One of my friends is afraid of anal but is dying to try it. I mean full penetration with a cock. BUT, she lets me give her a long, slow, erotic massage knowing that I'll eventually spend time with lube around her anus followed by a long, thick finger. She gets soaked when I do that and I can lick her to a climax very quickly after she takes it back there. Still a "virgin" to a cock, but she does love to get massaged thinking about what will happen to her.