Valntyn

*rofl* Hurrah! Sounds like a fantastic night!! Oh yah, and... meooww...

Good for you! Congratulations and welcome to TooTimid! It's great to have you with us!

Recently on the forum, there was a thread about cooling toys for a different sensation. Don’t feel you can run fast enough through your parent’s house or school dorm, keeping your toy hidden & hoping it keeps its temp? Try Climax Bursts Cooling Lubricant instead! The clear bottle shows its blue bursting beads filled with Vitamin E & its simple pop-top keeps everything tidy. With hubby scheduled to work night shift, we were able to have a mutual masturbation morning, lounging in bed enjoying each other. He squirted a little cooling lube on my clit. Within minutes I felt cool & fresh down below. I asked him to blow where the lube was & the cooling sensation intensified. I tested some on one of my nipples & was rewarded again. I blew a slight stream of air on my moistened nipple & it sprang to life, hardening from the chill. After I was sated, I nudged hubby onto his back & squeezed lube onto his already erect penis. I started stroking, massaging the lube into him, waiting to see if he felt the cooling action. Before we could get that far, though, I had to reapply the lube; what was there had turned sticky & useless. After a bit, he started to feel the coolness & I blew a small stream of air to increase the sensation, but before he could enjoy it, I had to add even MORE lube. It didn’t last long AT ALL. He liked the coolness on his shaft, but felt it was “so cool it almost hurt” on his sack. I added a tiny drop to one of his nipples while he finished himself off with TooTimid lube, but he didn’t feel anything. Lying there afterward, we played with our lube-tacky hands, our fingers sticking together. Clean-up of this water-based, glycerin-free lube is super easy. Once water hits tacky skin, it immediately turns slick again. This IS a FUN lube. Though it’s NOT a lasting lube for intercourse or male masturbation, it would work great for a woman taking time to enjoy herself. I definitely plan to use this again during me-playtime!

Good to see you again -- great self-portrait!

If he's "not a back-door kind of guy," I'd suggest other "boy toys" he can play with, like cockrings or masturbating sleeves. I've posted about our favorite cockrings here in this other thread and Thurisas (my husband) just recently wrote a review for his first sleeve here. Take a peek also through the shopping guide's related sections and read what reviews there are for the items listed there. Good luck! I hope you find something you both enjoy!

Our date nights are a little more slow-paced. The computers stay off. We'll snuggle in blankets on the floor while we watch a movie & munch popcorn. We'll play games, laugh and talk. It's not much, but it's relaxing & it's together. We have a lot of day-trip dates. We love going driving and visiting one of a number of favorite spots (mostly waterfall areas) for photographing, hiking, and just being outdoors. Hopefully we're able to keep that tradition at least a few times this year -- with gas prices as they are, it saddens me that might not happen. Anyway... our dates are always about just being together. We try not to talk about sad things that may be happening at that particular time, or work issues, or "to do" lists... nothing that puts pressure. Have fun with whatever you two choose to do!

If it doesn't state on the package that you can freeze/microwave the toy and you're not comfortable trying it to see if it'll work, then obviously don't. As Thurisas said, to a lesser degree, warm and cold water work just as well, are safer for you and are safer for the toy. Even if the package doesn't say anything about using water as a temperature-changer, your glass dildo is perfectly safe "soaking" in water.

Welcome to TooTimid!

I agree with all my fellow posters have said before me and just wanted to welcome you to TooTimid.

Welcome out of lurky-world! Looking forward to reading more from you.

I'm stickin' to my firm belief that we'd all be better off if we went back to horse and buggy. Of course, as Thurisas reminds me, it'd take him three days to get to work instead of an hour...

*laugh* While I'll admit warm is luscious, I definitely recommend trying cold. It's a jolt, but wowie is it a nice feeling! I usually laugh while I writhe. And it doesn't last too long; your body will heat it up right quick.

So glad to see such wonderful reviews for this product. It's been at the top of my wishlist since I saw it a few weeks back & I can't wait to get it!

*giggle* That IS cute!

Awesome

Aw, sorry you had a dickens of a time collecting your cow! If it is what happened, I'm also sorry some inconsiderate schmuck wrecked your fence. I hope it's a fairly easy and inexpensive fix (both monetary and time-wise) & none of your other critters find the opening til it's fixed!

*rofl* I HAD to look this one up (saved ya the trouble, Synirr!! ) and find Sony says it's not a real ad. Can't yet find the origin... and I'm not quite sure I get the connection, either, but it made me do a double-take! *giggle*

Welcome to TooTimid! You'll find this an excellent, friendly place to have as your first adult web site!

When I read this question, I had to kinda chuckle and look to my husband for a quick conversation. We've talked about everything under the sun (and then some), but we've never actually used labels before, so it was odd to just spit-out a response to the thread. To me, love is love; it doesn't matter which gender the recipient happens to be. I've been deeply in love with one woman and had a long-distance romance with another. I also believe the heart can love more than one person at a time. I'm in a committed loving relationship with Thurisas (my husband). That means, no matter what, he's the one with whom I want to spend my life. I'm not currently active with any other person, male or female, but I'm happy being with either. So, I suppose if I were to answer the original question (for the first time ever *chuckle*), I would say I'm bi-sexual.

Welcome to TooTimid!

Count us in the minority-yet-average category, also. It varies, of course, but our average "sex count" is once or twice a week. I know Thurisas would LOVE it to be more, and of course I would, too, but with his busy work schedule and my health issues, we don't always mesh. Often I'm either too tired or just not feeling very attractive. I try to work on the things I can to improve, though, because I miss how often we used to make love and I'd love to get us back to bein' hot & sweaty all the time! You're probably right-on about the average amounts for posters being so high because this IS a site geared toward sex & sexuality. I, too, remember something about the average being 1-2 times a week.

Same here! I can't add much more to this -- Thur & I have had this conversation in-depth and we're on the same wavelength. He said it all for me, too! *roflrofl* You got us cracking up with the lawyer comment, thanks! As far as "but usually marriages are not open..." All I can say is yes, you are correct, but not all people, thus not all marriages are the same. Every person is different, every person has their own beliefs (religious, political, nutritional, etc., etc.) and so long as they're not hurting anyone should have those beliefs respected (not necessarily believed in by others, just respected). Exactly. If the couple in question has already discussed everything, has decided they're staying together, have a wonderful relationship otherwise, AND BOTH PARTIES ARE IN-THE-KNOW and OKAY WITH one partner (or both) going elsewhere for the sexual stimulus, no, I don't consider it cheating. My main concerns are 1. if they really have discussed everything and tried to fix any possible reasons for his lack of sex drive and 2. that both parties are in agreement with whatever arrangements they come up with. If there are other issues (that we don't know about, for example) they refuse to work on or if they're not as rosy-perfect as she says they are, and she's just going off elsewhere behind his back because she's not gettin' it at home, then I don't understand why they're still married and they ought to think about getting out.

Great review, honey! When I was looking at the package this morning, I noticed this (oh so soft) sleeve is made of silicone, so if you buy one (WHEN you buy one, WHEN... ), remember to use a water-based lube and not a silicone one! You don't wanna lose this baby!

*laugh* Oh FINE, you can jump in... *TAG*

*rofl* Like you weren't gonna anyway!