WonderingWhatThereIs

Yeah tell me about it. My wife went through some tough times, recently coming out of it. The past few weekends have been so incredible together. We are sitting around with a group of her old sex buddies with them talking about all the after college sex they had and out pops that question for me. From zero to 90, I froze. finally able to get out the words, "As long as I am with you I'd do anything but it must be with you. I just want to be with you." After the rut we've been in that is all that matters, that we do whatever we do together.

It's amazing. we have a date weekend after a two year rut. The past few weekends have been awesome. My wife needed to work through some losses and has come out her amazing beautiful sexy self. She mentioned oral sex this weekend so we shall see...

I love doing that as well, smelling like her.

Facials are sexy as heck! Ask my wife. In college she made good money letting guys do it. I wish she still had the pictures to show.

Love 69s after making love, her orgasming all over me and me cumming in her. Then love the passionate kissing afterwards.

If my wife wants to do it, I am going to do it for certain. I love when she ask for anything. Most always had a condom on until I married my wife and we did most everything condomless. The first time she asked me to eat her after I had cum inside I didn't think much of it until I was down and doing it. Then it hit me, holy smokes my penis as just here. I can smell my cock, and cum and of course there it was. The more I ate the hotter the both of us got and the more hooked we both became on doing this. Decades later and oh my goodness, it is still getting better. The same goes for her sucking me off after cumming inside her and kissing afterwards. I am amazed at how much of a turn on it is to smell my cock on her mouth, smell my cum on her lips, and taste our flavors together in a deep kiss. Even when m wife has her slow times if I am able to do any of these she will get crazy hot.

So you finally worked it out after many many months of planning, preparing, getting your spouse to sign off on it "The all naked weekend at the cabin @ a nudist resort." No clothing allowed whatsoever and you have three other couples who have agreed to all the mfms and fmfs everyone wants. What do you do if do wind up in a mmf? ffm? What the heck does your spouse do? What if it turned into a mmfm or mmmf? ffmf or fffm? Even more drastic - mmmm? and fffff? My wife asked me this in a room with three other couples, she blurted it out asking me what I would do and what did I think she'd do in every situation. I know I heard a feather drop.

People, be careful make certain the materials are safe.

Heck yes it hurts if not done right or at the right time. It hurts if done to soon or early in the time frame of the play. It takes us most of the day to get to that point. Many, many, many times of sex later in the say. First off can they even recover fully from that? How do they walk afterwards? Can they take more? No larger but more cocks? Gang Gang? or are they done for afterwards? If they cannot recover fully how much do they make it to in recovery? I know with my wife it takes her a few days, for me it takes over a week but that it only if we do not play again. When we get on a roll most of the time we do it all day and are then able to go large at the end. This leads to the next day of more, possibly a day off then more days of it. It's hard not to want it all the time once we get going so it takes a while for us to finally say - okay time to take a few days of weeks off from this. Also once we get going for a few days both of us get to that point of we'd hump just about anything, anywhere, anytime, as much or many as possible.

We have had competitions - her idea. She wins most of the time. Thought lately she has been able to help me win. She claims the win though stating that getting to do this to/with me is the best win ever! Our best has been 8.5 by 6.5 but only a few times. I get the whole larger thing but one can only do as large as one's body allows. She does like them large in either of us but only after a long day of sex and either of us is very open to it mentally as well as physically.

Totally enjoy it. My wife convinced me over many years and thank goodness for her. the orgasms are multi and massive. Used to it'd be orgasm from ejaculation, then wait, now it's orgasm, orgasm, orgasm either way, more orgasm, even after ejaculations, we play anally and orgasm more. My wife discovered this in herself and showed me. It's amazing!

Wasn't common among anyone I knew until after college. My wife on the other hand knew a lot of guys who were into it. Of course she is the one who introduced it to me and got me into it. She is not like most females we know, they do not want to know or hear about it. She gets off on it and the more we do together the more she gets into it. I must say that over the many years of marriage, it has gotten us through some rough patches. There are been a few years here and there when she lost her mojo or things got in the way but she always encourage me to take care of it myself whenever possible. Simple ejaculation orgasms are nice but nothing compared to full on anal massive multiorgasms and coupled with ejaculation and WOW!!! Surprisingly, my wife now knows lots of wives who have introduced this to their husbands over the years to aid in their sex lives. For me, it's so much better with her than on my own. I'm glad she is getting her groove back on.

BTW - I have noticed several people from Ga, the South, and Fla - good to see some nearby. Also a few tennis people - Awesome!

That is bit to funny! That poor poor guy.

Its actually been very hot in Hotlanta lately - the humidity has been quite sweaty!!!

Thanks great idea!

Nw area. Looking for options. Trying to find ideas that work for couples in need of an eye opening/heart starting/ drastic fix.

I know, it's heartbreaking. You start out so dynamic. No one wants to separate or divorce, but if rough being so stuck/torn. Thanks for the input.

Thank you so very much. I am saddened by your user name. I am certain you have many friends here and elsewhere.

What sexual options does your mate have when you are not having sex with them? You love your mate. You want to spend your life with them. You’ve both done all you can think of to revive your sex life. Aside from hours of trying to find the source of the issue, trying to fix it with exercise, diet changes, nutrition, schedule changes, counseling, therapy, meds, and the more desperate of choices, have you ever discussed this with your mate: What sexual options do you or they have when either one of you are no longer into having sex with them? Would you offer them any? How would you use it to maintain your connection/bond? Does anyone have any experience with this and any results that worked long term? thank you for honest thoughtful answers.

Looking for simple insights. We are like you all busy with life, hoping to improve on it, and bless others as often as possible. From Hotlanta.