You said you have a loving hubby so why risk all that you have for one ( or maybe more) romp in the sack with a man who will never be free? I think its all the "what ifs" that have you both so intrigued. You said yourself that when you met you couldnt do anything because you both were married and then he got himself in trouble and is now locked up for life.......Its hard for you to NOT visit him which shows its far more then a friendship......I would talk to hubby and just rethink this whole thing. Keep us posted. Hrnychick

I see some changes have been made here at Tootimid......no more Newbie or Member or Advanced Member. Its now Virgin, Intern, Teacher or Master Teacher.....I may have missed a few but I think you get the point. Just wanted to say its cute and funny it was thought of sooner especially the Virgin one lol. Hrnychick