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Many women DO in fact, use BC for helping regulate their periods, aleviate cramps, and control PMS. So, yes, that is real. There is no 100% guarantee against pregnancy, unless you just DON'T have sex! Women can and do get pregnant with the Pill. Sometimes they just have the wrong strength of Pill, or they skip one, and try to double up, thinking that they'll be OK. Then they forget that they do this. You're NOT "OK" if you double up!! Always double up on BC (use condom) if you skip a dose, always! If you notice on those commericials, they add "when used correctly" in their lingo. I know one friend that both her kids are Pill Babies. She was on antidepressants when she was on them, and her doctor didn't give her the correct dosage/Rx for what she was on. Remember, very important, that if you're taking any antibiotics, always always tell your health care provider that you are on the Pill, and always always always DOUBLE UP With your birth control, aka use a condom!!

I'm glad I'm not the only one that has this problem!! LMAO I had a BF that was very tolerant of my husky/shephard mix. One morning, while we were in the middle of the horizontal mambo, all of a sudden, my BF shoots straight up out of bed. I didn't know he could move that fast! Anyway, I saw my dog right between his legs. Apparently, she put her cold nose right on his balls. I dunno why he resisted that procedure!!

Have you ever heard the phrase, “Don’t play games with me”? Well, with this new sexy couples game, Sex Gone Wild, you will definitely WANT to play games for hours with your lover! This game will bring out the animal in you and your lover. This playful foreplay game for 2 people only, is packed with lots and lots of fun, teasers, and will definitely make you laugh! The game includes a foldable game board, 2 playing pieces, large die, trivia cards, His & Her Go Wild cards, and the Mystery Request cards. It comes in a small box, about the size of the box that those desk day-by-day calendars come in. The cards range in quirky fun activities, such as throwing on a tie and doing a sexy waddle for your mate, like a penguin, for the men; to teasing your partner with the same way a female tiger grooms, nuzzles, licks and rubs herself all over her mate. There are also factual tidbits about how many animals court one another that will make you go WOW! Like how the female pig’s orgasm can last up to 30 minutes! Kinda makes me wanna be a pig!!! My husband and I had lots of LOL fun with this game, playing, growling, teasing, and unleashing our inner beasts! We never did get to the end of the board though! We, um, got a bit distracted! We’re usually quite competitive (in a fun way), but this game had us going wild instead! Laughing and having fun in the bedroom is not only a great way to distress after a hard day, but it also helps reconnect with your lover. Sex is adult playtime people! This game will really let you want to unleash the beast in you! Do you dare to Go Wild?

As a woman that does Kegels, I will try to describe how to do them. Instead of "Pushing" with vaginal muscles, try squeezing them, like you would if you have to go pee, and have to hold it. Squeeze, hold for 5 seconds, then relax. Start doing this 15-20 times at a setting, then work your way up. If you have trouble concentrating on the muscles, there are Pleasure/Exerciser Balls, which I have tried, like Royal Balls, and an item that I also tried a short time ago called The ISIS, which is speficially a Kegel exerciser. Good luck!

Welcome to the forum! There are many posts about shaving. Mostly in Ask a Sexpert & Everything Else. Just go down to the bottom left hand corner when you open up a forum, and type in SHAVING. That will bring up the many responses to this exact question! A quickie answer is to remember a couple of things: I have sensitive skin, so I use a razor designed to moisturize. As well as one with AT LEAST 3 blades! My hubby LOVES my Venus razors I get to shave his, um.....pubic area! It seems to be a bit more gentle than his "MAN razors" for some reason. I also use conditioner for my shave gel, instead of buying expensive creams, gels or other things, using regular moisturizing conditioner for your hair will soften the hair AND moisturize your skin. I LOVE Tresemme' moisturizing conditioner! Especially in the pump. You pay about the same that you would for a good shaving gel, but it's A LOT bigger bottle! So you get more for your money! Take a nice hot shower, or better yet, a bath, to soften the hair folicles first. Then, shave, rinsing the razor regularly. For a heavy shave, use a NEW razor first. Wait a couple hours before applying lotion, so your skin can heal a bit from shaving. Or you could irritate your skin. I tried Coochie Cream a while ago, and that stuff is AWESOME!!! I prefer that stuff to anything else, but it's kinda expensive, but worth it, since a little goes a long way! Good luck!

It's always nice to hear that people in long-term relationships/marriages can STILL get so turned on by each other! It's great to hear about it, and thank you for sharing!

I loved the full body shot of you, you're very handsome, thanks for that!! Oh, nice cock tease too!!

As I responded to your PM, TooTimid now has a retail store on Newbury Street, in Boston, MA. I'm not sure how far that is from y'all, but I hope that helps. You can also Google something like "Adult Toy Stores, Worchester, MA" or "Sex Toy Stores in Worchester, MA". Something like that. Good luck!

Trojan does it again with this combo of safe and fun sex! My hubby and I decided to have some fun last night, and break out a new item to try, so we got out the Trojan Vibrating Ring and condom. I opened up the small cardboard box, not really knowing what to expect, and I was pleasantly surprised to see that the vibrating ring and the condom were in separate sealed packages. Gotta love companies that care about hygiene! There are also detailed instructions on how to use the ring, and, of course how to put a condom on. You can use the ring with or without the condom, making this a bit more versatile! Hubby & I use condoms as part of our birth control methods, so we used the ring WITH the condom. The ring is a small jelly fairly stretchy ring; with the bullet vibe fully encased & is powered by a small battery that can last up to 20 minutes, so this ring is a one-time toy. There’s an easy to flick switch on one end of the vibe, which has 2 settings: ON and OFF. The vibes provided were pretty good! And the nubbies on the stimulation bullet were not too soft, and not too hard, but juuuuuuust right! There is one big nubbie in the middle for more direct clit attention. The inside of the ring is a bit wavy, adding a bit more sensation for the man’s cock. After some oral attention on both our parts, hubby easily put the latex condom on his erect member first, then the cock-ring over it and all the way up to his pubic area, which was freshly shaved for my pleasure! The ring was big enough for his member, but not stretchy enough for his member AND balls. This would’ve caused him some pain. Since we were both ready for action, he slid inside me easily, and we both enjoyed the vibes from the cock-ring very much. And, the bullet vibe didn’t hit too hard, and not too soft, it, again was juuuuuust right! It stayed right where it needed too, unlike some cock-rings, which may be a bit too tall, or oddly shaped and not hit just the right spot. Nope, this thing did its job, and did it well! We enjoyed the sensations, which, incidentally, lasted longer than 20 minutes. The vibes were getting a bit s-l-o-w by the time we were done, but since it was well over the advertised time, the ring gave all, and we were rewarded! This item was so easy to use, and, we really liked this a lot. Who says practicing safe sex can’t be fun? Wrap up, vibe on!!

So glad that this worked so well for you!! Gotta love the dolphins!!!

Well, have you? If so, what happened? How did you handle it?

It's great that your husband was able to speak to his brother about that. Some people are so sheltered, you wonder if they really enjoy sex or not.

There are several threads about this. Check in Beginners, Ask Sexpert, and Everything Else. At the bottom of the page, you will see a box in the lower left corner to type in a keyword. Type in VIRGIN, and posts containing VIRGIN will appear.

There are several threads about this. Check in Beginners, Ask Sexpert, and Everything Else. At the bottom of the page, you will see a box in the lower left corner to type in a keyword. Type in VIRGIN, and posts containing VIRGIN will appear.

OMG!! Pastor Yummy Pants!!! As lame as this may be, if I were single, and had the opportunity to do so, I'm choosing an actor. Ridiculously out of character, it'd be David Caruso. There's just SOMETHING about him that makes my tummy flip. Realistically, again, if I were single, there is a guy at the store I use to work at, we use to flirt here and there, and I'd go after him and sink more than my claws in his fine ass. Boyish face, tall, broad shoulders, nice jeans-ass, and MAKES ME LAUGH!!!

I don't have an IUD, but I wouldn't think that there'd be any more risk of getting a toy caught on the string as with a condom-covered penis either. If you're really concerned about it, ask your doctor that put in the IUD, they'd be better qualified to answer this question.

Once again, Doc Johnson creates a wonderful new product, and it’s called the iFlex Vibe. I got this toy, and the first thing I thought of, is one of those small bendable flashlights. Getting my favorite color, purple, I was super excited to try out this toy. Any fan of the Hustler Rock-It Vibe will find that this toy is a big step up! After washing the tip carefully, and allowing the toy to dry before I put in my 3 AA batteries (not incl) in the back of the controller, I was ready to go! I had to play with this toy in my hand first, just to see what it will do. The colorful vibrating head matches the base, and it has 3, count ‘em 3, stimulation balls, similar to the Rock-It. The flexible shaft bends in every which way, and feels strong, not wimpy. And it stays right where you bend it. This makes this toy so much fun. The controller/base is easy to hold and has easy to use 2 buttons. The one on the left controls the on/off and the intensity of the vibes. The one on the right gives you 5 functions of vibes: Vibrating, Pulsating, Surging, Escalating, and Roller Coaster. There are indicator lights on both sides, to show you what level you’re at. My favorite setting is the steady Vibrating, on high. This toy boasts of having advanced I.C. chip technology, allowing you perfect control of your pleasure, and they are RIGHT! The vibes are so strong, and with the bendable head, you have more leeway as far allowing for more comfort for your arm and hand! This toy is so easy and fun to use. The stimulation balls really hit my special spot, and the flexible head makes getting a comfortable position easy. I found my favorite setting, and the balls really got my clit vibing and had me rocking in minutes! The 3 AA batteries really pack a whollop, but, I will warn you, dear toy user, that this toy is a little on the loud side. Get one today, and see how flexible you can be! FLEX

Get ready for a lot of sex, Racquel Darrian style! Racquel was very popular all throughout the 90’s, and in this film, you have 22 scenes, yes, I said 22 scenes, to see why Racquel was so popular! Go back to when nails & hair were long, earrings & hair were still big, and bushes were sometimes plentiful! This is a 2 disc set, with the main feature disc, along with it’s easy to choose scene selection, photo gallery and so on, and also a bonus disc of 90 minutes more of sexy fun! You can pick and choose your favorite scenes over and over again, and with 22 of ‘em, there will be quite a few, at least there are for me! This Vivid film is a 4 hour compilation of Racquel’s most famous films, such as: Where the Boys Aren’t #5, On Trial #4 Torrid Tales, Cloud 9, Original Sin, Kink, and several of the Bonnie & Clyde series. This film has something for everyone: Female on females, 3-somes with men, and all women, and one on one with a man and woman too. Different scenes from the different films mix it up quite a bit: some BDSM, voyeurism, toys, great lingerie, killer shoes, and so much more will tempt and tease your eyes. These clips are also a great variety of what were up-and-coming porn stars, in various stages of their (and their breast’s) careers. Racquel has some great oral skills, and she has a smokin’ hot bod to go with them! She knows just what to do, which is pretty much everything, and how to show off her “assets”! I’m probably a bit partial, since I too am a brunette! I had a couple fav scenes, such as the first one from On Trial #4, where there was some light bondage, crimped hair, and the leather and chain outfit she had on I recognized as one I own myself! Another favorite scene was the second scene from Lunachick, near the end of the film. Let’s just say….WOW! This is a great film to add to any collection, and this one will definitely be viewed here again! October 2007 DVD of the month

Get ready for a lot of sex, Racquel Darrian style! Racquel was very popular all throughout the 90’s, and in this film, you have 22 scenes, yes, I said 22 scenes, to see why Racquel was so popular! Go back to when nails & hair were long, earrings & hair were still big, and bushes were sometimes plentiful! This is a 2 disc set, with the main feature disc, along with it’s easy to choose scene selection, photo gallery and so on, and also a bonus disc of 90 minutes more of sexy fun! You can pick and choose your favorite scenes over and over again, and with 22 of ‘em, there will be quite a few, at least there are for me! This Vivid film is a 4 hour compilation of Racquel’s most famous films, such as: Where the Boys Aren’t #5, On Trial #4 Torrid Tales, Cloud 9, Original Sin, Kink, and several of the Bonnie & Clyde series. This film has something for everyone: Female on females, 3-somes with men, and all women, and one on one with a man and woman too. Different scenes from the different films mix it up quite a bit: some BDSM, voyeurism, toys, great lingerie, killer shoes, and so much more will tempt and tease your eyes. These clips are also a great variety of what were up-and-coming porn stars, in various stages of their (and their breast’s) careers. Racquel has some great oral skills, and she has a smokin’ hot bod to go with them! She knows just what to do, which is pretty much everything, and how to show off her “assets”! I’m probably a bit partial, since I too am a brunette! I had a couple fav scenes, such as the first one from On Trial #4, where there was some light bondage, crimped hair, and the leather and chain outfit she had on I recognized as one I own myself! Another favorite scene was the second scene from Lunachick, near the end of the film. Let’s just say….WOW! This is a great film to add to any collection, and this one will definitely be viewed here again! October 2007 DVD of the Month

They call that "Gay-Dar". And, yes, you can usually just TELL with many men, out or not. And, it may not be overly specific, just intuition. And, a woman's intuition, IMO, is usually spot-on. if you just "know" that he's gay, and may not be "out", then that's something you'll have to figure out how to handle. But there's really no "checklist" as to say Yes He IS Gay. Gay men that are "out" are usually pretty open about their sexual preferences. It just depends on what degree & where they are. The way your guy gestures may just be how he grew up. My friend that I mentioned, did NOT gesture like a gay man at all. I have another male friend that gestures like MAD, somewhat femininely, again, not gay. One of my friend's step-brother's is very very gay. Meaning, he's flambouyantly gesturing all over the place. I knew a gal that walked like a man, smoked like a guy, talked and dressed like a guy. You would've thought she was gay and the more "masculine" part of a FF relationship. However, she just grew up with her 2 brothers and father. She never had a female role model, so she just emulated what she was around. Just how someone gestures doesn't mean that they're gay or not. Again, the most direct route is to ask him. But, be careful how you do so, because if you aren't tactful, you could bruise his ego, and/or insult him. Men will date women to cover up being gay. It happens all of the time. For whatever reason, they choose to stay hidden. Dating the opposite sex is more acceptable in society, even by today's standards. It's "easier". A few of my gay friends (females AND males) have told me that they had dated the opposite sex a lot, just because it was socially easier to do that then to go out and hold hands with someone of the same gender. Me, personally, can't see why someone would go to a dating site, to find a cover up date. If anything, I would think that that would be more anonymous to go and find someone of your preferred preference. Confusing? Absolutely! I don't envy you on this one at all. Best wishes and good luck with the outcome.

If this guy went on a dating site to find a woman, instead of a man, then you may be reading him wrong. I'm not really sure, not having met him. Plus, I've never dated anyone from CA. I also grew up in the NorthEast, but in Maine, where the Canadian French prevail, and are VERY animated and expressive. So, I am use to that. You run the risk of insulting him if you come right out and ask him. But, that's the most direct route, if you really want to know. There's no "set" tell-tale signs that a man is gay. I had a friend, that I had NO clue he was gay. He loves sports, wears just jeans and t-shirts, takes good care of himself, loves cars, hates art, and drinks beer. The only thing that clued me in, is that he never flirted with me, or even looked at women! I finally just came out and asked him. Sure enough, gay. It could be that you're just use to older, more refined men. Older men have a much more calmer face, a bit more "regality" if you will. They've lived longer, and, therefore, learned more about relationships.

I remember you posting that some nubbies are uncomfortable for you, were these softer than the others you've experienced?

It's unfortunate that you've helped make your BF feel guilty about something as natural as masturbating. This is a good example of what NOT to do in a relationship. You're young, and probably a bit insecure. Which is normal for people just learning to be in real relationships. Learn from it, and keep reassuring your BF that you're sorry. But don't keep calling more and more attention to it either. Maybe help him along one night by having a Masturbation Night, where the 2 of you just masturbate each other, no sex. Watch an adult movie WITH him. Porn is just another additive in sex. The only time one should worry, is if their partner, or themselves, watch porn to get off, and get addicted to it. People addicted to porn can't have sex with "real girls/guys" anymore. It doesn't sound as if your BF has this trouble. Men are VISUAL, they get turned on by what they SEE, hence why lingerie and porn is so popular. Remember not to make him self-conscious for being male. Maybe cruise some adult sites together, if he goes online to look at porn. Check it out, make it fun. Obviously, he cares for you, he's trying to be considerate of your feelings. He's able to have sex with YOU. Sex and being sexual with your partner is suppose to be fun and flirty, be kind to each other, and have fun!

I'm glad you're happier. However, I want you to think seriously hard on one thing: Would YOU like it if YOU were being cheated on? Probably not. To be respectful of your fiance', if I were you, I'd let him go. It's not fair to have him think that you're being faithful to him, when you're not. And, sleeping with 2 people, one of which thinks he's the only one, is also not overly cool or kind. Breaking up is never easy, but sometimes it's the most kind thing you can do with someone. Yes, I said kind. Why? Because, sooner or later, the one being cheated on is bound to find out. When (s)he does find out (using generalization for that one), they are more hurt at the betrayal then the actual break up. At one time, you truly cared about your fiance', and respected him, enough to get engaged to him. Remember that love and respect and break it off. You said "It's the best thing you've ever done." I'm thinking that part of it is the thrill of cheating. If I'm remembering correctly, you and your fiance' are far apart, and have been together a few years? So, cheating on him is fairly "easy" as far as that goes. But there's still the thrill of doing something "naughty" when you're cheating, and also the ego boost to know that someone else finds you attractive. Obviously, you're not fully happy with your fiance', since you're cheating, and keeping the engagement going, or even following thru with the marriage would NOT be a good idea. For some reason, he just doesn't fulfill you anymore, and keeping him around as a comfort zone isn't fair to either of you. Neither of you can fully commit in this situation, anymore. Thanks for the update though! Best wishes to you.

Welcome, and WOW! What a post! Unfortunately, you are not alone as far as "Lazy Lovers" go. This may sound harsh, however, I am just responding to what I've read. It's great that you are so supportive and complimentary to your husband. That's really a wonderful thing. However, the sentences "I also give him compliments on the size of his penis and tell him how lucky I am to get to make love to him." may make him feel like he doesn't NEED to do anything else for you. That you're lucky enough to make love to him with his large cock, so why bother doing more? I'm not in any way saying that you should STOP complimenting him, but I would lighten up on it a little. Also, the suggestion to talk with him, away from the bedroom, is a wonderful idea. Let him know, nicely, but directly too, that you are a little disappointed in the bedroom, and that you may not be overly clear as to what you want, when you want it. You miss having oral sex GIVEN to you. You LOVE what he does to you, and wish tha the would use his mad oral skills a bit more. Yes, that's stroking his ego, but, that's what may need to happen if you want him to start paying a bit more attention to you orally. Be clear as to what you want. He may not have any idea that you're unhappy with how things are going, since you compliment him so. You sound like a very giving and caring lover. He, unfortunately, should consider HIMSELF LUCKY to be able to make love to YOU, and it's high time that he knows it, IMO. Best wishes!