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I have the wedge/ramp combo, and have to say it is not just fantastic, but well worth the price. I had seen, and wanted to dabble in the world of Liberator, having seen all the ads, and visited the website, but balked at the expense. Then, I was in the office of a Physical Therapist, and saw that they had Liberator items, used for stretching, and for exercise positions. I bought the combo right after that. And I am glad I did. The covers are washable, they come with storage cover/bags too, and the foam is very firm. Plus the covers are made with a fabric that is not slippery, so when you put the wedge and ramp together, they stay put. All in all, a well designed, well thought out, well made product line. Get them, and the positions just come... better than putting a pillow under her ass, or leaning her over the headboard! ENJOY!

Wait until you get them together... now THAT's an orgasm!

shave in the shower I find that the Mach 3 works better... angle hits the skin closer perhaps? Use a GOOD shave cream... I like Origins shave cream. It's a bit tingly and soothing at the same time Then, use a shaving balm... I like the one by L'Occitane... find it at their stores or online... It's called "Cade"... very soothing! Prevents the bumps/rash/in-growns I don't work for any of those companies... just tried alot of stuff, till I found what works... for me. Let me know what you think, should you try these products... good luck, and enjoy!

Howard is correct... the first time may not have blown you away because it was a calculated bit of self manipulation. The first time I gave my present girlfriend a G-spot O, she was floored... She tried doing it for herself, and the first time wasn't as good for her. Subsequently, though she's mastered it, and loves it as much, sometimes more, than clitoral... I guess you'll just have to have lots of those G-spot orgasms, to get them really right... Happy studying!

Alright... my thoughts about cockrings. I have a pretty good collection of them, some from here, and quite a few from J.T.'s Stockroom (stockroom.com). Some metal, some leather, lots of rubber/silicone... JT's rubber cockrings are great, and available in a wide variety of sizes, and colors. Cockrings can be worn in a variety of ways. There are the standard rings which go around the penis and scrotum, which when sized correctly restrict bloodflow out of, but not so much into the penis area. Then there are those that go around just the penis... they can be smooth or textured, and those are the ones that keep a swelled penis extremely hard, to the point of the erection turning purple (be careful not to get ones that are too tight, or to wear them for too long). I like something called "silicone island rings", though they don't last very long, they are nicely elastic, and have a bumpy texture my girl really digs. I'd avoid anything that's really stretchy... in my experience, they don't do much, and don't stay put. But if they are the gummy ones that hold a vibrating bullet, and are worn at the base of the cock, those are good. The rings which encircle the shaft are designed to keep blood in the penis... roughly speaking, blood enters the penis through veins deep in the core of the shaft, but the blood escapes through vessels on the outside. So the rings keep the blood from escaping. Like a tourniquet for the dick... In my experience, they don't make me hard, but when I wear them and get hard, I get harder! That's a good thing, but if your guy is experiencing alot of overwhelming sensation from your restrictively tight vagina, it will only make the sensations more intense. When I'm having sex with a ring or rings on, there are times when the sensations are too much, and I can't continue without cumming. So if I want to hold off, I remove them, and can go on, in control of my orgasm. This is much more the case with the tighter, around-the-cock-only rings... It can be difficult (to impossible) to remove the metal ones which go around the scrotum and penis with a full arousal. Cock rings are fun, increase sensation, and can make an erection positively rock-hard. I hope you both enjoy them...

Ok, so cock rings have been around for a very long time... for a reason... they work. But there are things they do and don't do. They don't make a guy hard, or keep him hard if he has serious erectile dysfunction, or emotional or intimacy issues. What they do is make a hard man harder. So before you blame your "tightness", perhaps you both need to see a couples counsellor or a doctor or therapist to get to the heart of the issue. I also had problems prematurely ejaculating when I was with a very tight woman I knew. I could barely hold out for a vigorous minute... even working slowly, I couldn't keep from having to cum. She didn't mind being so in control of me, but she sure needed to get it hard and fast once in a while too... frustrating. We were together for some time, and we found that the only way I could overcome the issue was to cum once early (usually through oral) and then proceed with foreplay on her, which would arouse me again... you get the picture. That all was fine, but a bit mechanical and redundant than the sexual experience should (IMHO) be. So I went to the ultimate source of accurate insights... the Net... I did some research, and found the penis pump. My member doesn't need help in the size department, so don't get the wrong idea... I was looking to change sensation, and lessen sensitivity. I purchased the Joel Kaplan pump (from TooTimid, in fact), and started using it. My woman was in on the whole thing, and though I was a bit embarrassed at the beginning, she gave me some privacy to work out the kinks (no pun intended) the first couple of times. It literally changed our sex life! It changed the way I felt "connected" to my penis, and gave me remarkable control. Look into them... and follow all directions thoroughly. I doesn't give anyone a monster cock, or enlarge one's manhood, other than the temporary swelling it's designed to produce. The long term effect, for me, has been much better control, and sensation than before. It's also kinda hot to use as a couple. After the penis comes out of the pump, it is immediately VERY swollen and VERY sensitive, but the next day... And after using it regularly for a few weeks (every third day or so. takes about an hour... see the instructions) you'll only need to use it occasionally. I'll post again, not off topic, but rather about the actual use of cockrings. They're great! But if your man wants to last longer, and you're really that tight, the pump might work well for you Dr. Joel Kaplan's Penis Pump Hope this helps...

Altoids are great too... they are nice-n-minty, making that saliva smell less, stimulate your salivary glands into making more, and they'll give a tingly sensation to his penis too... and he can try them on you also... extremely cool.

And if you're on top, you can make the move to get your feet planted, in a "catchers' crouch" over him, with him inside you... takes some very fit legs, but the payoff is unbelievable! He can (and probably should) support your buttocks with his hands to take some weight off your vastus medialis and rectus femoris (top of the thigh) muscles, making it easier for him to control the rhythm. While you're on top (a position, by the way, that made my ex-wife cum in multiples) shift one foot, and ride that way for a while, then move the other foot, completing the maneuver... If you've never done this before... it'll blow his mind!

Good old Everclear... brings back memories of college days when the urge to party was high, but funds were low. Jungle Juice! Glad that was then... But this topic brings to mind one interesting thing... My ex-wife was always bit "restrained" in her sexuality. It was a condition that worsened with time. She was embarrassed by talk of sex, she blushed when she saw sexual situations in movies (even just R rated films), and initiating sex had to come from her. It got to be less and less. I can't say that all the pain and stress of divorce was a good thing, but I am glad to be on this side of it. Don't get me wrong, I DID love her dearly, but this is getting off the topic. The one exception to her reigned in sexuality came with the introduction of alcohol... but not too much. There was a narrow window that made her happy, before she became belligerent. This girl was no shrinking violet, rather a quite bold personality, but at 4'10" and tipping the scale at 96 lbs., she always needed to be "watched". She did not know her limits. Two Margaritas made her shine, but three had her starting fights with anyone who bumped into her (or that she may have bumped into). There were times that it resembled the cartoon of the Chihuahua going against a Rottweiler. But, as I said, two Margaritas (drink of choice) made her amorous and "open". The reason I bring this up is that the times that we had sex when she was in this state were FAR better than when she was sober (I know, a sad comment). She was enthusiastic, where she'd otherwise be uptight, aggressive where normally meek. The biggest thing about it was that she would regularly not like receiving oral sex (don't get the idea that I'm not good at it. I've been told by MANY that I am the best that women have had, and I have the late nite booty calls to prove it). When uninhibited, my ex LOVED oral, had multiple O's and was a SQUIRTER!!!! Straight... she still had multiple O's from intercourse, but NO ORAL, little fingering, etc... One morning we woke up, and our bed was still soaked... she asked me what had spilled. I was amazed that she didn't remember squirting. She remembered making love, being very into it, but the details were hazy. I must say that it was very frustrating to know what she "could" be like, and I was not supportive of feeding her alcohol just to ensure a good time, but I admit that when we were out and she was ordering a second drink, I would get anxiously hopeful... It was the only time that sex was exciting, thrilling and erotic, but it was with someone only partly there mentally, if fully physically. There were many issues in our marriage, but in the end, she was a broken person (that sounds harsh, but I don't mean it negatively ) who didn't want to be fixed, so we parted... Even though the end was bitter, I walked away with memories of some unbelievable encounters we had. Amazing stuff that alcohol.

I'm a shaver (Mach 3 with Origins Blade Runner shave cream) and my girl is a waxer. She has a friend with a salon, but sometimes does it herself. I LOVE to give her oral when she's freshly stripped, and she seems to be very into my cleanliness also. I look at it this way... if she's more into it (as I am) when I'm clean shaven, NO QUESTION, I'll be shaving regularly.

Howard... A point on "Cowgirl". Cowgirl is when the woman is on top, facing towards her partner, thereby facilitating both vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Reverse-Cowgirl is girl on top, facing away fom her partner.

make sure you're covered, and don't feel so guilty for your shortcomings... make copies of anything you can... if this ends in divorce, you can't sit back and gripe later about being caught unaware... newsflash... this relationship is on the rocks! You can try to save it, but don't slack off because you feel your roll in this relationship gave her a reason to stray... Her actions were a betrayal, and if she'd do that, she'll rake you in court later if it comes to that...

Hey Bluelight... First I would like to admit that I love labia... When giving a woman oral, they are suckable as well as lickable, and that seems very pleasurable to those who have experienced that technique... Also they feel great wrapped around a mans ppenis, especially when in deep... Large Labia... A personal turn on for me... So don't think that they are a flaw, rather just another facet of your unique physiology... No two pussies are alike... yours is yours, so you shouldn't be uptight about it. Any guy who doesn't appreciate yours needs not to partake of it...

Squirting is real, but what you see on some videos is NOT. In my experience, any girl can squirt, but it usually takes some practice. There are some who come to it naturally, but for those who don't (if there's a desire to), masturbation can help a girl to find her "inner squirter". Mikayla's advice always seems to be spot-on, so I would refer to her posts for the "how-to's" of learning/teaching... I think the key is comfort... a girl has to be willing to "let go" and not hold back... Two experiences come to mind on the topic of squirting... First, when I was in high school, I had a friend-with-benefits who was extremely cool to hang out with, beautiful, blonde, curvy and always horny... We'd fuck anywhere, and when her house was empty, she'd call me over, and when no one was home at my house, I'd coax her to my place (remember, I was in high school, and we had to take advantage of all opportunities). One day, in my bed, I was performing oral, and as she reached orgasm, I gently persisted to stimulate her (her clit with my tongue, and a finger on her anus, but not inserted) to keep her cumming... about a minute into her orgasmic zone, I got a mouthful of warm, clear juice... definitely NOT pee, but I had never even heard of this kind of thing before... freaked me out (in a great way) and SOAKED my bed... She was appologetic, said she'd never done that before... I assured her there was nothing to appologize for...I was completely turned on by it... Of course, my bed was drenched, and after we played for a while more, we had to cover up the evidence. Secondly, my ex-wife was a wreck... sexual hang-ups, history of sexual abuse, never masturbated, psychotherapy, etc... A woman who, seemingly, just didn't want to get better... Why did I marry her? Long story, please don't ask... Anyway, sex with her was extremely limited... Only in the bed, she would give, but didn't like to receive oral, she made me feel like a pervert for suggesting interesting new positions and there were so many hurdles to overcome for the mood to be right... BUT, when she had a couple of Margaritas, everything changed. Now, I don't recommend alcohol as a way to help a relationship... this is just a recounting of what happened... When she got a bit buzzed, she relaxed, let her guard down and got into sex... even oral... Every time I performed oral on her in this situation... HUGE SQUIRTING!!!! The girl I'm with now squirts sometimes...I love it when she does, but it's her orgasm, I let her have the one she desires... If your wife desires this experiece, she can achieve it....

And just why do they call that fireball flavor cinnamon? I have never had natural, real cinnamon that tasted any bit like that artificial flavoring... kinda like grape soda, but... That said, not all cinnamon products are equal, and my girl likes a mild, minty sensation, but the heavy duty cinna-blast is a no-go for her... Me? I like it all, and the strongest winter-cinna-minty feels great! So, like all things, everyone has their preferences... Just because a flavor scientint can create a potion that will leave your mouth feeling like a nuclear reaction has occurred between your lips, there's no reason to believe that concoction should ever touch the delicate membranes of one's private bits... The creators of lotions and potions intended for sexual pleasure probably have a different standard than the makers of candy confections... I don't see anyone suggesting sour gummy worm insertions... or M&M enimas... Kids... be careful out there, and use some discretion... and perhaps a bit of common sense. Don't like it? Don't do it... But remember, there are people out there who dig being hung by their nipple piercings....

Howard... I think you missed the point (or perhaps I was unclear) that my girl has an orgasm... a huge, explosive, screaming orgasm, but achieving a second one can be the problem...

Hey Mikayla... Can't wait to see that article... My last girl was naturally VERY orgasmic. She had multiples effortlessly, and it came naturally... on and on... My current SO has incredibly strong, earth shattering orgasms, but more often than not, only one... last night two, but rarely more than that... I'd like to help her to have more... not because I want her to be more like my ex, but because we go for an hour or two, and I'd like her to have more orgasms the whole way through... She says she gets close, but sometimes just can't get over the edge into climax. So, I'd be fascinated to read that article you're working on... Please sit at the keyboard and finish!!!!

GREAT position!!! Howard's description is a good one, so I don't know how this could hurt any more/less than any other position... It puts the woman in a good amount of control... If anyone might be bruised, it would probably be the man, (think vigorous thigh workout) should the woman be too heavy or get too fervent... Very intimate position!

So, how about a Fall themed story? I have something sketched out that would be great for that...

It's great that you and your husband have such a close bond, and enjoy each other's pleasure as much as you do... I think that that is the key to successfully incorporating most of these toys into our love games... Let's face it... an engineer can make devices that we men can not compete with... as good a lover as I may be, I don't buzz or rotate, and my size is fixed... a girl can get a toy as big as (perhaps bigger than) she can physically handle... Intimidating? Could be, if there isn't that open communication between men and women... I think that sharing on a forum such as this opens minds, opens eyes, maybe opens hearts... The intimacy between lovers should be unubstructed... Your joy should be his, and his yours... So thanks for your insights...

So, Valntyn... Did you try again? Going over this post, I read that your first go-round was less than stellar... did you persist? Or send it to the island of unwanted sextoys? I had some issues getting a "good one" (defective casting on the first, dead vibe and bad cap on the second) but finally did... the folks at TT (especially Meaghan, thanks) are amazing... great sellers/fast and efficient in ebay-speak... I find that my GF has to be pretty worked up to reach for this toy... some oral/digital manipulation first, maybe even some penetration... and then it goes in with ease... It is not one she can get into "cold"... She, like you is tight, so this doesn't get the first-choice-grab if she's playing with herself... a smaller vibe or bullet, perhaps a rabbit for that... this comes out when playtime gets serious... at least that's how it works for us... Scattered Sins... How do you use it? Soft lights and candles, work up to it, or just go-for-the-gold? What has made this your fave? Is there some trick/technique/method you use with this toy?

Is it me, or does this seem like a scary-large dildo? My girl saw this in a store, and said "No way!". I would never assume to purchase her anything she was not perfectly comfortable with... Any other women out there with experiences of this huge toy? Were your reactions the same as my honey's? I suppose once you have given birth, nothing seems unapproachable, but is there joy to be had in such a huge love toy? And Katprr... What made you take the plunge (pun intended)? It is not inexpensive, so the non-returnable investment seems steep for the purchase of a toy one might not enjoy... What other toys are in your play regimine? Is your box full of toys that progressively led up to JH? I'm intrigued by this toy... need more info... Thanks for the review!!!

Just a thought, but what if TooTimid gave a discount toward a "next order" if feedback/reviews are given... to encourage open dialogue by the customers who purchase items... I read the reviews, but I think having more than one thought on the toys would be really helpful. I recently purchased a product which had some flaws in the first one sent, then the second didn't work... Had it not been for the satisfaction of multiple users, I may have bailed on that product... I did not, and I am glad, because it rocked my girl's world... We have used the third, good one, twice... and both times were great for her!!!! Thanks to the posters for their opinions, whatever they are... P.S. I'd like to hear more about others experience witht the John Holmes... I am considering buying it, but want a few more thoughts...

ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fake breasts look GREAT in a shirt, horrible naked... They are all so obvious, and so fake. They cause these unnatural creases when not hanging in an upright position... They feel fake, they move fake, they are fake... I competely prefer naturals... Whatever size... Of course, if they make a woman feel good about herself, she should be happy with them... I just wouldn't want to be with anyone who felt they needed liquid-filled-plastic-bags in her chest to feel like a complete woman...