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That was a good one......thanks for the smile. Hrnychick

This topic caught my attn. as well......now being female I can only offer the advice of checking out the toy reviews here some are about toys that can be used by male or female as well as the Penis pump for you guys out there that want something new and fun.......Im sure you can find what you need here on TooTimid when it comes to a sex toy or advice.

Lube should be used for the first time when you want to explore from the backside....we used just a bit of plain baby oil.....didnt have anything else on hand at the time and it worked well for us.

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Whiskey, Great story thanks for posting too bad he ran but I guess if it was ment to be then so be it right? That LOVE word can make a lot of guys run......( and some women too im sure) that why I leared way back to not be the one to say it first not matter how I felt I waited til I KNEW the feeling was mutual. Hrnychick

I see your point Mikayla so I guess my hubby and I dont have that trust.....as I wrote under another topic I dont trust anyone 100% but again thats just me......but I know that my hubby would flip out if I were to do dinner with a ex bf especially if its one on one it would look to others like a date......and then rumors and trouble starts if seen together.

For those of you that have posted or will after my post I would like to know what does your SO now think of you being friends with people you slept with? I can say im friends with ex bfs only because if we see eachother its a friendly hello and maybe chit chat but since I never had intercourse with them my hubby doesnt mind but if we did fuck before and were friends as in talking on the phone or maybe meeting for lunch or whatever I know he wouldnt go for that nor would I if it was him. So how close are you really with your old fwb and what does your SO say or feel about it all? Hrnychick

Who doesnt like a bargain.....but for clothes or other things not when it comes to sex toys.....I think you get what you pay for.........If price is a issue then spend on one item that you know you will both enjoy for along time.....then its worth it right? If you plan on buying more often then check out the sales here on the site....other then that I would beware of other sites offering "cheap prices". The only other option is to visit your local porn shop. Hrnychick

Thanks for the reply Katprr......30 some people viewed and NO ONE ELSE has anything to say about the best fuck they ever had??????

Im sure it only cause your nervous......hope my other post helps or helped you out.. Hrnychick

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Telecom, Like others have posted I too think you have to talk to your son and soon. Yes it is his day but to ask his own father not to bring his new gf is a bit uncalled for......I could only understand him requesting that if and only if HE knew there would be trouble......maybe he knows how your ex would react and thats why he is giving you a heads up.......so talk to him and find out the story. If its not because of trouble looming and only because HE doesnt want her there then he better understand that someday it maybe him walking in those shoes......after all it wasnt YOU that cheated so if he should be upset with anyone for the marriage not working it should be with you ex (his mother). I think you should talk to him and tell him how things are......the marriage ended....and you moved on.....you are happy now and he should be happy that you are.....you want to share in his special day and you want your gf to attend as well......you can take pictures with her in them so no need to explain who is who if someone later on ( like grandchildtren ask) but who know by then you may be married to your gf then what......you cant bring your new wife to your grandchilds birthday party? If you dont make it clear to your kid(s) now when will it ever end? Hrnychick

Howard I dont understand your point.....YOU said you would not attend your brothers wedding if your girlfriend couldnt be there and so she was able to join you so you could attend. Now youre telling Telecom the world wont end if his gf isnt with him at the wedding???? This person (like your gf to you at that time) is special in his life right now and a special day is coming up so ofcourse he would want her to share in that with him.....just like you wanted your gf to be with you.

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Sam7970 Thanks so much for sharing your story......I know it was hard for you but thanks again. I think its hard for you to move on from this guy because you met him at such a young age and became serious at such a young age......since he was older you sort-of passed right thru your teenage years right into an adult relationship. You also had two abortions which is not an easy thing to get over.....I know I HAD to have one and not by my choice but cause my child was sick ( long story for another topic) anyway all that you have been thru with him makes it very very hard for you to move on and the fact that he moved on so fast doesnt help. I view it as something you have learned from and now its time to forget him......I know easier said then done but YOU have to get on with your life......DONT let the memories of him ruin what could be a great realtionship with someone else......I always believe that you will find what you are looking for ONLY when YOU are NOT looking. I went thru a time in my life where my main focus was finding a bf and when I just said screw it if its ment to be it will be I ended up meeting my hubby......so I found what I was looking for when I WASNT looking. Just enjoy your life and your family and friends and im sure YOU will get over this guy in time and YOU will find someone you can hold hands with in public and this will be someone that loves you more then words can say. Hrnychick

Bondagejunkie, I dont see why you can not get that affect with your makeup......when you have a few mins to spare just try......see if you add more here or there what it will look like and if you like it or not.....Deadxflower hasnt posted in sometime (hope everything is ok with her) maybe she will let you know what brand of makeup she uses and give you some tips to get that look......and I too would like to know what those marks mean If they are to mean anything...... Hrnychick

I know this is somewhat like the other topic that is already started here but my question is YOU know you have one ( or maybe more) that you would say is THE BEST FUCK YOU EVER HAD and just what makes that one the best? I often thought about this when I heard others comment on how she was the best or he was great in bed.....and I thought what could one person do sooooo different from others? Now I have nothing to compare to for I have had only one partner for intercourse and still with that one......but he has had others and in the back of my mind when he tells me I am the best HE has ever had I think how? why? I know I should ask but im sure it all comes down to the love we have, the fact that he is my first for a few of the things we have done, and just the plain ol chemistry. I could see saying someone was the best maybe cause the cock was bigger and gave you more pleasure or her tits were bigger and then that made for a GREAT titty fuck......or maybe one person you were or are with is into more then another so therefore they are the best FUCK you ever had. This may sound silly and I may get feedback on this remark but to me a pussy is a pussy and a cock is a cock and sex is sex all pretty basic but it up to you to know how to use what you got to make it the BEST FUCK you ever had. Am I wrong or not that the best sex you ever had depends on the sexual chemistry between you or the love you feel for eachother and maybe even the where you did it.....ya know that chance of getting caught can make it sooo much more intense. If someone you WERE with before is the one you still think of as the best fuck you ever had my curious mind would like to know why? what makes that person still stand out in your mind as THE BEST and why hasnt your current lover taken over that title? Thanks in advance to all those who post. Thanks for sharing!!!!! keep posting. Hrnychick

Bondagejunkie, I know you said you will not stop taking your b.c. and please dont just cause your fiance said it may speed up the wedding......You can speed up the wedding WITHOUT a bun in the oven. I would think it would be wise to wait to go off your b.c. AFTER you tie the knot. I just wanted to pass this on to you cause I know a few couples that thought a baby BEFORE marriage would make things great and they would get married sooner.....and guess what engagement broken no marriage......I say take time and enjoy eachother cause even in a married realtionship a new baby changes everything......you want a baby to be a blessing not a burden. hrnychick

I can only speak for myself put my problem with this isnt all the time and its always gone after a good nights sleep.

After reading a post on another topic that I started one person wrote how they met someone online and how things went bad after awhile. That post and the fact that I know someone who met someone online had me thinking and so I wanted to start a topic and see what others think and/or if you ever met someone from the net and did it work out or not? The person I know met her guy in a chat room she is single and doesnt go out anyplace that would lead her to meet people.....she doesnt go to bars doesnt go to church doesnt even go to the mall.....very very limited. So the chat room become her place to go. She talked about the people she chatted with as if she met them all in person.....acted as if some were dear close friends. I guess if you dont have much of a life its easy to be sucked into the relm of the chat. I told her cause she was new to the whole internet thing to beware people do LIE on the net.....you may think youre chatting with a guy and its really a girl or vice versa or you could be chatting with someone much younger or older then you want. So she ened up meeting someone and he didnt live all that far away only about 2hrs. He would come in on weekends and before everyone knew it she said he was going to quit his job and move in with her. Now why would someone leave a job and move before they have anyother job lined up? I asked and got no answer to that......later I found out she told him she owned her house......but she rents......and that she knew people that would help him get a really really good paying job.....and that didnt happen either. The living situation is rather odd......she calls him her boyfriend but they dont sleep in the same bed he has his room she has hers and he has a pad lock on his door.....they have no sex cause of heart problems he has.......they are more like roommates if anything....when he first started to come in and visit he bought and promised her the world now the tune has changed since he moved here....There is just something about him that no one likes.....he goes back to his hometown at least 2 times a month and says its to see his daughter but he stays with a ex wife when he is there.....oh yeah he has been married 3 or 4 times......and has a daughter in college.....he never takes my friend with him when he goes "back home" never even brings up the idea always has an excuse why he cant......I think he may still be married but she wont believe that......I think she is putting up with a lot just cause she doesnt want to be alone. I think if she wanted to met someone over the net she should have went to an online dating service. So has anyone met on the net and it worked out......or its it always that same old story they tell you one thing and you find out the truth after you meet them or have been with them for awhile.....plus he will not let her on his computer which makes me think he maybe meeting others online as well. Would you meet someone online rather the be alone?

Sorry to hear what happened to you Whiskey and since its still a fresh wound that is why you feel the doubt for future realtionships. Im sure in time when you find yourself thinking less and less about him ( i know easier said then done since you have a child together) you will find Mr. Right and even if you dont trust 110% that is fine in my book as long as you dont let a lack of trust ruin what could be a good thing. After I was cheated on I had major trust issues but my hubby understood and helped me get past the bad times and showed me not all men are alike and proved that I can trust him more then I was....now do I trust him 100% no and he knows I never will thats just the way I am since I was hurt once.....not that I make others suffer for the loser that hurt me but I just "watch out for me now" after being hurt I vowed as far as I can help it that it will NEVER happen again.....I think no matter how well you think you know someone or no matter how long you are together you never know what one will do......I know it sounds bad but its really not that bad I just dont let people anyone for that matter get away with stuff like I use to......all leading back to being hurt and the trust issue. So believe or not being hurt one time can be good for a number of reasons......it opens your eyes to how you want and should be treated.....it opens your eyes to what you want from a SO.......and most of all it makes you a stronger person so others wont treat you like a doormat. Others may disagree im sure but thats my 2cents on this topic. Hrnychick

Sub here.....on the shy side in life and I guess the same goes for the bedroom......I love hubby being dom with me.......but one of these days I may switch things up a bit just to see how it goes......maybe I will update this post with a change.....wink wink

Yes this has happened to me before and yes it was always due to some sort of stress. Its not easy to switch from mommy mode to sexy mode in mins flat so sometimes my days stress just plays on my mind while I should be relaxing and enjoying the sex between my hubby and I. A few times when this has happened my hubby would keep going and going til I told him to stop that its just not going to happen and needless to say he thinks it had something to do with him.....then he gets upset.....and starts with the guess I dont turn you on anymore bullcrap etc......but I tell him over and over when this happens ( and thank god its not often) its ME not him and I just cant thats it i feel like it I feel like its going to happen then poof nothing and no matter what I just cant seem to. I can understand why he gets a bit upset but hey HE still gets his so he wins anyway.

Lost you maybe right on people having bad past relationships etc......but try to learn from others mistakes......Mikayla said it the best......we are not blinded by love for this girl so take into consideration the advice or answers you get good or bad......you may not like all you hear but we can only go by what we know from your posts. As for what she does in the bathroom.....Well again you just have to ask her to know for sure.....If I go into the bathroom before sex I pee and freshen up.......there arent to many things she could really be doing in there....but you dont want to find out like Telecom did that its drugs. Happy SAFE SEX to you both!!!!!!