It's a work in progress like marriages are supposed to be. Four months ago, we were making love every once in a great while. Sometimes 5-6 months between sessions. Then I did Something stupid. Not cheating!!! But it changed our lives for the better. We now are intimate every night, hugging, kissing, holding each other. We are also exploring bandage, games, roll playing. Basically anything that either of us want to try. It's all because we talked, because I was a fucking idiot.