Dude you need some serious help Man!! For one thing wives was not created by God to be are sex slaves! They were created to be our companion in life, our friend, our lover, someone to share our lives with. Sex is not to be the top priorty in a relationship, love, honer and trust is, and it sounds like you have none of these, if you were to treat your wife with love, honer and trust she would probably be more willing to make love to you! sounds like you dont know the difference between sex and love, love comes first followed by sex! although you didnt come right out and say it you have probably threatend your wife to either put out or you was going to go get it else where right! where as she could probably care less because of the way you treat her and probably could care less hopeing to get rid of your SORRY ASS!! You are so confused about God Rules and Laws you should not be useing them to justify your sorry case of stupidity! And as far as the gay relationship between women and women, and men and men, yes it is wrong in Gods eyes, but we are not to be the judge, jury are the one to cast wrath up on them, none of us our perfect as individuals and never will be here on earth includeing you!! and there is no such thing as a perfect marrage but you can always improve oneself by trying harder to be a better person, and you can always improve a marrage by trying harder! BUT IF YOU DONT CHANGE YOUR WAY OF THINKING YOUR MARRAGE DOES NOT HAVE A CHANCE!!!!