Summer1

Thank you for your advise. I did fail to mention love. We do love each other and are both willing to become more active in what we need as a couple. It is just very frustrating that my desires in intimacy can not be met as they used to.

We haven’t discussed that, he would probably object. I would like to have one though. Thanks

No penetration so I purchased some toys.

I need advise as to what you would do. Married for 15 years, both in our 40’s, we have children, but haven’t had sex with my husband for 3 years. He is diabetic and didn’t take care of himself and has gradually not been able to have an erection at all. We have been to numerous doctors and nothing has helped. I do love him but am so frustrated that he can’t fulfill my desires to the point that he doesn’t even have the urge to do anything at all. We have lived like this for the last 3 years and I don’t know what to do.