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I think that you are doing the right thing. I mean she is working and trying to do it on her own. So she isnt using you are anything, I think that this relationship will last a long time. I have to agree with the others here. Yes and we women are a little stubborn at times and like to do things are self, we don't like to ask for help or anything else although we will at times accept it.

Congratulations to you all!!!!

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Blissful, well curiosity really made me take the plunge. Yes I have different size toys that have lead me up to this one. The biggest toy I had before JH is 2.5" in girth and about 9" long. Yes it is really enjoyable to me. I love the girth of this toy. As far as the investment, I since I am a woman who likes girth I was a little leary but after talking to my hubby he said go ahead and try it out. To be honest with you when the package came I was thinking to myself, oh my god what have I done, it wasn't as huge as I thought it was going to be so that is a good thing. This is not a toy though for the faint hearted. As far as joy to be had, OH YA, not only did my husband enjoy the show and also help. I love it!! In fact I still play with this toy.

I have not tested these ones myself so I am not to sure on how small they are. Here is a link to the discussion on them though. I can tell you that Ben-wa-balls you can get in different sizes depending on what you are looking for. Hope this helps some. http://forums.tootimid.com/index.php?showtopic=619

I completely agree with the post above. Howard is exactly right though. We as women have to be open and sometimes very direct with men in the bedroom. I am not saying to do it in a mean way. Trust me when I came to this forum I was calling my SO boring in bed and couldn't find anything to spice it up. Within a week, and reading all the tips here and advice I can bearly keep up with him Sex is a ADULT playground, you can laugh, play and in fact sometimes take your SO hand and show him the way to touch you, play etc... Men aren't mind readers although sometimes we think they are. Just my little bit of two cents.

Well Howard to answer a few of your questions about how I choose what to buy. Depending on my mood at the time I am shopping, has alot to do with it. When I purchased John Holmes that was a curiosity purchase. Most of my purchases have to do with what I am in the mood for. Since I own a few toys, I look for toys that have a new feature to them. For exsample; okay it vibrates, it has a nice color, but wait this one also has lights. So I buy it since there is a new feature. I have just recentley been getting into the dildo and I am a little amazed that even with out the vibration I really like them.When I also shop for a new toy, I look for something that does a few things, clitotal stimulation, anal or even the triple action. Sometimes I buy based completely on size and girth. I found this question to be just a little hard to answer since I like variety, but to be honest my mood really depends on what I buy. As far as if I have seen another site that gives honest reviews like this one, the answer to that is no. I have come across sites that say they give reviews, I have looked over there reviews and they basically consist of this toy was great, I loved it. Nothing in the review had any detail about the product just that they liked it. Hope this answers some of your questions.

Tyger, I am right there with you. With all five of my children I breast feed and although it was never talked about, it never happened. My husband never tried to ever suck on my breat when I was lactating. I was beyond the point of sore most of the time and engorged was an understatment, not including the exhaustion.

Mikayla, thank you so much for that added information. Just reading your post opened my mind up even more, in fact my husband just listen to me read this post to him. Since he was being to lazy to get up and read with me WOW!!! I am already in a sense taking the roll of the SUB, but since we just got started in this type of play which is new to us, besides the restraining and teasing and things we have also been into that. The actually role playing as a SUB or DOM has always caught my attention and now you help bring us to a whole new world. Thank you so much for such wonderful information.

I know that playing with my husbands nipples while I give him a blow job drives him extremely wild. I love having my nipples played with, but for my husband to drive me wild and even more horney he has to suck extremely hard on them. Allit, sorry I have to response on some of the coversation above. Mikayla and Howard are just trying to help and they have ALWAYS stated their HONEST opinion on things and how they feel. That is why this forum is so much better then any I have seen. You can ask a question here and you know you are going to get a STRAIGHT UP answer, nothing that beats around the bush.(no pun intended) I am well known for making grammer and spelling mistakes at. If you are finding help and learning from this forum then why leave it. Mikayla and Howard and all the others here are honest and straight forward a little criticism never hurt, last time I checked. I am with with the others on the Popo term, just wondering where it came from. I know at times I call my husbands penis something else depending on my mood.

Okay to answer your question I couldn't get it all the way in but close if only I was a little deeper. Oh my!!! Hubby loved the show, it felt more then incredible, and yes like a real penis. With this product I think I was glad that it didn't vibrate, I feel that if it did vibrate then I think I would have been overwhelmed. The suction cup on it held up way to well, if there is such a thing as to good. I really had to almost pry it off.

John Holmes Realistic Dong I had to check this product out for myself. Since I am a woman who loves girth, and curiosity was driving me crazy. I needed to find out for myself what John Holmes was all about. Also, since it is stated to make sure you understand the size of this, since there is no return it sent my imagination overboard. I received my order, and rushed upstairs to show my hubby that it had arrived. I ordered the Ultra realistic one, this product is a lot like cyberskin but it is actually what they call ultra 3. I opened the box to find that this product was approximately 3" in girth and about 12" long. WOW!!!! Inside the box came a little history on John Holmes and a silk cover, along with two bottles of cornstarch powder to keep this in mint condition. Here is a little bit of the basics; Yes this dildo is large, so it is defiantly not for the beginners, or the faint hearted. Since mine is the ultra realistic one, not only does it look like a real penis, feel like a real penis, but it has all the veins of an erect penis. This product has a suction cup at the bottom. Since I only have one other toy with a suction cup besides this one. I had to try it out, especially since this toy is a little heavy. Let me tell you the suction cup holds extremely well, I stuck it to the bottom of the tub, my mirror on my headboard, and the floor, it held up well when I was trying to release it. The toy itself has a unique curve to it. Since this toy is a lot like cyberskin, make sure you care for it the same way. This product is not hard to care for with a little antibacterial soap, warm water and then allow it to dry out completely, once dry apply the cornstarch powder that comes with it and pull the silk cover over it. The cover has a draw string so no need to worry about it getting dirt or anything else in it. I then put mine back into the box. Time to test it out!!! My husband decided to help me out with this. We started with a lot of foreplay, making sure I was good and hot. I grabbed my little bullet for extra stimulation. My husband then held it for me so I could back up into it. The key to this toy is LOTS and LOTS of lube and a lot of foreplay. I was on my hands and knees while my husband held it, once lubed I slowly began to insert it into my already wet pussy. OH MY, I could feel the feeling of full, and I mean full. I didn't have any problems with insertion since I used plenty of lube and went extremely slow, which aloud the inside of my pussy to adjust to the girth of this toy. I came so hard once I starting riding this toy, and with the bullet stimulating my clit it was absolutely wonderful. I have used this toy alone also, I attached it to the bottom of my tub, lubed it up and squatted over it and let me tell you if you like girth to your toys this product to me was beyond anything I could explain. I highly enjoyed it and would recommend it to the more advanced players. I rode it, enjoyed it, and still love playing with it. http://www.tootimid.com/john-holmes-realistic-dong-molded-from-the-legend-himself.html

Thank you Hrnychick, Just a quick question, since with my last child I ate everything in the world and would gain a few pounds then lose them. My little one gained weight jsut fine, I was just wondering if they checked your blood work for your Thyroid, it is not normally in the prenatal work up. They found out that was why I was losing and gaining weight during my pregnancy with my last child. Well then come to find out I had Grave's Disease to, which is also due to a Hyperthyroid. Yep after my last son I lost so much weight, I have to say LOL what a weight lose program. Well please keep us posted and updated.

WOW! I have read Mikayla's BDSM article a couple times and let me tell ya it is full of information.I totally agree with sending her article to this guy, and heck maybe here will come to this forum and get educated a little. I have to give it also to Bondagejunkie great job in discribtion. I learned even more. Sometimes you will be amazed at the information you can learn on here.

Clit Buddy I have always been a little skeptical when it comes to cock rings. When I saw this product it sure did get my attention though. I thought wow something that will not only stimulate my clit but also help enhance my husband's erection and vibrate him to. What more could a couple ask for? The clit buddy is made of a soft jelly ring, attached to it is a little rabbit for clitoral stimulation. This also has a small bullet attached to it. It requires 3 watch batteries, which are included. When I took this out of the box, I thought to myself, this is not going to stretch very well, since my husband is a little big on the girth side. I washed it up, and decided before I show my husband what we got, I will see how stretching it truly is, I pulled a little bit on it and I was truly amazed that it stretched really easily. Most cock rings go not only around your penis, but also around your package too, this one is just your basic ring with a huge surprise for the both of you. The ears on the little rabbit are firm, they extend approximately about an inch out. The bullet is multi-speed and is actually really quiet. Since this is a soft jelly it is extremely easy to clean, just a little antibacterial soap and warm water. We installed the 3 watch batteries and put the bullet back where it belongs. We of course started with a little foreplay since cock rings are best put on while semi-erect. My husband stretch the ring to go over his semi-erect cock, he was amazed at how easily it stretched over. My husband said," It fits just right it was not too tight at all, or uncomfortable. My husband gasped in pleasure when he turned on the little bullet. He stated,"That the bullet really does cause a lot of vibration." We tried this bunny in two different positions to see which one would be the best. I laid on my back and put my legs on my husband shoulders and I could immediately feel the little rabbit ears vibrating my clitoris, this little rabbit sure does have some power for only having 3 watch batteries. Thank goodness it is also a cock ring, I lost count how many times my husband said,"Baby I am going to come because of the vibration, I am not going to be able to last." Well to both of our surprise he did last longer. The other position we tried was doggie style. Which is also a great way for the ears to tease your clitoris, my husband said for him the pleasure was still the same. In this position make sure that the bunny ears are on the underside. My husband stated, " That not only did the cock ring fit firmly around him, but it did seem to help him last longer." We both had multiple orgasms. Normally my husband will come and that is it, thanks to this little couple buddy, once we both came the vibrations from the ring helped to bring my husband up once again. I have an entirely new outlook on cock rings. This is wonderful for any couple looking for a hands free clitoral stimulation with a cock ring that will add pleasure to him as well. My husband put it on the top of our toy box. Happy Playing!!! http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=5033

I agree with the other post. I am just wondering if he may be cheating, or if that is even a possiblity? I think you should check with a marriage counselor, also try a few of the other tricks mentioned above. Heck jump in the shower with him one morning totally unexpected and start playing with him. Just had to add a few thoughts to this.

I honestly have to agree Mikaylas post! I do believe that all adults that are older, heck even alot of the teens now days know that the inner part of a womens vagina is like in a sense, like a rubber band, this is the only way I can think to discribe it. I mean, like Mikayla says we push out babies and use toys etc... We do Kegels to stay in shape. This question just shocked me when I saw it. I say I extremely agree with Mikayla on this and her thoughts.

Hiya cat, well I did a litttle looking for you and this is what I found. Just wondering if this is what you were looking for? http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=5050 http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4985 http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=3474 There are two bullets with all of these, and a control. Let me know if this helps.

This product I would recommend for everyone.

I have at times gotten a belly cramps during anal sex, but that is also because 1 I just ate and 2 he was being just a little to rough, it went away when he slowed down. Howard is correct, I only had diarrhea once from anal sex, but I didn't have a bowel movement before so I am pretty sure that is what caused it. I lived and learned with anal sex the hard way, I sure do wish this forum was here when I started having anal sex years and years ago. Also have you read all the articles on anal sex to? Here is a link to them. http://www.tootimid.com/sex_education/anal...to_anal_sex.htm this is just one of the links but it will get you in the right area. Heck I even learned a few new things from these articles myself . Good luck !

I have to comment on this, I believe as a women that whether you have a long one,short one, big girth or small girth it all really depends on how you use it and how well you listen to your partner on what feels right and what doesn't. Just my opinion. I also really don't understand why you all are measuring yourselves unless you are having a pole on who is bigger, but why? I may be totally out of line here but I just had to post my thought on this.

Well it worked I use my blog just to talk about the things going on in my life. Just wanted to let you know it worked just fine.

I know that there are people that just don't like the dual action vibes and others that love them like myself. I was trying to make a poll on this but I couldn't get it to work right. For the men which one do you enjoy using on your SO and why? I myself am a lover of the dual action vibes, granted my first was just your basic vibrator nothing fancy but it did do its job. I have found that with the dual action I have multi Os easier and love the clitoral stimulation alot, it makes me hot hot hot.

Well Hrnychick, as a mother of 5 wonderful, and at times out of control children. I have been were you are. I also lost a child, he lived a week and died, due to many complications I had during my pregnancy. I tried again and had my last child. How did I know I didn't want anymore, I relized I liked my sleep Actually when my son died, I thought I was going to be done, then one day my hubby said he wanted another, and in a way so did I. Well we did since I have five but I made a promise to myself that if I had a healthly beautiful baby this time that I was going to be done. The way I actually relized that enough was enough, my little sister got pregnant, I say little but she is 30 and I was there when she gave birth and let me tell you it made me think for a minute I want one more. Then after holding my neiph and relizing that hey I don't have to get up with him every two hours and I can sleep threw the night I decided that I was done. My SO was like yours, he WASN'T getting fixed for nothing. We had our disagreement about it, I mean what is good for the goose is good for the gander right? In fact it is very simple for a man to get fixed, my friend went in got snipped and was out in no time. Well since the doctors were going to give me a full hysterectomy anyway my hubby had a way out, saying well you have to have this done either way so why should I get fixed then. Here is the questions I would ask myself. Now don't get me wrong, I love kids and all that comes with them, I must look how many I had. Anyway, here are a few questions to think about. Are you mentally prepared for the lack of sleep along with dealing with the others? This next question may seem a little rough but it isn't ment that way, so please don't take it wrong. Are you thinking about having another one maybe to try to replace the one that you lost? I know nothing will replace that pregnancy but sometimes couples think that if they have another one that it will help the pain of the lost go away. As you already mentioned the chose is yours and who gets fixed is a battle all it's own. This is only my opinion and outlook being a mother of 5 and also dealing with a death of my own child also. Good Luck and keep us posted!

Thrusting Rabbit This product is definitely a change to vibrators! When I received my package from TooTimid, and saw this vibrator that says it thrusts, rotates, and it vibrates. I thought to myself wow; I am not waiting for my hubby to get home. This looks too good to be true, and it is purple my favorite color. I opened the package. I noticed that it has two rows of pearls just below the tip of the head. This product also has ribs that are below the rows of pearls with a little gap between them. What else could I possibly want but a clitoral stimulator, attached to this vibe is a little rabbit, which is for clitoral stimulation. I did notice something different with this clitoral rabbit; the ears were a lot firmer. I know in the past that some women have mentioned that the ears didn't stay in place or were to flimsy. These ears are stiff and no need to worry about them moving out of place. This vibe is made up of two materials, the head of it and the rabbit are of a soft but firm jelly; the rib portion of the vibe is rubber. I noticed that there were also only two controls, although the package said it had five powerful levels of up and down thrusting, so I thought to myself hmmm wonder how I control the thrusting. I ran to get 3AA batteries. Once I opened the battery compartment and inserted the 3AA batteries. I started playing with the controls. The control on the right of this vibrator controls the speed of the vibration and the left controls the rotation. Well I found out that the speed of the thrusting is the same control for the rotation. The faster the pearls rotate the faster the vibe will thrust up and down. This vibe has some serious POWER. It is not very quiet but heck with this much power it sure wasn't as loud as I thought it would be. A little bit of a warning when I went to insert the middle battery the little metal piece where the battery goes fell out, no biggie though, it slides right back into place. I also found it easier to insert the middle battery first then insert the other two this will prevent that little metal piece from falling out. I just had to test this out. I lubed it up and headed off to my bed. This vibe almost made me jump out of my bed. I slowly began to insert the vibe and the rabbit ears fit perfectly on my clit. I turned both buttons to high, I didn't have to do a thing but hold it there. This vibrator was thrusting in and out of me so deeply it brought me to have multi orgasms within minutes. The pearls spun perfectly and I could feel each row against my vaginal wall. The clitoral stimulation was amazing the ears never moved out of place, and brought some serious vibration to my clitoral area that I couldn't even possibly begin to explain except to say; intense, wonderful, orgasmic pleasure. The Deep Stroker Rabbit is defiantly the love toy that does it all and will bring the ultimate orgasm. What an amazing product. This product is also very easy to clean just a little antibacterial soap and water, make sure not to get the battery compartment wet when washing. Since this vibe is jelly and rubber either a silicone lube or a water base lube will do. Do you dare to let this vibe thrust you? http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=5037