Mikayla1

Awwwwwww, thanks for worrying about me, guys. I have 2 teaching assignments, actually, and have been spending a little TOO much time on FACEBOOK. I also have been grading the ISAT (Illinois Standard Achievement Test) and I have been writing stories for Lush.com. Just very busy - BUT - I have also written 5 new articles here, with 5 more to go! I am sorry that I have been remiss in checking in here (I need to be punished for that) but I will be around more, I promise! Muuuuuahhhh! Mika

Tyger hit the G-spot on the head here, all women are different. Just like some women can't have their clitorises touched directly, some women can't or don't have favorable responses when their G-Spot is stimulated. Me, I like it directly pushed on - hard. While I can feel the enjoyment from touching all around it, the direct and hard stimulation is what I crave. I think the most important thing is that pleasure is pleasure - and we should enjoy it. I think sometimes we become too 'goal oriented' - meaning, 'push the spot, make her squirt' - and this just doesn't work this way. The journey there is more than half the fun, she we should enjoy everything that comes along with that.

Swim With The Dolphins.... OK, lets get this out of the way in the beginning, cause I know you are all thinking it: Yes, I think it is odd to put putting a dolphin up your ass. Sometimes I personally feel that 'character' toys (dolphins, bears, bunnies) take away from the toy experience. Yet, there are those people who like the cuteness and 'non-phallic' appearance of these toys. So, if you are one of these people, this toy is perfect for you. Let's get the stats out of the way: made of silicone (no silicone lube, please) this item is smooth and soft. There are two 'dolphins' - one for vaginal insertion, one for anal insertion. There is also a patch of nubbies for clitoral stimulation. This is a hands-free toy, so it comes with adjustable straps that go around the waist and both thighs. There seemed to be quite a bit of slack on me (and I am about average size). I am not always a big fan of the hands-free toys, but I am always looking for a good one. So, play time was at hand. This toy takes 3AA batteries. So, batteries in, toy cleaned and ready to go. I started to insert the toy, but found it a little difficult to get both dolphins where they had to be. The anal dolphin is a bit smaller than the vaginal dolphin, so if you are playing solo it takes a bit of adjusting to get them in. Plus, when I do anal play, I need a lot of lube, so there was some slipping and sliding going on. Once I got the toy in,and tightened up the straps, I was a bit frustrated. I was hoping these dolphins would make it worth the time and effort. I turned on the vibrations. There is one control for each dolphin on the controller, with 3 different vibration levels for each. I cranked them up all the way and was very pleasantly surprised by the power I felt in my ass. The vaginal dolphin didn't feel quite as strong, but I was hoping the clitoral stimulator would add to the sensations. The only issue was, it was hard to get the right connection between the clitoral stimulator and my clit. I had to sort of push it into me, which kind of defeats the purpose of a hands-free toy. I just tried to sink into the feelings and enjoy all the sensations. It was fantastic to have both my ass and pussy stimulated, as well as my clit. I wished that there was a separate vibrator in the clitoral stimulator, but overall just the amount of stimulation I was receiving delivered me a nice, solid orgasm (both anal and vaginal) together. I did find the overall shape of the anal dolphin to be a bit on the small side, so that might be a good bet for a woman who is just starting out with anal play. I wished the vibrations were stronger, but still got to orgasm. All in all, I think this toy would be a good bet for some, and not for others. While I did get me a nice orgasm, the trouble to get the toy even situated sort of made it not worth the effort. Play With The Dolphins

Add A Little Zip To Your Fingertip..... I actually think I may have tested out a similar toy many years ago, but couldn't find the review, so here is an updated version. The Fukuoku Finger Tip Vibrator system is a very clever idea: put a light, battery operated, cordless mini-vibrator ON your fingertip. This way, whether you are going solo or it is your partner wearing the finger-vibe, you can add a little vibratory stimulation to your play time. This item slips right on to your finger like a little plastic finger brace, and it has 3 exchangeable sleeves with different textures: ridged, little bumps, and a fingerprint pattern. These sleeves are surgical grade silicone - so very safe to use (but no silicone lube, please!) The toy takes watch batteries (and it comes with some plus another set!). There is also a little carrying case. While I think the concept is fantastic - I mean, who wouldn't want a very convient little buzzing device right at their fingertips? I do think that FOR ME - the vibrations just aren't strong enough. I decided to use this toy solo for the first time (I prefer to see if it will work for ME, before giving the controls to my HB). I settled in for some nice playtime, put the bumpy sleeve on my 'fingertip' and started to play. The vibrations are decent for nipple arousal, for ticking a bit on the inner thighs and even for running around the pussy lips. However, when it came right down to it, my clit wants a little more vibratory power! I ended up using a vibrator and the Fukuoku on my nipples. I can see how this item would be great for adding a little something to a blowjob! Iam quite sure the low vibrations on the shaft or balls would be fantastic. It is also great for nipple stimulation. If you are a woman who is new to toys - this item would most likely be PERFECT for you. Or, if you need or want a very light vibration, also perfect. However, for ME, it is just a little lackluster. So, if you know someone who could benefit from a little something-something without it being overpowering - the Fukouku is for you! Add Some Zip to Your FIngertip!

Come on.....I couldn't help it.....Helix....DNA....HA!!!

Did you insert it? Did it seem too bumpy for internal play?

I Dub Thee - THE SQUIRTINATOR!! Holy Mary Mother of the G-Spot Orgasm - this toy is FANTASTIC! I love - and I mean LOVE - glass toys. I have quite a few. This one is on the tippy top of my list! This lovely 8 and 1/2 inch long Borosilicate (pyrex) love toy is extremely pretty to look at and even more fun to use. The red and blue 'helix' on the inside reminds me of fire and ice doing a little seductive dance! It has two heads - one is slightly larger than the other - and the shaft is bowed in the middle, and has a very interesting shape. It is simply smooth and stunning! It also comes with a nice, padded bag to store your new BFF in! I love glass toys for many reasons: they will last forever unless you deliberately smash them, they are extremely hygenic (non-porous), you can use any kind of lube with them, they are easy to clean (hot, soapy water, or dishwasher), they can be warmed up (in warm water) or cooled down (refrigerator - do not freeze!). THe best part - they are HARD - and hard toys with curved heads are great - and I mean GREAT - for G-spot orgasms! So, once I washed 'The Squirtinator' I was ready to play. With my HB out of town, I decided to have a nice, slow play. I warmed up with a bullet - just getting myself all primed. Then I began to work the smooth glass between my pussy lips - paying special attention to my clit. Glass toys provide a very nice sensation externally and internally. I began to insert. Ooooh, it felt so nice sliding in. I worked up a nice rythm, just getting accustomed to my new friend. I had the larger end inserted and it didn't take long or much adjusting to find my G-spot. Having had a few orgasms already, I began to concentrate on that spot. Firm pressure and a little clitoral attention from my bullet and in a few minutes I began to gush all over! I continued the pressure and had quite a few more! This toy was perfect! Whether you want to achieve a G-spot orgasm or just have a nice, safe, hygenic, smooth toy to tease yourself with - the Doube Head Helix is a great bet! I think it is built in my DNA - I love glass toys - and you will TOO! Get the SQUIRTINATOR!!

Sometimes simple is the best way to go!

Much like Hyokahey and Thur, I too am a happy person. I am extremely content with my career, my kids are awesome, my life is comfortable, I have good friends (both online and in real life). I have a generally happy outlook to life. However, there is one thing in my life that is lacking, one thing that makes me really unhappy at times. One thing that I wish I could fix. It is this one thing that pushes ME into depression. It is the one thing that makes me sad, or makes me cry. I believe that happiness and saddness fluxiuates for me - and probably for many other people. I just try daily to be as happy as I can be, for that day!

Well, this is very interesting, cause for ME, Vanilla is a whole, other realm. As a woman who has quite diverse experiences, and some of them definitely on the polar opposite end of Vanilla, I can say that my Vanilla is probably another person's chocolate! However, for me, a true 'vanilla' sex life means what some of the other posters have said: ho hum sex life. No real change, sort of the standard, go-to experience. The lovely thing about Vanilla though, is that you can always spice it up with some sprinks or choclate sauce - as long as your partner lets you that is!

The Tri-fecta of Vibes! I have to admt, when I saw this vibe come in my latest TT box o'fun I thought, "whoa mama, that is a whole lot of pink toy!" This toy is not as intimidating up close and personal as it looks in the picture. It is a delightful light pink color and is made of soft and supple syber silicone (so no silicone lubes please.) It has multi-functions - a vibrating, curved G-spot head, a short 3" of insertable shaft, and not 1 but 2 stimulators - one for the clit and one for the rectal area! The base takes a 9-volt battery, and has the sliding controls that alternate the 5 speeds of vibrations. After cleaning and batterizing my toy, I decided to investigate the vibrations. (1) Foreplay: a light on/off pulsation through the shaft and both ticklers. A great way to warm up. (2) Tease: A faster pulsation - on/off - higher vibes. Gets the juices flowing. (3) Pulsation: Even FASTER pulsation and slightly higher vibes. Starts the tingling. (4) Vibration: A low, but constant, vibration. (5) Climax: A high, constant vibration. For me, the #3 pulsation was the best. It seemed more powerful than the highest level. I found that the G-spot stimulator was a bit too weak, and a bit too bendy. I need FIRM touch with G-spot. The rectal stimulator was very pleasant. It was a delightful tickle. The clitoral stimulator was OK, but not direct enough for me. It was sort of teasing the entire clitoral area, and not so much the clit itself! I much prefer direct stimulation, but if you like a little light tickle, this would get you going quite easily. As for vibrations - I think overall it could have been higher. I did have a nice orgasm using this toy, but it took a while. I had to really open myself up to get the clitoral sensations I wanted. The internal vibrations were very nice though. I think this item would be best for an intermediate player - as it is a toy with a lot of stimulation, but not really INTENSE stimulation. All in all this was a fun toy with a lot of options. If you can't find a vibration that you like then I would be suprised. Triple Your Chances of Orgasming!

Absolutely NOT. Frequently when the HB and I are having sex, I will hear the text 'DING' or his phone will ring - and sex time is DEFINITELY a DO NOT CALL or TEXT time. Now, I will say, if you have kids, and they are calling or texting because they are out and about, it MIGHT be OK to ceck if you are getting a barrage of texts.....

My best advice is to read my article on Anal Sex.....it has the best ideas for lubes, techniques, etc. You can find it in the article / tip section!

When I worked for the law firm, I got to know the judges quite well. One of our clients asked about the particular judge we were standing in front of, and I whispered, "He's one hard judge" - and she about peed her pants. I had to think about it a bit before I figured out why she was laughing...

I once had a co-worker ask me "When do you think you'll be getting off today?" and I replied, "as soon as I get home and put batteries in my BOB!"

My HB does this for me......except he orders IN food (he doesn't cook.) He does give me total pampering...runs me baths, gives me a massage, then he'll give me orgasms and not ask for anything (although, I usually want him to be with me at that point). He doesn't do this often, but a few times a year. Since having kids it requires a bit more planning. I have always done this with / for my lovers. As Hyokahey has implicated, when I was in my DOM/sub dynamic, this was part of our 'routine' and my 'job' as his sub. However, I have always found great joy in making my man feel good. I love the response to the relaxation and total pampering. All my previous partners - and my husband - have LOVED being the total center of attention. I have been amazed at how relaxed and sensual they have become. How comfortable and even chatty a man is when he is being pampered like this. My HB thought it was weird the first time I drew him a bath, but soon after he saw the method in my madness. I firmly believe that we all need this. We need to be taken care of. We need to have stress relief. We need to give our partner the gift of non-expectational sexual play. Where we are there to please them, without regard tor our own release. Of course, depending on how you entertain your partner, you may end up having sexual release anyway. My hubby loves to watch me masturbate, so it is hard NOT to climax (and who would want to NOT climax???) I think that sometimes the reasons men go to 'massage parlors' (and I assume you mean the ones with a 'full finish') is because they DON'T have to worry about doing ANYTHING. They lie there, a beautiful girl massages them, then gives them a little handy to release and they get to enjoy it all. Personally, I think that men need this type of pampering much more than women. Don't hate me gals, I'm just saying that men hardly EVER get the full treatment. They don't really know how. What man do you know says, 'honey, I'm gonna go take a bath, where are the lavendar beads?' - no, they need to be SHOWN how to do it. So, I make sure my hubby gets this sort of pampering - and he, in return - pampers me.

For All Your Anal Needs.... If there was a commercial for this anal stimulator, that is what it would read as the tag line: For all your Anal Needs. This is the perfect little anal toy with all the bells and whistles! It has powerful vibrations that resonate through the entire plug - not just the tip. Made of soft and pliabe TPE, this is an easy toy to insert and use (use water-based lube, please). Slender at only 1" diameter and just long enough at 3.75" length - this vibrating teaser will make you VERY happy. Also, very important for anal toys, it has a large base so that you can't loose it up your rectum. The vibrator inside the TPE casement can be removed for other stimulation - but remember, do NOT insert just the vibrator up your rectum. 1AAA battery starts this tiny toy vibrating away. Just one push of the button on the base and your teaser will begin teasin' you. There is only one setting on this bad boy: INTENSE. The vibrations are pretty powerful for an anal toy. The loudness factor isn't too bad - once inserted it is very quiet. So, I know the burning question is: how did you use this item Mikayla? Well, DP with my HB of course! I have to confess, it has been a long, long time since I have had a DP experience with my HB and last night seemed the perfect chance. After all, I had a toy to review! After all our warm up, I got on all fours and asked him to insert this item slowly into my ass. He put a generous slathering of lube on and began to work it in. Let me just say, it didn't take much. The shape is perfectly slender for anal use, and it just slid right into place. With one click of the little button we were off to the races! The toy by itself felt amazing - vibrating along inside of me. However, once combined with my husband in my pussy - well, let's just say the feeling was INTENSE and ORGASMIC. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE DP and with this little gem my night was complete. It didn't take long before the "I'm gonna cum soon" warning came from my hubby. He said the vibrations were VERY strong on his cock through my vaginal wall. So, he picked up the pace and before long we were BOTH cumming. I LOVE this toy and will definitely be using it again for DP and solo use. Few words to the wise: NEVER cross contaminate your toys (go from ass to pussy or mouth), always wash them THOROUGHLY in very hot water and anti-bacterial soap. Store them separately from other toys. Now, don't you want to add some INTENSITY to your love life? START TEASING.....

Have you ever felt "in the dark" when it comes to orgasms? Well, this little light up dual action vibrator is sure to ILLUMINATE you in ways you never thought possible. This unique toy has so many possibilities for pleasure! THe Illuminator is made of a "hygenically superior silicone" - which means it is soft and supple AND you can not use silicone lubes with it. It is NOT waterproof - so do not submerge it. The clear silicone makes it interesting to look at and in a way, it seems futuristic. The head of this toy is very unique, as the ridged shaft that leads to the 'penis-head' shaped top is MOVEABLE and BENDABLE. This came in very handy while I was playing....more on that later. Right above the clitoral stimulator the shaft has little bumps on it. I can't honestly say that I FELT those when I inserted the toy, but I am sure some people would be more aware of it. The clitoral stimulator is very interesting - it has a little blue light on the end that makes playing fun - especially if someone is helping or watching. There is also an independent bullet cased in the clitoral stimulator which - combined with the little 'fingers' on the end make it very powerful. My biggest complaint with this toy is that the battery case doesn't stay on well. It takes 4AA batteries and the case slides on the base to enclose the batteries - but it slides off. Perhap a bit of tape would help it to stay on. The controls for the toy are also located on the base - 1 slide for the clitoral stimulator and 1 for the vibrating shaft. So, when the lid slides off, it is hard to adjust the vibrations. When I played with this toy my immediate thought was that it wasn't hitting me where I wanted it to. The clitoral stimulator was falling a bit...short. BUT THEN I took out the toy and bent the shaft UP so that it would hit my G-spot and barely inserted the toy so that the clitoral stimulator could reach and tease my clit. Oh my GAWD....it was PERFECT. The toy is quite firm to the touch when bent UP, and the clitoral stimulator was powerful on HIGH so I started to cum quickly. I felt the toy stimulating my G too, so I stayed with it through another orgasm and worked up to a fantastic G-spot O! This toy definitely has a wealth of possibilities! You can bend the shaft to go where it will please you - and the adjustable vibrations make it perfect for any power desire. I love that the shaft vibrates and rotates - and it even took a lickin and kept on tickin' during my orgasm! I loved the clitoral stimulator once I got it positioned where I wanted. I was overall impressed with this toy's power and design - just wish the battery case wouldn't shift, as it made it hard to adjust the vibration. I think every woman needs to be ILLUMINATED with this great little toy! GO TOWARD THE LIGHT

Want to make your man EXPLODE with desire? Feel like trying to him him the most ROCKIN' Blow job ever? Well, look no further COCK ROCKS BJ Candy will help you to do just that. The principle is simple: great tasting candy that POPS in your mouth, increases saliva production AND had the added bonus of mild benzocaine additive that sort of 'numbs' your throat as you deliver the goods to your man. Don't worry ladies, it won't make it TOO numb - and guys, my hubby reports that it won't numb your penis either! The flavor I got was Head Bang: Green Apple and it was, dare I say, YUMMY. I put some in my mouth just to see how much they would POP - and I am a bit embarrassed to admit, the first pops sort of took me off guard. It has been a long time since I have had pop rocks in my mouth (why does that sound so dirty?) so I was surprised. I thought it would make an interesting addition to oral time. It was a bit awkward to pour these into my mouth, then to start giving my hb his oral attention as it took a while to figure out how much to use. Turns out, less is more. Just a little mouthful and your mouth will turn into oral armageddon! My hubby was really shocked at just how much he could feel the little 'pings of pleasure' as he termed them. The popping can be a bit distracting, but it really did enhance saliva. Warning: you may drool a bit more, so as I said, less is more. WARNING: DO NOT use this on the vagina. This is for EXTERNAL use only. There is sugar in this product and sugar + vagina = infection. Overall this was a real fun little treat to tempt my hubby with. He enjoyed it. I enjoyed it. It made a normal Tuesday into Banging Blowjob Tuesday! Rock His World

For me, testing this product was like a trip down kinky lane! My very first sex toy was a vibrator JUST LIKE THIS ONE! The only difference was the base. On this vibe, the base has a nice little 'gemstone' accent, so very feminine! In any event, this little toy just proves that sometimes simplicity takes the cake. Sleek and simple, this 4 1/2 inch bullet shaped vibe will buzz you right into a nice, comfortable orgasm. Completely waterproof, this little gem can please on land OR sea - and with multiple vibration levels, it is sure to hit you just the way you want. The vibrations come from inside the shaft, delivering a whole toy vibration. My only complaint is that the vibrations were a bit too low for my clitoral pleasure (I like a really powerful punch) but when I used it internally, it was extremely satisfying. The smooth bullet shape makes insertion simple and easy. The rounded tip fit perfectly on your most sensitive spaces. At a very non-intimidating 1 inch width, this toy is perfect for beginners! Just insert the 2 C batteries (the product specs on site are incorrect) and you will be ready to play. I will warn you, on the higher setting the vibrations are pretty loud (because the ABS plastic doesn't buffer the vibrations too well) - but with any luck, you will soon be louder than the toy. So, if you are looking for a simple pleasure - remember, no woman would turn down a gem - and this is one that should be in every woman's toy box! Be A Gem - Buy A Gem

Finals weeks are busy for us professors.......but not too busy for sex!

I think I enjoyed reading the psychological analysis as much as I did the piece. So nice to know you love us all enough to put so much thought and effort into it. Thank you so much.