Tyger

I lost mine when I was 16. To my high school sweetheart. He was who I wanted to loose it to. It wasn't magical, or really spectacular, but I don't have any regrets either.

This particular section isn't overly looked at much, however, this whole forum has been around for a really long time. Feel welcome to liven it up & post!!

Welcome to the forums! I'm glad to see you. Your post is very vague. I read the whole thread. I'm a little confused. I understand why she may have been bothered by her father having an affair, but, in all honesty, it's really how her family dealt with it. I have a feeling that her mom found out & severely bashed him and/or the other woman, very outwardly. This is a very selfish thing that people that are scorned do. They may be ranting and raving, but stuff like that, need to be kept between the spouses, and NOT the kids. So, whatever her mother, or whoever did the ranting, said about her father (which can make your wife feel bad, since she IS a part of her father), and if her mother was bodily insulting, again, it can effect her that way as well. I totally agree, that she needs therapy, to fully understand that, what her father did, had NOTHING to do with her. That whoever bashed her father's behavior (though it WAS wrong of him to do), was in the wrong to do infront of the child(ren). That sex between 2 loving spouses can be wonderful. Some people suffer from body-dysmorphia. Which is when you see your "flaws", they are over-exaggerated in your mind. Where someone that has body-dysmorphia sees that they have HUGE hips, they're actually just softly curved. Or, someone sees that they have huge ugly feet, actually have pretty feet that are proportionate to their height. That isn't something just compliments can conquer. Therapy, self-love, support, and genuine compliments are needed. Not trying to sound sexist, but this is the truth.....Usually, men can just cum with little issue. Women, however, having an orgasm is more difficult. We over-think EVERYTHING. "Do I look stupid?" "Are these noises normal?" "We have to be quiet or we'll wake the kids." "Is he enjoying this?" "Is he thinking of someone else?" "Do we need eggs?" I mean, seriously. We are constantly thinking of several things at once. Women are pitted against each other so often, and also made to be thought of as undesirable if we're not up to "Society's Standards" for weight, beauty, style, etc. When, in reality, those comparisons to models in magazines, on tv, billboards, etc, are impossible to achieve (since most of that stuff is Photoshopped anyway). This isn't a "Hump" that she can just get over. I highly recommend that she get some therapy. Now, can you help? Yes. But it MUST be sincere. Not just so you can see her naked. But, genuinely help her. If she makes an effort to get her hair done, sincerely compliment her. Soft gestures like just holding her hand, and act proud that she's yours. Putting your hand on the small of her back when you're out in public, or even at home. Just have small touching, without the expectation of anything. It shows her you want her. Saying "I love you" at night before you go to sleep, and kiss her goodnight. Be sure to make DATE NIGHT a priority. This breaks people out of the regular mundane everyday life. It will make her feel like you WANT to spend time with her. Build her up. I hope to see more of your posts.

Welcome! Looking forward to seeing your posts/questions!

So, as we know, Self-Care is the more positive term for "pampering", and we know that self-care is necessary for both women AND men! Taking time for your SELF is key to staying happy, healthy, and feeling worth-while. Whether it's getting your hair done, a nice spa treatment, nails/pedicure, or whatever the case may be, everyone needs to practice self-care with what makes you happy! As far as self-care masturbation goes....this can really be a way to open yourself up to new experiences, discoveries, and pleasure. Romancing YOURSELF, can really make you feel desireable, sexy, and relaxed. Take the time for romancing yourself. Whether it's lighting some candles, taking a nice hot bath, having music, or having new toys to discover, we'd love to hear how YOU take some time to practice your Sensual Self-Care!

It's awesome that y'all have opened up to each other, and be able to accept each other's likes. I'm happy that you have opened up!!

Online is very simple. Just like any other site, click the item to add to your cart. Checkout is fast and easy. And, the packaging is discreet. The return address says Atlantic Innovations. So, unless someone also shops from here, nobody will know what's in it. I've been here since 2008, and, I've NEVER had any issues!

I was wondering which flavor the whole time I read this!!! LMAO

Sometimes I use lube, sometimes I don't. Depends on how.my body is doing really. Nothing wrong with it either way.

Right!!! I've actually basically written this to them. "How am I supposed to show I haven't gotten it, when there's NOTHING to show...literally???" I got my money back.

Hey there. How have these comments been made? On the forum, or thru PMs? I hope that we can all just post and have fun. But if there are any valid rules being broken, please let us know.

I just got measured, and I'm up to a 44DD. If I was with a man, I'm sure they'd be in heaven!! LMAO

Me too!!!!

It is a lot to go thru. And I'm trying to go thru all of the pics to see which ones are allowed, and which are not. I've actually deleted and/or moved pics to the photo sections of the forum. Also, remember when posting pics, that if they're not yours, that you took-then you don't have permissions to share them, and they probably will get deleted.

Have you tried rebooting your computer? I'm not sure why your messages would just disappear.

Corny joke!!! LMAO

Very sexy lady!

When I was with men, oddly enough, they pretty much all were hair-free on their chest. One guy waxed because he was a model. However, the rest, it just seemed a constant=no hair. For some reason, I think armhair on men is sexy.

Unfortunately, no, that wasn't the one. The Hammer I got is the brand Tom Of Finland. It was over $50....& worth.. Every. Penny!!! LMAO

Girl, IKWYM! Several years ago, I thought I'd be brave and try the 8" Over-sized Cock, and I got it, and, even with lube, I couldn't even get in the doorway!!! LOL

Thank you!!! Same to you Mandy!

Well said!!!! Now, as far as deleting posts, you certainly may do so, especially in cases where people are sadly, harrassing/insulting you. If this does happen, please report the posts, or message me the screenshots of the PMs. I have no trouble with addressing these. When a member's profile is deleted, it does remove all of their posts too, which is really sad if they were an insightful, stimulating person. But, this forum isn't mean to GET IN THE WAY, but to try to ENHANCE. So, before you try and tell someone you're "Offended", or PM them an unsolicited probable rude comment or even a dick pic they didn't ask for, please think about that person and others, to see if it's really worth it. Remember, this IS a forum about SEX......yes, we have some other sections that have jokes, and off topic things, but, remember WHERE those posts/topics are, and think about it before you go off on someone. Things may get "off-color". As long as we're discussing things as consenting adults, that's all that matters.

Well, it's been a hot minute since I've done a review, but it's great to be back in the saddle again!!! I was so excited to get this type of toy to do an in-depth review on. The Engrace is a beautifully designed, mint-colored silicone, rechargeable, dual action vibrator. First, the basics: It comes in a fairly discreet black box that just has a silver heart, and TooTimid on the box. I love great storage for my toys, keeping them clean & safe. I also LOVE silicone toys since they're so easy to clean, feel very soft, and don't have pores in the material to hold on to any nasty bacteria. In the box comes the Engrace itself, a charging cord, and an instruction card. All nice and neatly nestled in the box's velvety inserts. The minty green silicone is very soft, almost velvety-feeling. Engrace is almost 9" long. This toy has 2 functional ends. The shaft/handle that has an insertable length of a little over 4". Having a slight ripple design on the sides of the shaft for 2 purposes: added pleasure & grip. Moving up the shaft, you will come up to 2 buttons. Either of which, when on, are really bright minty green. And when you're charging the Engrace, both buttons will blink during the charge, When done, both buttons stay lit until unplugged. The one closest to the shaft, is that end's power & function cycling button in 1. When you press it for a couple of seconds, it turns the shaft on, then you have 10 vibe cycles, then to turn it off, you hold the button down again for a few seconds. Same process for the top button that controls the bulbous head...... And onto that wonderful bulbous head, which is maybe a tad smaller than a tennis ball, and has a slight triangular "dorsal fin" near the top......The head is really large, & smooth. Which is good and somewhat awkward. It is the heaviest part of the toy. The front where the opening for the little "tongue" flickerer is the same side where the buttons are. T I stuck my finger in the hole and felt the "tongue". Honestly, it was more pointy & deeper into the hole than I thought would be comfortable, so, I was a bit unsure how much positioning it would take to get that tongue to make contact with my clit. As I push the buttons for the bulbous head, which, of COURSE, I want to try first. Noticing that this isn't a very loud toy at all, probably because of the silicone surrounding the powerful bullet's motor. Cool. So, my first 2 tries with this toy were with just the head part. Now, in my eager-beaverness, I did not charge the toy for my first playtime. So, I was like, erm...ok, nice....But, I did charge it fully (as I should've done the first time), and the 2nd time, I felt a HUGE difference in the power. And, yes, it was a little louder than before, but not by much. The charging port is actually on the backside of the head, and you will see a small hole in the silicone, with DC over the top of said hole. Plug the pointed end of the cord in there, and the other is a USB port plug. I had to move.....just....a...certain....way...and....get....it.....right.....there....no...........there......to be able to get the toy positioned around my clit. Then, I squeezed my thighs together, which brought the head down to a more pleasurable place on my very appreciative clit. It did take a bit more effort to do this than some of my other toys, but it was manageable and really worth it. The third playtime, was with my lover, and we used the shaft in me instead. And, the shaft/handle is also VERY pleasurable. With a decent insertable length, it is more rounded at the bottom/tip of it, so it really gave that wonderfully full feeling. Holding on to the handle/shaft is easier than holding onto the bulbous head, honestly. And, I will say, that, though the placement of the buttons is about the only place they really COULD be, I hit them a few times, while trying to grip & adjust myself. This can make for a shocking, & unwanted change in vibes at a most critical time too. Now, before you even ask, no, unfortunately, you can't bend the toy so you can have the shaft inserted and the clit stimulated by the flickering tongue at the same time. It's not long enough to do that with. And, with the separate motors for the shaft & the head, it's just not designed for that. Nor can you have both the head & shaft on at the same time. I tried both! LOL This is, what I'd call a dual action (but not at the same time) toy, that offers 2 different stimulation options, which gives it a bit more bang for its buck, so to speak. It has a bit more versatility than just a clit stimulator, and, the buttons are easy to press. This may be great for a woman with a larger clit, or even for a man looking for some "just the tip" stimulations! All in all, I give this 3.5 out of 4 Tyger paws.